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fantalimon23 · 22/03/2024 08:14

I know this will attract judgement but I'm not asking for criticism, just discussion.

Never been a smoker but recently took up vaping. Dh does it and so do a few friends. I was curious. We are going through a very stressful time in life - young dc and no help, demanding job, house renovation. I was winding down in the evenings using booze and junk food which wasn't good for me either so I suppose I just wanted to try something that helped relax me. I do enjoy it but I don't think I'm 'addicted' per se, for example I don't take it out with me during the day and don't miss it. I just use it in the evenings.

Anyway bizarrely I have health anxiety which is quite ridiculous when I think of all of the unhealthy habits and coping mechanisms I have. But I do worry about the vape. There is so much conflicting info out there - loads of sources saying it's much better than smoking others saying it's as bad or worse. All the alleged health issues they can cause but no definitive studies as they've not been around long enough.

So I guess I'm wondering if you vape, why? What does it bring you? And do you worry about the health impact?

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fantalimon23 · 13/04/2024 17:57

No I'm not circling around it. I realise that starting vaping as a non smoker was silly. But vaping on its own is still enjoyable (to me) and gives you a buzz. I tried smoking in my youth as many people do and hated the taste. But the effects of vaping are enjoyable like booze is.

I'm not justifying my reasons for starting. I was curious so I tried it and found I liked it. I probably am a bit addicted now, not to the point where I'm constantly on it because if I was I would take it everywhere with me. I make a conscious choice not to do that.

I mention it being better than smoking not because I'm an ex smoker but because I suppose I squared it in my own brain as not being that unhealthy of a habit in its own right.

But I'm under no illusions that it's bad for my health.

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I know this. It was stupid to start, just like it's stupid to take up any unhealthy habit. I do understand that.

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Not really no. Maybe that would be a good starting point.

Obviously I realise it's not a healthy habit but I suppose I keep thinking 'it can't be that bad if the nhs recommends it as a stop smoking aid' and yes I know that doesn't really apply to me since I wasn't a smoker to begin with. But surely vaping will have the same health implications as a stand alone thing regardless of your smoking status before.

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fantalimon23 · 13/04/2024 17:41

@tenderstem81 I don't think so. I still don't take it out with me during the day and I barely think about it. But I know it's highly addictive and that point will come if I don't start cutting back.

I'm not delusional about it.

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Idontknowwhattodo78 · 13/04/2024 17:38

I vape. But I used to smoke. Anecdotally, I am way healthier now. When I smoked I would get regular chest infections, needing antibiotics, I would struggle in cold weather, had a wheeze. Now I vape, I’ve had no chest infections, no wheeze, I regularly run 10k plus with no problem. It worked for me. But I refuse to condemn op for taking up vaping - I took up smoking which was clearly very, very stupid. But you do the best you can with what you know at the time and I try not to judge other people.

fantalimon23 · 13/04/2024 17:38

Still vaping. But planning to cut down and eventually stop altogether.

I know it's not good for me. I know I was never a smoker which makes it seem all the more ridiculous. However I enjoy it and when you enjoy things it's hard to give them up.

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Auntieobem · 13/04/2024 17:17

I've vaped for almost 10 years now. I was a heavy smoker and vaping helped me stop. I vape at lowest nicotine available.

Vaping is much much safer than smoking. I dont care if it looks stupid, or if some people don't like the smell.

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Minimili · 26/03/2024 02:47

OP it sounds like you enjoy vaping and don’t want to quit so I don’t really know what you are asking? In the nicest possible way did you want people who vape to comment so you feel better that it’s not just you?

I started vaping because I smoked 30 a day for 15 years and was coughing and out of breath, every time I gave up smoking I put on weight and with a history of eating disorders I couldn’t cope with that.

The thing is about vaping is that it’s far easier to get addicted to, you don’t run out easily like a pack of cigarettes, there’s no “final puff” and you get used to high levels of nicotine. Before I started vaping I was doing well on patches and I really wish I’d stuck to it.

My partner had never smoked but started having a few puffs on my vape, then he bought his own and now both of us are hopelessly addicted. It’s got to the point that if my vape isn’t within easy reach I keep unconsciously looking for it and I have 5 in case one goes flat (and I’m great at losing them. I saw someone post about having them on a string round your neck and thought that’s a great idea!)
Its also very antisocial and you still have to go outside most places to vape, I know you haven’t got to that point yet but you most likely will.

You wouldn’t like it if your kids did it so don’t be a hypocrite, give it up while you can, you will seriously regret it if you don’t. I think it’s far more addictive than smoking and there will be other ways for you to cope.

I’m also being a hypocrite for saying this but i really wish someone had warned me, it also gets expensive when it’s long term. I promise if you carry on the cravings will be too strong for you to wait till evening, unless you’ve been addicted to nicotine you underestimate the power of it.
Imagine feeling starving hungry, you get irritable and all you can think of is food, you know that there is food available but it’s not that healthy- it doesn’t matter in the end because the cravings get too strong.
In the end you’ll reach for that vape and then it’ll never be out of your hand.

I don’t think anyone will persuade you otherwise and you’ll feel validated by the people who have admitted they do vape, but you asked for advice so here’s mine.

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DeeCeeCherry · 26/03/2024 01:47

I've been vaping for the past 3 years. I dont find it at all as addictive as smoking a cigarette and find it easy to put down, just pick up when I fancy a puff.

When I did smoke cigarettes I used to cough a lot, especially at night. House and furnishings smelled of smoke, windows dirty. Id be conscious of my clothes and hair smelling of cigarette smoke. None of that is an issue now. I will never smoke a cigarette again.

I don't drink. So this is my 1 'vice'. I like vaping. Maybe in years to come a health issue will be discovered but I feel the same is the case for the multitude of poison and chemical and radio frequency 'beauty treatments' that many put into their bodies in fruitless pursuit of eternal youth. So i guess vaping will be the hill I die on (probably literally)

I don't vape. But I like a drink and a cake etc. How many obese people like a biscuit knowing it causes multiple diseases and diabetes etc. we are all not perfect,

Margo2023 · 26/03/2024 02:19

Never vaped, was a 4 a day smoker, all ways after 10pm. Not had a cig for a month now and don't miss it at all. I spent months feeling guilty and wondering how I could give up and it was just such a habit, like I needed to buy cigs to have them in the drawer but in the end, I wasn't enjoying that kick. Anyway, I went old turkey, had my last cig and couldn't even finish it, the thought now makes me feel sick and that is only a month in. Used to wake up with a wheeze and that has gone now and sleep so much better too. Just a few things to consider

DeeCeeCherry · 26/03/2024 02:08

I can't believe some are pretending vaping is worse than vaping because cigarette smokers, smoke less. Of course they don't - this is just saying anything for the sake of it. What do you think chain-smoking means...? Cigarettes contain 1000s of chemicals, never thought I'd see the MN day of cigarettes being put forward as a better alternative to vaping. Illogical arguments make no sense.

Whytoodee · 26/03/2024 02:00

YouDidntEvenAskIfSheWasThereMoriarty · 23/03/2024 14:04

It isn't marketed at children. Adults like nice flavours. You don't hit 18 and suddenly only want broccoli and gravel flavour.

Seriously!? It can be both. It's marketed at both. And the side that clearly markets it to children is unethical.

So little critical thinking these days. Can't see nuance.

Whytoodee · 26/03/2024 01:56

The thing is the friends I know who pick it up when they fancy a puff fancy it so often it's practically surgically attached to their hands. They think it's just a puff and another... Constantly. Compared to periodic cigarette breaks

The non stop nature of it makes nights out with friends impossible for me because it triggers my asthma.

Especially as so many pubs allow vaping indoors

People eating McDonald's and having fillers don't effect me like that

I feel so bad for children growing up in homes with constant vaping

Passive smoking causes asthma in children ot even developing in later life. Vaping likely harms them too

DeeCeeCherry · 26/03/2024 01:47

I've been vaping for the past 3 years. I dont find it at all as addictive as smoking a cigarette and find it easy to put down, just pick up when I fancy a puff.

When I did smoke cigarettes I used to cough a lot, especially at night. House and furnishings smelled of smoke, windows dirty. Id be conscious of my clothes and hair smelling of cigarette smoke. None of that is an issue now. I will never smoke a cigarette again.

I don't drink. So this is my 1 'vice'. I like vaping. Maybe in years to come a health issue will be discovered but I feel the same is the case for the multitude of poison and chemical and radio frequency 'beauty treatments' that many put into their bodies in fruitless pursuit of eternal youth. So i guess vaping will be the hill I die on (probably literally)