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fantalimon23 · 22/03/2024 08:14

I know this will attract judgement but I'm not asking for criticism, just discussion.

Never been a smoker but recently took up vaping. Dh does it and so do a few friends. I was curious. We are going through a very stressful time in life - young dc and no help, demanding job, house renovation. I was winding down in the evenings using booze and junk food which wasn't good for me either so I suppose I just wanted to try something that helped relax me. I do enjoy it but I don't think I'm 'addicted' per se, for example I don't take it out with me during the day and don't miss it. I just use it in the evenings.

Anyway bizarrely I have health anxiety which is quite ridiculous when I think of all of the unhealthy habits and coping mechanisms I have. But I do worry about the vape. There is so much conflicting info out there - loads of sources saying it's much better than smoking others saying it's as bad or worse. All the alleged health issues they can cause but no definitive studies as they've not been around long enough.

So I guess I'm wondering if you vape, why? What does it bring you? And do you worry about the health impact?

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Tattletwat · 22/03/2024 08:58

I really don't get why you would vape, if you have never smoked it's really stupid.

I can understand people doing it to quit but most people aren't quiting they are just swapping one habit for another.

They are also annoying vapers who do it in inside public areas I don't want to smell your shitty vapes.

Also when people who say they aren't harmful, there are plenty of market or street sellers selling them from who knows where with unknown ingredients who haven't bought them from regulated suppliers.

MaloneMeadow · 22/03/2024 08:58

DaBlackCatsAreDaBestCats · 22/03/2024 08:51

No, nor me. I like vaping. Bet those feeling embarrassed for us think nothing of their own embarrassing habits

You love filling your lungs full of toxic chemical smoke. Delightful! It’s not something I’d be adverting or boasting about as if it’s a good thing

ForNaiceHiker · 22/03/2024 08:57

Waitingfordoggo · 22/03/2024 08:49

It’s quite sweet that some posters think that people with an addiction will stop having this addiction because other people think we look silly 😂 You’re welcome to feel embarrassed for me but I assure you I won’t notice.

no one even remotely suggested that

the vaping is making you read things that don’t exist!

CrispsandCheeseSandwich · 22/03/2024 08:56

Waitingfordoggo · 22/03/2024 08:49

It’s quite sweet that some posters think that people with an addiction will stop having this addiction because other people think we look silly 😂 You’re welcome to feel embarrassed for me but I assure you I won’t notice.

I don't think anyone who said that thinks that that will make anyone stop. They were just giving their opinion.

I also dislike vaping and think it looks ridiculous when people are constantly sucking on them. I don't think that me thinking this will make anyone stop though. Of course you wouldn't even notice that I don't like it, I don't go up to people and say "I think you look silly", no one would be aware of my opinion.

ForNaiceHiker · 22/03/2024 08:55

DaBlackCatsAreDaBestCats · 22/03/2024 08:51

No, nor me. I like vaping. Bet those feeling embarrassed for us think nothing of their own embarrassing habits

one doesn’t preclude the other

HungryBeagle · 22/03/2024 08:53

If people are using vapes as a way of quitting cigarettes then fair play to them. I just don’t understand why you would take it up if you’ve never smoked. Generally I don’t care what people do in their own homes, but to have it breathed over you in the street is antisocial and rank.

DaBlackCatsAreDaBestCats · 22/03/2024 08:51

Waitingfordoggo · 22/03/2024 08:49

It’s quite sweet that some posters think that people with an addiction will stop having this addiction because other people think we look silly 😂 You’re welcome to feel embarrassed for me but I assure you I won’t notice.

No, nor me. I like vaping. Bet those feeling embarrassed for us think nothing of their own embarrassing habits

Waitingfordoggo · 22/03/2024 08:51

@Mumof2teens79 Yes they contain nicotine. Nicotine in itself is not harmful. The harm in cigarettes is not caused by the nicotine but all the other chemicals.

Zanatdy · 22/03/2024 08:50

I find it bizarre people who have never smoked vape. As someone who smoked for 13yrs of my life don’t get addicted to nicotine as it’s such a hard thing to give up. It’s been years since I quit now and I’m so glad I did. Vapes weren’t a think when I quit but I know people who vape constantly (Ex smokers)

Sev3nWonders · 22/03/2024 08:50

I vape as a replacement for when I stopped smoking a good few years ago, it’s just as addictive but not nearly as expensive for me.

I use a MOD with rechargeable batteries, rebuildable coils and make my own juice from websites that you can buy all the bits from so it costs me about £10 a month.

I’ve never used the disposable ones and don’t understand why someone who has never smoked would start? You will become addicted no matter what you say, most of them have nicotine and that’s the thing you become addicted to so as a non smoker, I would give them up just now op.

Waitingfordoggo · 22/03/2024 08:49

It’s quite sweet that some posters think that people with an addiction will stop having this addiction because other people think we look silly 😂 You’re welcome to feel embarrassed for me but I assure you I won’t notice.

ForNaiceHiker · 22/03/2024 08:47

We are going through a very stressful time in life - young dc and no help, demanding job, house renovation.

So… life.

Telekoma · 22/03/2024 08:47

ForNaiceHiker · 22/03/2024 08:43

my friend who vapes says she always vapes so much less when visiting me because i ask her to go outside

could be a good way to getting your child to reduce!

Edited

She would only reduce for the length of her visit, so it's a bit pointless.
To be fair to her, she's not constantly puffing on it.

Mumof2teens79 · 22/03/2024 08:46

fantalimon23 · 22/03/2024 08:14

I know this will attract judgement but I'm not asking for criticism, just discussion.

Never been a smoker but recently took up vaping. Dh does it and so do a few friends. I was curious. We are going through a very stressful time in life - young dc and no help, demanding job, house renovation. I was winding down in the evenings using booze and junk food which wasn't good for me either so I suppose I just wanted to try something that helped relax me. I do enjoy it but I don't think I'm 'addicted' per se, for example I don't take it out with me during the day and don't miss it. I just use it in the evenings.

Anyway bizarrely I have health anxiety which is quite ridiculous when I think of all of the unhealthy habits and coping mechanisms I have. But I do worry about the vape. There is so much conflicting info out there - loads of sources saying it's much better than smoking others saying it's as bad or worse. All the alleged health issues they can cause but no definitive studies as they've not been around long enough.

So I guess I'm wondering if you vape, why? What does it bring you? And do you worry about the health impact?

No, absolutely nit.
They are a complete unknown. Probably safe than smoking definitely more harmful than not.
And unlike junk food and alcohol you are inflicting it on others around you and the children living in your home.

I really don't see the attraction....if its "relaxing" it must contain some sort of drug such as nicotine which will be addictive. If not then what is the point?

crumblingschools · 22/03/2024 08:45

Why would an adult vape if they have never smoked?

It’s a nightmare that vaping is no longer just seen as a means to stop smoking, although I assume it was never seen as a long term alternative. So many young people now addicted to the habit, some being hospitalised due to dodgy vapes, losing school days as being caught vaping on school grounds is an automatic suspension.

MaloneMeadow · 22/03/2024 08:44

Squiggles23 · 22/03/2024 08:38

No offence OP but it’s like watching adults walk around with dummy’s.

The amount of disposable vapes littering the parks and streets is awful.

Cant understand how any adult who hasn’t smoked would take it up. Very unattractive habit.

This. I get second hand embarrassment for them

ForNaiceHiker · 22/03/2024 08:43

Telekoma · 22/03/2024 08:41

I don't mind them vaping in my house. I quite like the smell of them.
I won't allow tobacco products to be smoked in my home though.

Edited

my friend who vapes says she always vapes so much less when visiting me because i ask her to go outside

could be a good way to getting your child to reduce!

MaloneMeadow · 22/03/2024 08:43

HungryBeagle · 22/03/2024 08:41

I think only someone who vapes would describe the smell as ‘minor’. The sickly sweet smell when you pass people vaping in the street is 🤢

Having a cloud of thick, white, sweet smelling smoke blown over you is absolutely revolting🤢 Boils my blood that people think it’s acceptable to completely disregard those around them

Summerhillsquare · 22/03/2024 08:43

Yes. Helps keep me awake as I'm exhausted. I find it much more addictive than smoking though!

GinBlossom94 · 22/03/2024 08:42

I've just gone back to smoking from vaping. I was vaping a ridiculous amount, constantly in my hand, a 600 puff vape equals about 50 cigarettes. I'm using rollies, and having 10-12 a day currently. First couple days were hard as like I said, vape was always in my hand, but smoking I have to go outside, I wouldn't smoke in my car, even going to the shops it doesn't occur to me to take them. I do plan to fully quit, but feel more in control seeing how much I'm smoking

Notfeelinghunkydory · 22/03/2024 08:42

I smoked for over 25 years quit and started vaping almost 2 years ago. I know I need to quit the vape but it's now a habit.

MaloneMeadow · 22/03/2024 08:41

No, I don’t. It’s a disgusting, antisocial habit and is increasingly being used as a gateway drug to smoking in young people, never mind the health impacts which we don’t even know the full extent of yet

Telekoma · 22/03/2024 08:41

ForNaiceHiker · 22/03/2024 08:36

ask them to vape outside

no way would i have smoking or vaping inside my home

I don't mind them vaping in my house. I quite like the smell of them.
I won't allow tobacco products to be smoked in my home though.

HungryBeagle · 22/03/2024 08:41

I think only someone who vapes would describe the smell as ‘minor’. The sickly sweet smell when you pass people vaping in the street is 🤢

Waitingfordoggo · 22/03/2024 08:40

I do but only because it’s the only way I can stay off the fags. I smoked for 20 years and tried to give up numerous times using patches, sprays, Champix, hypnotherapy, Allen Carr’s book, cold turkey… You name it, I tried it multiple times. Vaping was the only thing that worked.

Although I appreciate it will take time for evidence to be gathered, I recently heard an expert from Kings College saying that all the current evidence suggests it is significantly less harmful than smoking (because it doesn’t contain tar and all the other shite that’s in cigs). I do accept though that it may still be harmful and wait to see what the evidence is. But ultimately it makes no difference to me personally because at the moment it is either vaping or smoking for me, and I believe vaping is less harmful.

But taking up vaping as a non-smoker is madness, I can’t understand why anyone would.