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Neighbour has rented out our property abroad without permission!

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unsurebut · 19/03/2024 21:10

My father has a property in Spain. It's been in the family since the 70s as a holiday home. Until 3/4 years ago my father travelled there regularly and the place was occasionally used by other family. Then my father had a catastrophic stroke and wasn't able to travel for a while and the place wasn't used as much.

The neighbour there offered to keep an eye on the place in return for his family being able to stay there on the odd weekend/couple of weeks in the summer. He's a nice guy and has done a lot to modernise the property. My father then gave him permission to rent out the flat when it wasn't being used, again, for the odd weekend / couple of weeks in the summer, nothing permanent or long term and we were to be kept informed about who was staying there and when in advance of it being rented out.

Fast forward to this year and my father has recovered enough to travel. We've booked to go there in June, all very excited. My father emailed the neighbour, only to be told that it's not possible because he's rented the property out until January! Not only is this not permitted, we weren't even told! I am absolutely outraged and my father is very cross. He's emailed the neighbour to say that we will be arriving on said dates and that's non-negotiable, the neighbour has replied to say that he's away this week so will respond next week. Meanwhile, flights have been booked, all on the assumption that we were to be notified in advance of it being rented out.

There's communication between my father and the neighbour referring to the agreement, but no specific contract or anything, and the arrangement has worked well until now. I think what has happened is that the neighbour has become used to us not using it and has been renting it out far more than we were aware.

So what do we do now if he refuses to get the 'tenants' to leave?! Surely their contract with the neighbour is null and void because he doesn't have permission to rent it out on this basis? The neighbour DEFINITELY knows this.

AIBU to demand the people leave so we can use the flat as and when we want?

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neilyoungismyhero · 20/03/2024 01:04

We have had squatters in our Spanish property for a year now. The police and courts are aware but despite a denuncio (type of warrant ) being issued they still live there and the local police don't give shit. Spain is a law unto itself.

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 20/03/2024 01:02

What the neighbour has been apparently doing does sound shocking, but I can kind of see how one thing might have turned into another and he justified it to himself that he wasn't really doing anything much wrong.

He still should have been passing on the rent money (less his commission), though, if he hasn't been doing so.

How have the bills been managed and who has been paying them? Surely your Dad would have noticed a big increase in usage (and thus cost) when he's expecting to pay for an odd security light, heating on at 3 degrees to prevent pipes freezing in winter and maybe a freezer - and then there's suddenly ongoing full occupied house-level usage of all the utilities?

TakeOnFlea · 20/03/2024 00:57

Every post seems to start with "THIS" on this thread, except they're all different 🤔

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 20/03/2024 00:54

You don't even know if he's telling the whole truth about tenants, or whether he's maybe been allowing a friend or family member to stay there long-term.

That would explain why your Dad hasn't been receiving any money that would have made it obvious what was going on, if he's been letting somebody close to him stay there free.

Or alternatively, maybe, if he's been 'forgetting' to tell your Dad about renting it out on an ongoing commercial basis, he may also have been 'forgetting' to pass any rent on as well.

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 20/03/2024 00:49

Mylovelygreendress · 19/03/2024 21:33

Best thread ever.

And it wasn't even a thread - just a post that totally won a general (long) CF thread, along with a few responses to other people's open-mouthed questions!

thebestinterest · 20/03/2024 00:15

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caringcarer · 19/03/2024 23:53

This sounds dodgy. Your Dad has been receiving money but didn't know the property was rented out? This is one of the reasons I don't let out my French house. I just let family and friends borrow it on dates I don't want to use it. My adult DC are always telling me to rent it out and make some money on it but you never know who you might get renting it. If your Dad has received money and they have a long term rental contract until January there will be nothing you can do. It's not the renters fault. Your Dad should have known he wouldn't be getting so much rent from it being empty.

samarrange · 19/03/2024 23:52

I think what has happened is that the neighbour has become used to us not using it and has been renting it out far more than we were aware.

If he has been renting it out and not paying you/your Dad the rent, that's fraud. If he has been paying, though, you should have a record of the payments. And you should also have a contract with the full names of the people living there, because the neighbour is in effect just your agent.

For example, the people who are going to be in the house until January arrived when? If they are not yet in the house then the lease can be cancelled. If they have been there since this January or earlier, then you should have been seeing some rent by now.

So either it's an open and shut case for the police, or you barely have a leg to stand on. But we are missing the level of detail we'd need to tell between the two.

TERFCat · 19/03/2024 23:44

Does the neighbor have a wife/ partner? Or is his property empty too?

slore · 19/03/2024 23:41

Nobody hear can help you, you need to urgently seek expert advice in Spain.

Astonetogo · 19/03/2024 23:41

In theory you are within your rights to expect the tenants to vacate, but in practice you cannot expect an innocent family to be made homeless when they could have been living there for 4 years!

What a mess. Agree with need to get legal advice fast.

QuaintLemur · 19/03/2024 23:33

You say it's been rented out without permission, but also that your father gets the rent, minus commission for his neighbour. Which is it? If he's getting rent he's in an arrangement to let it out, and his neighbour is acting as his agent. Sort out exactly what's been going on before you do anything or you might be acting illegally.

determinedtomakethiswork · 19/03/2024 23:33

Why are any of you surprised if your father has been receiving rent?

Codlingmoths · 19/03/2024 23:33

owlsinthedaylight · 19/03/2024 21:27

Has the neighbour rented it out to a single long term tenant? Or is it fully booked on an AirBnB basis to different people?

This is nuts. You need a Spanish property lawyer. They aren’t squatters as they think they have a tenancy. Is there some crime the neighbour has committed? Hopefully! I’d go as planned though, yell and suggest they move into neighbours house or he finds them new accomodation, as you plan to be a royal pain in the ass until it’s fixed. Can you sell a property while ‘tenanted’ there?

Rainbowshit · 19/03/2024 23:33

Ugh. My parents ended up having to pay the electricity bill of the people renting their property in Spain. Its a minefield .

0sm0nthus · 19/03/2024 23:28

RandomMess · 19/03/2024 21:17

Spanish law may be different to UK law so I think you need to look into Spanish property and rental law fast.

This.
My concern would be that the neighbour has done it because he knows how to get away with it.

CurlsnSunshinetime4tea · 19/03/2024 23:11

do i have this right the neighbor who's oversight and upkeep was initially helpful, was given permission to do short term lets with your father's property.
the problem is your father did not have much of this in writing.
equally once your father had begun to feel better then he should have given the neighbor fair warning.
i can see how a neighbor in this situation rather than go through the hassle of multiple short term lets would simply do one longer let.
how long since your father's stroke?

dinglethedragon · 19/03/2024 23:11

LordPercyPercy · 19/03/2024 21:55

I hate to say it but if it's Spain you're fucked. Squatters have a huge amount of rights, you even have to pay for their lecky and water. Their mere presence is deemed a legally binding tenancy agreement and getting rid of them can take years through the courts.

THIS I'm afraid, a friend of mine took YEARS to remove squatters from his parent's holiday home in Spain, again it started as an informal arrangement set up by his sister, but the temporary guests decided to stay.

Bonitalazenia · 19/03/2024 23:10

I have a place in Spain and this happens a lot. Friendly neighbours profiteering from absent owners. For that reason we don’t give anybody the keys. Sorry this has happened but I don’t have any specific advice.

clarebear111 · 19/03/2024 23:07

As someone who has been and is continuing to go through an extremely stressful property situation (albeit in this country), I cannot stress enough how important it is to lawyer up and keep your head. Sometimes the law is an ass and an extremely frustrating one at that, and it sounds like Spanish squatters rights may fall in to that tbh. I would really carefully consider doing anything like changing the locks because that could backfire hugely. Good luck.

Changingplace · 19/03/2024 23:04

trekking1 · 19/03/2024 22:26

So your father gets the income but didn't do the math and realise the income is much more than what you would get from renting it out here and there? That doesn't add up

Agreed, surely from the amount of rent money coming through he’d know it was being rented out much more frequently/on going and not the odd week here and there?

Rabbiehdbek · 19/03/2024 22:57

So if your dad receives the rent money then he must of knew from the amount it wasn’t a odd weekend?

SparkyBlue · 19/03/2024 22:35

AppropriateAdult · 19/03/2024 22:19

Honestly, I'd take a deep breath, wait until the neighbour comes back and have a proper conversation with him
about it. It sounds like he's essentially become an unofficial property manager for your dad over the last few years, and up until now has been really helpful, ensuring that your dad has had an income from a property that he hasn't been able to use himself. He may have got a bit over-enthusiastic and, assuming your dad wasn't going to be travelling out again at this stage, felt it was ok to plan ahead a bit further than previously - obviously this was wrong, but I presume he's not keeping all the rent for himself or anything? Or do you think he's been withholding money up to now? Either way I think rushing in with solicitors and police and locksmiths before you've even got a handle on the situation would be very unhelpful.

This. You've said that the neighbour had been a great help to your Dad so I think he thought getting a longer term tenant in would be the best thing to do.

Hopingitsahornyfinger · 19/03/2024 22:35

RandomMess · 19/03/2024 21:17

Spanish law may be different to UK law so I think you need to look into Spanish property and rental law fast.

This!

Hope the house is ok Op and your father gets possession back but I'd be wary.

ThePerfectDog · 19/03/2024 22:31

trekking1 · 19/03/2024 22:26

So your father gets the income but didn't do the math and realise the income is much more than what you would get from renting it out here and there? That doesn't add up

This, I’m confused as to how he didn’t realise- unless you’re saying the neighbour has been stealing the money