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Do you believe in Ghosts?

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dottiedodah · 17/03/2024 13:55

just that really ,found some interesting things online that made me think .YABU ghosts dont exist YANBU could be something in it

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WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 17/03/2024 18:05

GivingYourHeadAWobble · 17/03/2024 14:30

I work in an NT property that's just over 700 years old.

You wouldn't believe the ridiculous amount of people who ask if it's haunted.

Just WHY?? Do they think people never die in new builds, or blocks of flats?

If ghosts existed they wouldn't be exclusive to old houses, would they? 🙄

Well, I came across a poltergeist in a modern shop a while ago.

I was in a cosmetics and perfume outlet shop and felt this eerie presence. I sensed a ghost. Suddenly the ghost lady - I could see the spectral outline of a young woman - started throwing high-end cosmetics into my bag. I was very spooked and tried to leave the shop.

Unfortunately, none of the store detective, the manager, the police or the magistrates believed my explanation. Sooo closed minded.

Mull · 17/03/2024 18:03

I don’t believe but, more importantly, I think they should believe in themselves

<Ted Lasso>

savethatkitty · 17/03/2024 17:57

Have personally experienced one myself, so absolutely yes!

iloveshetlandponies · 17/03/2024 17:55

I think they're real

NooNakedJacuzziness · 17/03/2024 17:54

Nah - no-one ever sees ghosts in 80s shellsuits or 70s flares, always old fashioned long dresses.

Createausername1970 · 17/03/2024 17:44

I have had a couple of weird things happen, that I have no explanation for.

I think there very well could be other stuff occurring that we aren't aware of. That's as much as I would like to say.

dottiedodah · 17/03/2024 15:46

Questionforhelp Interesting idea .sounds plausible .I am on the fence really as to whether or not they exist.Why I started the thread ,esp regarding Anne Diamonds experience See above

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QuestionForHelp · 17/03/2024 15:40

I read an interesting post on here a while ago making the point that if you think of a film which are a "real" depiction of what actually happened in the past without any actual human agency in the humans in the film - just a record of it.

That shows that in principle moving images that actually show what happened in the past can exist.

who is to say that the same thing can't happen in some way in the universe - so these sightings of bomber planes flying over Derwent valley or of soldiers marching and so on - might be the same as a film in some sort of time shift recording by the universe. so what the people that see these things see is 'real' in the sense that it is an actual image depiction of people from the past but it is not 'real' in the sense of being humans from the past who have human agency or can actually do anything.

I thought this was a really interesting idea and wish I could find the post. It's a theory I'd like to read more about as it has a grain (just a grain mind!) of possiblity about it.

I don't believe in ghosts btw. I do believe that people in a traumatised state can believe they see things but that this is dream/hallucination not real ghosts.

dottiedodah · 17/03/2024 15:30

Elphame Thank you ,dont know how to do this ,yes thats the one just wondered what you made of it?

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Bobbotgegrinch · 17/03/2024 15:28

I've seen one repeatedly, but no I don't believe in them.

Elphame · 17/03/2024 15:23

dottiedodah · 17/03/2024 15:03

Shiveringinthecountry The reason I started this thread was because of Ann Diamond, and a story of about 20 years back was looking for a house ,an old lady answered and the EA said doors were locked and no one there .So a ghost or not ? Some online info as well

Just went looking.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2004556/Anne-Diamond-The-ghost-tried-sell-house.html

The ghost that tried to sell me her house: Anne Diamond used to scoff at stories of haunted homes until she had a very spooky encounter

‘They found her lying on the living room floor; she’d been dead for two weeks.' Those words were the final twist in the tale of my very own ghost story.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2004556/Anne-Diamond-The-ghost-tried-sell-house.html

dolskarella · 17/03/2024 15:16

Nope, absolutely no proof

ButterflyTable · 17/03/2024 15:07

Yes I’ve seen one in my parent’s old house, more of an apparition maybe. My great - grandmother walking past the front room. I wasn’t scared to be honest just a bit confused as to why she should be there. Never seen her again or a ghost since.

Coincidentally · 17/03/2024 15:06

MartinsSpareCalculator · 17/03/2024 14:05

No. If ghosts were a thing, we'd be absolutely overrun with them.

This!!!!!!!!!

dottiedodah · 17/03/2024 15:03

Shiveringinthecountry The reason I started this thread was because of Ann Diamond, and a story of about 20 years back was looking for a house ,an old lady answered and the EA said doors were locked and no one there .So a ghost or not ? Some online info as well

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Wooloohooloo · 17/03/2024 15:01

No but I do love ghost stories and horror films. I'm also an atheist.

mylifeisprettygood · 17/03/2024 14:56

I've had quite a few experiences that make me believe. I was walking home from work and I was on a path that was popular with dog walkers and heard footsteps and a dog panting behind me so I stood aside to let them pass and there was nobody there. Another time I was in a hotel with my young son. He was sharing my bed and asleep and I turned off the light and closed my eyes but then had a feeling to open them again. I did and I saw a woman leaning over the bed looking right at me. I closed my eyes tight, terrified but didn't scream as I didn't want to frighten my son. I opened them again and she was gone. In a house I used to live with my husband I kept having a feeling that things were being rearranged on a shelf in our bedroom. He denied moving stuff. We were sat on the bed together and a bottle of aftershave turned full circle and moved on the shelf. We watched it happen together.

dottiedodah · 17/03/2024 14:50

I was just looking for whether many people believed in the ghost thing or not.Up to recently havent been on this site as rather scared! So apologies if anyone has posted before !

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OldTinHat · 17/03/2024 14:47

Too many to list.

I've posted on this subject many times.

Shiveringinthecountry · 17/03/2024 14:46

Yes, and I love ghost stories so please tell some :)

dottiedodah · 17/03/2024 14:45

Here in Dorset there is an old road through Wimborne .It is known as the" Avenue Of Trees " people have reported Roman Soldiers running .I wonder if its real or the effects of 1 too many at the pub!

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ShowOfHands · 17/03/2024 14:44

OhBumBags · 17/03/2024 14:10

No, it's all a pile of shite and the people who like to 'recall their ghostly experiences', are generally lacking in both attention and personality in my experience.

I'd sooner sit and listen to someone telling me about a massive long dream, and that's boring enough.

This is the sort of thing I think in my head but don't dare type!

If there were ghosts, there'd be some evidence beyond "a feeling" or "something out of the corner of my eye". The only people I know who believe in ghosts are the definition of credulous.

dottiedodah · 17/03/2024 14:41

Microdisney I visited the Tower of London in 2019.And unconnected to this was an article I read about Anne Diamond this week in a totally different situation ,re an old lady in a house viewing who may or may not have been a ghost .I am on the fence and was looking for others opinions was all.

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decionsdecisions62 · 17/03/2024 14:40

@passthepenguin the more you read on this subject the more stranger it all gets. However when it's being debated in Congress you start to think what? Wait is there something here?

Marmut · 17/03/2024 14:39

I do. Although I would only confess if I can do it anonymously 😂 I had several ghostly experiences. So, I know it was just not a hear say. The first one was the sound do someone running on the hallway back and forth at 3 am, just outside my bed. It was there even though I was fully awake, so I just switched the light and put my headphones on. The second one, I was with my younger brother and we saw some kind of silhouette of someone (white robe gliding type of movement) entering our house early in the evening. But there was no one there when we checked. The strange thing was that we were in the middle conversation when this happened. For some unexplained reason, we just abruply stopped our conversation then looked at the silhouette at the same time. The other one was when I did night hike on a mountain with my friends. We walked along a route with cliff on our left hand side. Yet, along the route we heard heavy loud breathing coming from the cliff side. We all heard it.