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I am not voting for Labour or Con…

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EddyF · 14/03/2024 08:13

What party can I vote for that may have a chance? I do not want to waste a vote but may have to. As a young(ish) Black woman, none of the above present me. I was born here as were my parents. Originally from East Africa. Spent a lot of holidays there as a child but not so much as an adult, otherwise I would seriously think of going back to live there.

I have always voted Labour but they are disappointing. For the first time, I am thinking of not voting but it does not sit right within me.

I might try the Green Party I guess.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 20/03/2024 13:10

WTF are Believers?

Redrosetat · 20/03/2024 12:46

ntmdino · 16/03/2024 19:48

Unless you're in Brighton, a vote for Green is a vote for the Tories in the same way that voting Reform helps Labour.

In most election years, it wouldn't matter so much. This year, though, is something of a special case because the country's on the verge of collapse.

Waste of time in Brighton now too. They were atrocious and now they’ve gone. Left the city in a mess.

BIossomtoes · 20/03/2024 12:38

Wow. That’s scary.

DuncinToffee · 20/03/2024 12:36

Here is a 6 step plan from Reform on how to stop the boats.

Can any of their voters explain what they mean by 'believers'?

I am not voting for Labour or Con…
BIossomtoes · 16/03/2024 20:03

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/03/2024 19:49

I think they'll do well in the upcoming Council Elections. Which could translate into more than a couple of MPs in the GE later this year.

It never did with UKIP. We had an entire UKIP town council near here at one point with a couple of district councillors. They never managed to get a parliamentary seat without Tory defections.

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/03/2024 19:49

ThisQuickFinch · 16/03/2024 01:46

Honesty I’m pretty happy to see Reform polling as it is (in line with UKIP’s best ever performance at a GE).

Realistically, they’d be doing well to win 1 or 2 seats, but they could cost the Tories several.

I think they'll do well in the upcoming Council Elections. Which could translate into more than a couple of MPs in the GE later this year.

ntmdino · 16/03/2024 19:48

bakewellbride · 16/03/2024 18:10

I vote green. Dh votes labour.

Unless you're in Brighton, a vote for Green is a vote for the Tories in the same way that voting Reform helps Labour.

In most election years, it wouldn't matter so much. This year, though, is something of a special case because the country's on the verge of collapse.

Redrosetat · 16/03/2024 18:11

Greens were the worst. They did absolutely nothing. Totally incompetent. Waste of time.

bakewellbride · 16/03/2024 18:10

I vote green. Dh votes labour.

PushkaMcgee · 16/03/2024 17:32

I'm like many, have no clue who to vote for. Our local MP is Conservative has been in post since 1997 and the area I live in has a huge Conservative majority. There is no way this will be overturned.

However, this MP, does, as far as I'm concerned, nothing for the local community. Has no social media accounts and doesn't, I believe, even have email. If you want to contact him you have to send a good old fashioned letter.

It drives me mad that he will once again be our consituencies voice in Parliament.

So, I'm stuck, I will not vote Conservative as I have in the past, I don't want to vote Labour, but feel that any other vote will be wasted, but equally, wouldn't want to not vote as who knows there maybe many like me in my consitituency who feel the same and the change has to start somewhere.

I'm edging towards Reform but it depends if anyone will stand for that party where I am.

The whole lot right now is a total shit show.

RubyOtter · 16/03/2024 17:19

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Redrosetat · 16/03/2024 16:43

I agree. Reform are as great for the Labour Party as Bernie Sanders was for Donald Trump. Or to put it another way, Reform are as bad for the Tory Party as Jeremy Corbyn and Ed Milliband were for the Labour Party.

BIossomtoes · 16/03/2024 14:47

Indeed. A Tory MP said a few weeks ago that a vote for Reform is a vote for Labour. It was one of the few occasions when they’ve been right.

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ThisQuickFinch · 16/03/2024 01:46

Honesty I’m pretty happy to see Reform polling as it is (in line with UKIP’s best ever performance at a GE).

Realistically, they’d be doing well to win 1 or 2 seats, but they could cost the Tories several.

SnapdragonToadflax · 16/03/2024 00:10

Livelovebehappy · 15/03/2024 23:09

I'm not a Tory supporter. Over the years I've voted for the party who i think represents what i want at the time. I've voted for both Labour and tory. I'm not a dimwit who votes for the same party my entire life just because my parents and their parents voted for them. But whilst I wont be voting tory this time (i did at the last GE), I also won't be voting Labour. Its bad for politics that these are really the only two real choices we have, which is why i think its good for party's like Reform to enter the mix.

But Reform is just UKIP repackaged. There's always been a party like that in British politics - different name, same shite.

Chocolatefrenzy · 15/03/2024 23:19

Reform.....all the way

excessivescreentime · 15/03/2024 23:13

@WalkingaroundJardine interesting! Sounds like a good system, assuming you can get out of it if you have a good excuse. Presumably they don't actually enforce it much, but having the rule there makes a cultural expectation that everyone votes. Which is a good thing.

Livelovebehappy · 15/03/2024 23:09

BIossomtoes · 15/03/2024 22:26

That’s your credibility gone - I don’t believe a word about Labour voters turning to Reform now. Talking of knuckledraggers, even three party Lee wasn’t as extreme as that - he went via the Tories.

I'm not a Tory supporter. Over the years I've voted for the party who i think represents what i want at the time. I've voted for both Labour and tory. I'm not a dimwit who votes for the same party my entire life just because my parents and their parents voted for them. But whilst I wont be voting tory this time (i did at the last GE), I also won't be voting Labour. Its bad for politics that these are really the only two real choices we have, which is why i think its good for party's like Reform to enter the mix.

Houseplanter · 15/03/2024 23:04

aramox1 · 15/03/2024 22:06

Vote Labour. No point in doing anything else in this system. Get this government out!

But I absolutely don't want a Labour government

BIossomtoes · 15/03/2024 22:26

Livelovebehappy · 15/03/2024 22:22

Let's be honest here, most of the knuckle draggers are in the Labour Party. Rough as bears arses.....

That’s your credibility gone - I don’t believe a word about Labour voters turning to Reform now. Talking of knuckledraggers, even three party Lee wasn’t as extreme as that - he went via the Tories.

Livelovebehappy · 15/03/2024 22:22

ntmdino · 15/03/2024 21:44

They don't have the funds available to properly contest enough seats to get near to power. And, with the SNP vote turning almost exclusively Labour (which is all but inevitable), Reform won't be able to make a significant dent in the chances of Labour getting in. They will, however, take most of the knuckle-dragging vote away from the Conservatives.

Let's be honest here, most of the knuckle draggers are in the Labour Party. Rough as bears arses.....

aramox1 · 15/03/2024 22:06

Vote Labour. No point in doing anything else in this system. Get this government out!

ntmdino · 15/03/2024 21:44

Livelovebehappy · 15/03/2024 18:53

Wouldn’t be so sure. There are many Labour stalwarts up here in the North who are turning towards Reform. I would say that more Labour supporters are leaning towards Reform than Tory.

They don't have the funds available to properly contest enough seats to get near to power. And, with the SNP vote turning almost exclusively Labour (which is all but inevitable), Reform won't be able to make a significant dent in the chances of Labour getting in. They will, however, take most of the knuckle-dragging vote away from the Conservatives.

WalkingaroundJardine · 15/03/2024 21:11

excessivescreentime · 15/03/2024 14:40

OP, I completely understand.

However, personally I think it's important to cast my vote for a non-extremist party, even if they don't have a chance of getting in. Votes are still counted and considered by politicians even if they don't make a difference in the first past the post system. Eg if loads of votes go to Greens that tells the two main parties to pay attention to that demographic. So any vote for a "mainstream" party ie Greens, Lib Dems, is still a vote worth casting. Also I like to vote, as a vote against fringe parties that I don't agree with (ie Reform).

Actually given this year it seems tories will be out, maybe now is a nice opportunity to vote for whoever you like most without having to worry about tactical voting - if that has previously been a consideration for you.

I agree. I am a British ex pat living in a country where voting is mandatory. At first when I arrived here I thought it was terribly unreasonable to force people to vote but then I found out you don’t actually have to vote, you just need to turn up at the voting station and get your name ticked off. Most people then just go ahead and vote anyway, since they are there. If you don’t turn up you get a small fine.

As a result, voter participation rates in the voting system is very high in this country- around 90% I believe. I live behind a primary school which acts as a voting station and it’s great to see the long lines on election day.
And I think it does keep extremism at bay since the discouraged people are no longer just staying at home but putting in a vote.

@EddyF I am a person of colour too and I think it’s really important for us to vote in these crazy times. I did opt for the Greens in the last few elections but my vote gets redistributed to my second choice if the first party does not get in, which is usually Labor. That does give The Greens a say in the Upper House but I don’t think that would be the case in the UK from what I remember.
Many Labour type parties all over the world have had to move toward the right of centre to get votes. To me this is not ideal but tactically better than ending up with US style populism, which is what the Conservatives seem to be edging towards. If Trump gets in, it will be because many people stayed at home.