Not really an AIBU as we've already got it but after thoughts on considerate usage really!
DD is 10 and has been learning drums for 18m and has been keen for her own kit for yonks, but I have always said no: We live in a terrace, don't have the space, need to prove you're committed (time wise) etc.
Well almost on impulse I have bought her one for her birthday 🤷🏼♀️😂 reasons being she never commits to anything and we've been impressed at both that and her ongoing progress, plus have moved house (still in a terrace but now has her own room)... It just seemed right.
However, we are Still in a terrace and have only just moved in so I really don't want to piss the neighbours off too much! 😂
Suggestions from those who have experience both sides appreciated! She hasn't been given it yet but gets it later today (tomorrow at the latest)...
Name changed as quite outing if you know us (or are our new neighbours!!) 😁