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What's going on with retail workers?

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IWouldRatherBeOnHoliday · 08/03/2024 14:59

Recently I've found it really irritating going to supermarkets/large chain stores and finding that the store assistants don't seem to be doing their jobs the way they used to. I often pop out on my lunchbreak to run errands and, whilst I accept that sometimes there might be queues due to customer demand etc, I don't expect to have to wait 5 minutes to be served while two colleagues have a chat! The worst seems to be my local Asda, where every member of staff seems to find it annoying having to deal with customers.

I don't want to put people down, and I know many store assistants do work incredibly hard. I'm also well aware that some customers are extremely rude, and so I don't feel like I should say anything when I am being inconvenienced.

Is it because staff feel disengaged and underappreciated by their employer? I have a lot of sympathy for their feelings if that's the case. BUT can they not also recognise that customers are just trying to get their shopping done, and its actually really rude and disrespectful not to serve them properly?

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usernother · 08/03/2024 17:24

Having worked in retail, please make a complaint if this is happening. Even if you don't know the names of the staff involved. It's really not acceptable and management needs to know.

enchantedsquirrelwood · 08/03/2024 17:17

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 08/03/2024 15:01

You can serve yourself most of the time in most supermarkets.

Well you can if you don't buy anything too complicated, or too light, or needing approval.

enchantedsquirrelwood · 08/03/2024 17:17

Or the post office. Pharmacies and post offices are not happy unless you have to queue/wait for ages.

scorpiogirly · 08/03/2024 15:30

The worst place for this is the doctor's surgery. Waiting and waiting at the window just to collect a prescription when the staff members are just there chatting.

IWouldRatherBeOnHoliday · 08/03/2024 15:06

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 08/03/2024 15:01

You can serve yourself most of the time in most supermarkets.

Yes and that's where the issues often arise. Waiting 5 minutes to get approval for an alcohol purchase, or because the packing scales don't like something, because two assistants are having a conversation instead of coming over.

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ancienticecream · 08/03/2024 15:05

YANBU! It doesn't just apply to supermarkets. I went into a John Lewis cafe recently, and me and another lady had questions for the hot food counter. Three young-ish (early 20s) employees were just having a chat right in front of us, and not even about work.

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 08/03/2024 15:01

You can serve yourself most of the time in most supermarkets.

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