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To be a bit worried for Bianca Censori?

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SlightlyJaded · 03/03/2024 18:33

The outfits are getting less visible and from the pictures I've seen, she doesn't seem to be that comfortable with her public nudity.

The sheer brown tights with no knickers and braless blue jumper combo was bonkers, and she seemed to be holding her phone over her almost naked crotch in the restaurant in Italy. The 'nearly nude' looks seems to be getting more and more extreme, whilst Kanye accompanies her wearing puffer jackets and tracksuit bottoms.

Before Kanye, she was often in tight leisurewear - a bit like Kim K - but she didn't have this fetishy, exhibitionist thing going on. I don't know... maybe she is loving it, but I do worry that he is coercing her into this and she just feels humiliated and a bit ashamed. I hope I'm wrong, but each new outfit makes me feel even more uncomfortable. .

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LibbyL92 · 03/03/2024 22:44

There seems to be deep sadness in her eyes in all the photos I see of them papped.

either that or just completely not with it. Very very vacant.

its sad. Kanye clearly isn’t stable either.

SemperIdem · 03/03/2024 22:28

I understand that stills can be used to tell any story you wish really.

However she never appears at ease, never mind happy.

Julia Fox called time on their relationship/contract before it got this far. Better people around her at the time, perhaps. Bianca seems quite isolated, with the reports of her family/friends “wanting” to get in touch, implying they have not been able to.

determinedtomakethiswork · 03/03/2024 22:22

TheSparkofCreation · 03/03/2024 18:46

How do you know she isn't loving the attention and hoping to create enough of a profile to become a brand?

Because she looks so utterly depressed?

Frequency · 03/03/2024 22:18

I don't think she looks captivating. She is undeniably beautiful but the recent pictures of her all make me uncomfortable. She looks miserable and ashamed in all of them. She's hunched over in most of them or folded into herself as if she is trying to make herself as small and invisible as she can.

I don't understand why they are being published. I get it makes money but the tabloid press is facilitating the abuse of this young woman. It's very uncomfortable to watch.

BlackFriYay · 03/03/2024 21:44

TempName247 · 03/03/2024 20:36

It is so strange but I also find her quite captivating as she is stunningly beautiful with a practically perfect figure, she quite literally looks gorgeous in a bin bag! I hope she is not being controlled and humiliated but it looks very concerning, she does not look happy.

I wonder If it's all about Kanye showing her off to get back at Kim, knowing that the publicity the outfits attract will mean she always gets to see and hear about it. IE a "look at what a perfect woman I've got now, aren't you jealous" type thing.

Edited to add - we all know how much the kardashians love surgery, it must sting a bit to see her ex with somebody who looks like Bianca does without the need for surgery. It's all about looks in their world of vanity.

whatdidshedotogetahillnamedafterher · 03/03/2024 21:41

I think both of them look utterly desperate. I would cross the road if I happened on either of them. I know this show will not end well I feel it and will not be surprised. What a pair of tossers.

lambhotpot · 03/03/2024 21:28

She always looks off her face.
Its like west wants her to look like kim.

Dymaxion · 03/03/2024 21:20

How do you know she isn't loving the attention and hoping to create enough of a profile to become a brand?

I applaud this sentence for it's absolute death grip on the word 'brand'. It's ironic because I think her partner is utilising brand in a more traditional sense.

ThirtyThrillionThreeTrees · 03/03/2024 21:17

She looks absolutely miserable, lost and dazed, drugged or zombie like.

Those who are saying she's enjoying it, do you know anything about body language or non verbal cues?

seafronty · 03/03/2024 20:51

Againsttheflow · 03/03/2024 18:53

The whole world is worried for her.

Actually, the whole universe.

F1ymetothetoon · 03/03/2024 20:49

That pap shot taken in Italy when he was clearly receiving a BJ from her in public 🤮 She didn't exactly look like she was into it.

Mummyofbananas · 03/03/2024 20:40

MiltonNorthern · 03/03/2024 20:10

She could leave if she wanted to? So what, she can't really be in an abusive relationship because 'she could leave'? I didn't know that was the barometer of whether a relationship is abusive or not! Do you know how coercive control works? Kanye is disturbingly controlling as a person and his behaviour towards KK when they split was unhinged. He's a dangerous man. Any woman in a relationship with him is probably going to experience domestic abuse.

agree- I get the impression he was controlling with kim- or as much as he could be.
I understand he has problems but it was scary how he was when they split.

mum2jakie · 03/03/2024 20:40

TempName247 · 03/03/2024 20:36

It is so strange but I also find her quite captivating as she is stunningly beautiful with a practically perfect figure, she quite literally looks gorgeous in a bin bag! I hope she is not being controlled and humiliated but it looks very concerning, she does not look happy.

She really doesn't look stunning or captivating, walking around in public essentially naked trying to cover up her own fanny!!

TempName247 · 03/03/2024 20:36

It is so strange but I also find her quite captivating as she is stunningly beautiful with a practically perfect figure, she quite literally looks gorgeous in a bin bag! I hope she is not being controlled and humiliated but it looks very concerning, she does not look happy.

qazxc · 03/03/2024 20:35

She always seems uncomfortable, ill at ease, unhappy to me. I would imagine if she was an exhibitionist, she would be strutting around proudly.
Kanye has a track record of controlling what his partners wear.

Frequency · 03/03/2024 20:35

She's not the same as an abused woman who can't leave.

This is bullshit. Money does not make you immune from domestic abuse and control. Abusers can take a toll on their victim's mental health, breaking them down slowly and making them believe they have no option other than to stay because no one else will want them/no one will believe them/everyone knows they are the abuser really/if they leave x,y, and z will happen, etc etc etc.

TheaBrandt · 03/03/2024 20:33

Legally if an adult has capacity there’s not much you can do

ChimneySweepLiverpool · 03/03/2024 20:30

It's awful, it's a situation where I find I can't look away because I'm so confused by it all. If you look back at photos of her from the past, she looked nothing like this.

I've read headlines saying her family are worried for her but not sure if they were from a credible source

CringeQueen · 03/03/2024 20:26

I’d hate to be the person at their table after them and have to sit on the chair she’s had her basically bare fanny all over. Or maybe that’s why she’s carrying the cushion 😂

SlightlyJaded · 03/03/2024 20:24

Agree she wasn't dressing like a nun pre-Kanye, but I would argue that her 'style' has crossed over from 'sexy' to 'humiliating'. The palette is now Kanye-nudes/pastels and what was tight/a bit 'peekaboo' is now completely sheer and there is no 'peekaboo' about it. It's in your face nakedness. That completely transparent 'coat' looks exactly like an office 'clear paper recycling bin bag' - it's not sexy, it's not figure hugging, it's just a clear plastic fucking bag.

She was a bit provocative before - this is exhibitionism/fetish. It's a very different thing and I suspect he has forced her way out of her comfort zone and she looks completely out of her depth.

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MiltonNorthern · 03/03/2024 20:16

I didn't know who Julia fox was before she dated Kanye. But I read an interview with her. She's a 'wild child' with a 'past' who liked dressing provocatively, and who enjoyed the out there side of Kanye until she realised he was bad news. I can totally believe Bianca censori was similar - probably saw a lot she liked in Kanye; there's nothing wrong with a consensual d/s dynamic after all, and he has the glam and money that is probably exciting, but by this point it seems to be way beyond fun. It's creepy and worrying.

Treehuggingmutherfunkin · 03/03/2024 20:13

Shes happy with thw attention why anyone thinks she isnt involved

MiltonNorthern · 03/03/2024 20:10

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 03/03/2024 18:57

My opinion too.
Look- we know her name and are talking about her.
She could easily leave him if she wanted to. She has enough people who are there to help her. She's not the same as an abused woman who can't leave. Whose partner is a pillar of society. Or no money.
I thought k she wants to be Kim.
I wish she had been arrested in France. Or Italy. That was disgraceful.

She could leave if she wanted to? So what, she can't really be in an abusive relationship because 'she could leave'? I didn't know that was the barometer of whether a relationship is abusive or not! Do you know how coercive control works? Kanye is disturbingly controlling as a person and his behaviour towards KK when they split was unhinged. He's a dangerous man. Any woman in a relationship with him is probably going to experience domestic abuse.

Cornettoninja · 03/03/2024 20:09

TheSparkofCreation · 03/03/2024 19:18

But this is a new thing for her - and only since she's been with Kanye

Nonsense. She's was an exhibitionist before she met Kayne. Google her.

And there are plenty of photos of her laughing with him whilst parading around almost naked. She's loving the attention and your concern is misguided.

Okay, I took your advice and googled her pre-kayne. She seems to have been into this look before him, a very sexualised bdsm style - she really seems to like wearing tights as full body stockings…

now they just both disturb me! Given bdsm isn’t exactly unusual I think it’s safe to say that most fans of it manage to look decent in pubic and there’s literally no reason for dressing this way in public and forcing people to be part of their fetish (not readers on the internet who have a choice but members of the public around them).

SlightlyJaded · 03/03/2024 19:58

She looks like she is trying to cover herself in all of these. I debated posting pictures because it feels a bit exploitative - but they're out there and I really can't see how you can she looks happy or in control.

To be a bit worried for Bianca Censori?
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