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To move to Yorkshire from the south coast on my own?

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MintyCedric · 02/03/2024 22:26

It’s a medium term plan (DD currently at uni and elderly mum would make it difficult atm) …probably in the next 3-5 years…I’ll be in my early fifties by then.

I’ve lived on the south coast since I was toddler, but these days I have about 3 friends here…one is single but has a very active social life, the other two are married with family commitments.

I fell in love with Yorkshire when I visited for the first time about 8 years ago. I feel like it has all the cultural stuff that interests me, but with less pretension and I love the countryside up there. I’d also be able to get a nicer house than my current one with no mortgage…a major consideration as my mortgage currently runs until I’m 67 and I have limited pension provision.

Despite all these pros, my DD and my best mate are being quite negative and unsupportive. They feel I ‘made more effort’ here to socialise I wouldn’t want to move, but it’s really not about that…I just want a fresh start.

AIBU to think I could move in my fifties, on my own and create a new life for myself?

And if anyone has any opinions on Harrogate and surrounding areas or Otley/Burley/Poole in Wharfdale as places to live…bring it on!

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RampantIvy · 17/03/2024 22:22

A trip to Betty's @Cleaningupthemess?

BirthdayRainbow · 17/03/2024 22:18

I'm feeling emotional. See this is why I want to move home. Everyone is so welcome and lovely.

Cleaningupthemess · 17/03/2024 22:17

Oooh are you all from Yorkshire ?

Yes born here and lived here all my life.
Id be very careful if considering Yeadon/Horsforth that you aren’t going to be affected by the flights in and out of Leeds Bradford Airport.

I reckon a Yorkshire meet- up for existing, prospective and new Yorkshire dwellers would be a great idea. Perhaps a pub lunch or afternoon tea . Keep us up to date with your property searches.

RampantIvy · 17/03/2024 22:15

Objectrelations · 17/03/2024 22:00

Ooh exciting - once we are all there we can all have a meet up!! I'm going to be looking at York, Thirsk, Pocklington and Knaresborough!

I like Pocklington.

BirthdayRainbow · 17/03/2024 22:10

I'm from Yorkshire. Currently living in Kent. Can't wait to move. Not sure where I'll end up but know where I need to be near.

Thekatzenjammerkid · 17/03/2024 22:06

Oooh are you all from Yorkshire ?
Thirsk and Knaresborough aren’t actually that close. North Yorks is big !
My budget isn't great tbh. Bit depressing as I’m coming from somewhere where property prices are cheaper so I’ll likely end up with something even smaller than I’ve got lol.

MintyCedric · 17/03/2024 22:06

The Yorkshire Refugees club!

I’ve found a few things I like, but obvs need to check out the specifics of the areas they’re in hence the trip over summer.

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BirthdayRainbow · 17/03/2024 22:03

Great idea. I'm hoping that when I am ready to look I can have a similar thread to have help. I'm finding rightmove overwhelming. Even if I find something I like the houses are all listed with different agents so how I coordinate viewings when I live in the SE feels impossible.

Objectrelations · 17/03/2024 22:00

Ooh exciting - once we are all there we can all have a meet up!! I'm going to be looking at York, Thirsk, Pocklington and Knaresborough!

BirthdayRainbow · 17/03/2024 21:59

Snap @Objectrelations same age, moving this year.

Objectrelations · 17/03/2024 21:57

I'm doing this in 2024!! I'm 52 and ready for a new start!!

Thekatzenjammerkid · 17/03/2024 21:54

Agree. I want to move back to York and my budget is your top one. I’m struggling to find anything as nice as I have now tbh but I live in a much cheaper area.
Harrogate seems to be full of apartments and flats at that price although some are in really grand buildings !
Have you thought of Otley ? Nice small town vibe but no station I think ? Or Ripon ?
https://www.yorkshirepost.co.uk/lifestyle/homes-and-gardens/affordable-alternatives-to-golden-triangle-hotspots-866569 Good read !

Hostilehabitat · 17/03/2024 21:32

I’m not sure what your requirements/essentials are but that’s not a huge budget for those areas. Make sure you get good advice if you look at buying somewhere as you might end up on a less desirable street.

MintyCedric · 17/03/2024 20:54

@Thekatzenjammerkid

£220k would leave me mortgage free.

£265k absolute max I think. That would reduce my mortgage payments by 40%

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Thekatzenjammerkid · 17/03/2024 20:49

What’s your budget ? Some of these places are desirable and expensive. So much money sloshing about in that area it’s unbelievable.

Lifeinlists · 17/03/2024 20:25

Ah thanks @Sidebeforeself that's a bit clearer.
Hope they can hang on in the Premiership if they get there.

Sidebeforeself · 17/03/2024 20:13

@Lifeinlists @Peeppuandpopo hit the nail on the head! It’s one of our mantras ( along with the very creative “Leeds!Leeds!Leeds!”)

RampantIvy · 17/03/2024 20:10

MintyCedric · 17/03/2024 19:23

Well, having been doing more research over the weekend I now have a shortlist of places to check out in the summer, although am debating moving my trip forward to May half term if I can.

So, am going to be looking at:

Harrogate
Knaresborough
Otley/Pool in Wharfdale
Yeadon

Spending the Easter hols sorting my house out, getting valuations and looking into the mortgage logistics and plan to make a decision around the summer holidays I think.

Strike out Yeadon and put in Guiseley. Better transport links into Leeds from there.

Peeppuandpopo · 17/03/2024 20:05

Leeds Utd I presume ? 😂 who are doing brill.

Lifeinlists · 17/03/2024 20:03

@Sidebeforeself

Ive lived in Leeds all my life ( hence the user name) and think it’s a great city.

I'm intrigued, or maybe a bit dim. Please can you explain your username?

Blossomgate44 · 17/03/2024 19:55

MintyCedric · 17/03/2024 19:23

Well, having been doing more research over the weekend I now have a shortlist of places to check out in the summer, although am debating moving my trip forward to May half term if I can.

So, am going to be looking at:

Harrogate
Knaresborough
Otley/Pool in Wharfdale
Yeadon

Spending the Easter hols sorting my house out, getting valuations and looking into the mortgage logistics and plan to make a decision around the summer holidays I think.

Exciting. I know you like Bilton, but do also check out Cold Bath Road and close surroundings. I love it as a small local high street, all independent.

I'd love to live there including with access to Valley Gardens and a walk out to, through the woods, to RHS Harlow Carr and Bamber & Brown for coffee in a teepee!

Yocal · 17/03/2024 19:35

I've worked out you want lots of amenities on your doorstep. I reckon you could get a lot of what you want in Bingley. It's well connected by train as well.

For example if you really wanted to release plenty of cash from your house in the SE, you could do a lot worse than swapping it for this flat with a balcony.

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/141718259#/?channel=RES_BUY

Check out this 2 bedroom apartment for sale on Rightmove

2 bedroom apartment for sale in Park Road, Bingley, West Yorkshire, BD16 for £159,950. Marketed by Dacre Son and Hartley, Bingley

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/141718259#/?channel=RES_BUY

Thekatzenjammerkid · 17/03/2024 19:33

@MintyCedric honestly Yeadon is not a patch on Knaresborough or Harrogate which are towns in their own right. It’s a nice enough suburb of Leeds but I would say Horsforth is a bit nearer to the centre and still has a bit of a village feel.

MintyCedric · 17/03/2024 19:23

Well, having been doing more research over the weekend I now have a shortlist of places to check out in the summer, although am debating moving my trip forward to May half term if I can.

So, am going to be looking at:

Harrogate
Knaresborough
Otley/Pool in Wharfdale
Yeadon

Spending the Easter hols sorting my house out, getting valuations and looking into the mortgage logistics and plan to make a decision around the summer holidays I think.

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Nanna2B · 17/03/2024 19:19

And a dog will mean you talk to more people than you can ever need!