Absolutely cannot stand cuddling in bed - anyone else?

Same. He would like to go to sleep cuddled up, but I just can't!

Same, can't even stand anyone in the bed now I've been single for a few years.

Yes, that's exactly it - I wouldn't want us to sleep in separate beds and I find his presence in the bed really comforting, but we definitely like to have our own little space in the bed for sleeping in!

I've had this conversation with more than one group of friends and the general consensus has always pretty much been that while most people enjoy a quick cuddle before they go to sleep, almost everybody would then prefer to say goodnight and move into their own space.

It's hard to find a position that provides enough comfort for both people to fall asleep cuddling - most people are, in reality, really quite particular about the exact position in which they fall asleep and it's pretty unlikely that a cuddling position will work for both of a couple. And almost everyone moves around quite a bit in their sleep - most people change position, roll over, adjust the bedclothes or even flip their pillow without even waking. Even if they can fall asleep cuddling, they're only going to disturb each other shortly afterwards when they start unconsciously fidgeting around.

Hate it. We don’t share a bed anymore 😂. I love a cuddle any other time though.

Same.

I like him in the bed but not in my space. Part of our reasoning for having a super king-size bed is that I have my sleep space and he has his sleep space. We cuddle up while chatting or for comfort but once I'm ready to sleep I have to not be touched.

Ha! total opposite, we go to sleep all piled on top of eachother like cats. If I put my head on his chest at any time of day I fall asleep.

Yep. Can't stand it. I don't even like if his foot rubs off mine. I love him and will cuddle him on the couch. We have a good sex life but the idea of falling asleep cuddling makes me itch. I like my space. I would probably have separate beds happily but he likes the company in bed so that's the compromise