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He finds me attractive, we're really close but he won't date me

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Hooooooo · 27/02/2024 23:10

I have seen him looking at me a few times and I can 'sense' he's physically attracted, he also said to our friend that I was very good-looking apparently.
We talk for hours, laugh and joke, really interesting discussions, can talk about deep subjects too.
He's told me I'm awesome and that we have so many similar interests.
He sometimes gets kinda nervous around me.
Yet, he's not interested. Sigh..
It's just one of those things I guess. I feel stupid because I was sure he was, he goes out of his way to talk to me.
It's ok, I've accepted it and I'm moving on. Have you ever had that situation where it seemed like everything was right but they just didn't want to date you?
It makes me feel like there's something really off-putting about me.

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Lammveg · 27/02/2024 23:12

Maybe he's got other things going on, as in its a him thing and not a you thing.

Hooooooo · 27/02/2024 23:11

I've known him for around 3 months only, so it's not one of those situations where I've known him for decades and we're just too good friends.

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