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To ask if Million pound lottery winner who refuses to share money with partner should have shared?

189 replies

SweetBirdsong · 21/02/2024 13:17

I am surprised this isn't on here actually. It's been on the news for 2 days, and has just been discussed on Loose Women.

From the article...

A couple are waging war over a £1 million lotto scratchcard they ‘purchased together’ weeks before breaking up.

Michael Cartlidge, 39, and former partner Charlotte Cox, 37, purchased the
Lottery card together at a shop in Spalding, Lincs. But when Charlotte walked out on Michael a few weeks later, she was deemed to be the sole winner of the jackpot by lottery chiefs.

Michael admits that Charlotte both paid for and scratched the ticket. But he also claims that he was the one who suggested she buy the ticket and attempted to transfer her cash to cover the purchase while they were in the shop.
He says the mum-of-one initially agreed to split the cash, but later welched on the deal after breaking up with him a few weeks later and claimed she was the sole winner of the jackpot.

He said ‘£1million has never brought such misery.’

So, was the woman (Charlotte) wrong to have kept all the money to herself? They were not married, they didn't own any property together or have joint finances, and they'd only been together 3 months. Lottery chiefs said she is the sole owner of the money and does not have to share it.

YABU - she was WRONG to keep the money and should have split it with him. They were 'a couple.' He didn't pay for the ticket, but they got it at the same time.

YANBU - she was RIGHT to keep it - as she paid for the ticket herself, and didn't need to share it. They'd only been together 3 months, they weren't married, and they didn't have a house together or joint finances.

https://metro.co.uk/2024/02/20/man-claims-ex-dumped-weeks-bought-winning-1-000-000-scratchcard-20311093/

Man claims ex dumped him weeks after they bought winning £1,000,000 scratchcard

'£1 million has never brought such misery.'

https://metro.co.uk/2024/02/20/man-claims-ex-dumped-weeks-bought-winning-1-000-000-scratchcard-20311093

OP posts:
MintTwirl · 21/02/2024 16:29

She should keep all the money. He’s a chancer.

Soubriquet · 21/02/2024 16:25

I actually went to school with Charlotte! It’s weird how small a world it is. She should keep her money

TheDowagerDoughnut · 21/02/2024 16:25

She bought it, scratched it and it was her name on the back of it.

There can only be one owner and everything points to it being her. Anything else is just bitter grumbles.

Daddydog · 21/02/2024 16:16

Would he have given her half of the scratch card price if it turned out to be a looser? Not a chance in hell! It's all hers and hope she has an awesome life! :)

Residentevil · 21/02/2024 15:57

They’d only been seeing each other for 3 months and it was her ticket, so no she shouldn’t have to share the winnings. If they'd been together 20 years and had shared children etc , I’d feel differently ( morally ).

Ginslings · 21/02/2024 15:56

Of course it's all hers.

I'd be very interested to hear from any of the 40 or so people who voted that she should have shared it.

WhoaJayShettybambalam · 21/02/2024 15:51

She was right. After 3 months it’s not really a relationship.

Naunet · 21/02/2024 15:40

She purchased it, it’s hers, he’s just some loser, woman beating boyfriend of 3 months, he’s not owed anything but prison.

unloquacious · 21/02/2024 15:39

HeadsShouldersTitsandArse · 21/02/2024 13:35

its hers. She brought it.

She could have brought it and let him scratch it. It’s still hers. They wouldn’t be in the position they were in if she hadn’t paid for the ticket.

Brought? She didn’t bring it to the shop, she bought it there!?

FloofyBird · 21/02/2024 15:39

She is NBU.

If they'd been together years I might feel differently (morally). Legally it would probably remain the same if they were still unmarried?

When did he transfer the money? What does attempted too mean? If he transferred it before she knew it was a winner I'd say morally she should share, but legally?

fussychica · 21/02/2024 15:38

Violent cocklodger and chancer, how nice. Good riddance.
I do hope she puts a good bit away for her kids rather than spends up or someone else will be along to take advantage as sure as eggs......

Lwrenn · 21/02/2024 15:31

He's beaten an ex severely?

I Hope she reads this - I'm fucking delighted he'll never see a penny and only hope that his life is entrenched with misery.

Team Charlotte.

SouthLondonMum22 · 21/02/2024 15:09

Team Charlotte.

She bought the ticket, the money his hers and he shouldn't get a penny.

Porfirio · 21/02/2024 15:08

The bigger story to me is that it is reported in the media as they were only dating for three months but also that he was living with her!

Three months and living together!

summernights24 · 21/02/2024 15:06

I read an article of fb about this, it said he was living with her, after only 3 months and she has children, I couldn’t move someone in after 3 months let alone meet my children I wondered if he was a cocklodger

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 21/02/2024 15:04

If you've been together a long time and fully share finances then he might have an argument. Otherwise, nope!

Twiggylet · 21/02/2024 14:57

If I suggest you buy a house and you do, do I have claim to it? He’s grabby!

biostudent · 21/02/2024 14:54

She paid for it and scratched it, her money, no questions asked!

LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 21/02/2024 14:51

I often have the idea of buying a lottery ticket and think about getting out the money to do so but don't... does that mean I have a claim on whoever did buy the winning ticket? :)

Princessbananahamock · 21/02/2024 14:14

I read the article, reading between the lines he sounds like a cocklodger. He was asked by her friends to leave her home after she had left. Why did she have to leave her own home ?. She saw him for who he was very early on lucky woman. Perhaps she had learnt about the previous girlfriend being assaulted, he probably gave her a load of she’s lying etc woe is me act.
However, on the bright side there are many articles in various papers advising woman against dating this specimen.

GreenyBluePaint · 21/02/2024 14:13

I just hope he doesn’t try and stalk/harass her now. He sounds nasty.

SweetBirdsong · 21/02/2024 14:13

LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 21/02/2024 13:53

His story is that of a chancer!

Why didn't he buy his own ticket? (No need to fuss about transfering money for her to buy one.)

She bought it - she won.

At 12 weeks into a failing relationship he has no claim on her. (If she suddenly fell into debt rather than fortune, no-one would be expecting him to pay her creditors.)

And who the F transfers £2.00 to someone's bank LOL!

OP posts:
SweetBirdsong · 21/02/2024 14:10

Lanawashington · 21/02/2024 13:21

He's also about to go on trial for severely beating his ex partner a few months before this. So in that sense I hope he doesn't get a penny

WOW I didn't know that. And I am in the 'she shouldn't need to share' camp!

OP posts:
CryptoFascist · 21/02/2024 14:03

He needs to jog on, making himself look a total idiot.

LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 21/02/2024 13:53

His story is that of a chancer!

Why didn't he buy his own ticket? (No need to fuss about transfering money for her to buy one.)

She bought it - she won.

At 12 weeks into a failing relationship he has no claim on her. (If she suddenly fell into debt rather than fortune, no-one would be expecting him to pay her creditors.)