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Any one up? Really worried about DD

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Boatshoes · 20/02/2024 03:36

Hi all. I’m really worried about my DD. She is 8 and, over the last year, has had many episodes of dizziness. She is under a paediatrician and was reviewed on 5th January and we were told to keep an eye on her. She then had a few more episodes so we were told to book in at the GP for a blood pressure check and ECG with a nurse (booked for this week).

Half an hour ago, DD woke up crying, saying the back of her head and her forehead were really hurting. I got her water and the pain subsided after about a minute.

I am absolutely terrified - my dad has a brain tumour and he had the same symptoms as DD. She has also had another back of the head headache a couple weeks ago but nothing that woke her from her sleep before.

She is well otherwise (so can’t blame it on a virus).

I am in such a panic that I have just this moment emailed her paediatrician and asked if I need to push for a scan because of all of her symptoms, and if she thinks it
could be a brain tumour.

im sorry to waffle but I am genuinely terrified.

What shall I do? A&E diagnosed my dad as he had a big seizure, and I am so scared that Dd has something really similar.

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OctoblocksAssemble · 20/02/2024 03:46

I'm here, sending a big hug. You must be terrified, but try not to leap to conclusions. I'm sure seeing your dad go through all that was traumatic, and it's hard not to see parallels, but plenty of things can cause headaches. Hopefully the pediatrician can reassure you and push for a scan if needs be, but for tonight you've done what you can, so try to distract yourself, and definitely stay off Google.

DistractMe · 20/02/2024 03:45

Posting a hand hold, I would be scared too, though the chances of it being a tumour are probably (hopefully) slim. Hope she feels better in the morning and you hear back from the paediatrician v. soon. x

Josette77 · 20/02/2024 03:44

I would take her to a&e as the pain woke her up.

I have a family history of brain aneurysms and was always told if a headache woke me up to go there.

I am NOT saying it's that obviously, but I would take her in to be careful.

That's a lot of pain especially for such a young kid.

Huge hug mama. xx

Diamondcurtains · 20/02/2024 03:41

No advice really but if she wakes again and is still in pain then I’d call 111 and see what they advise x

AcridAndStanLee · 20/02/2024 03:40

I don't have much advice but just a hand hold Flowers nothing is scarier than our kids being sick. The likelihood of a young child having a tumour is slim. There are many simple causes that are much more likely.

You're doing the right thing getting her looked at.

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