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Terrified i'm dying!!!!

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Lostmymind11 · 16/02/2024 16:37

Sorry if this is on the wrong thread but i'm not sure where to put it

Nearly 2yrs ago i had surgery to remove a sarcoma (no treatment afterwards as not needed). My 6 month scan was clear and i had another scan 4wks ago to check if it had come back. The hospital have rang today and told me they had booked me in next Friday to see a member of the surgery team. I am abaolutely terrified and beside myself with worry. I am a single parent to a very young child who has no contact with dad due to domestic abuse. I barely have any family/friend support. If the cancer is back i really don't know what i will do. I feel physically ill

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DyslexicPoster · 29/04/2024 13:38

Thinking of you today.

poetryandwine · 29/04/2024 13:36

SoSo99 · 29/04/2024 12:29

Also, if you need a hand when you're recovering, I'm sure that some Mumsnetters could help out (if any of us are nearby) so please shout. GOOD LUCK

Yes, OP. If I am near to you I would be glad to help. Xx

SoSo99 · 29/04/2024 12:29

Also, if you need a hand when you're recovering, I'm sure that some Mumsnetters could help out (if any of us are nearby) so please shout. GOOD LUCK

SoSo99 · 29/04/2024 12:27

So many of us are rooting for you. I'll be thinking of you and your son today. Here's another stranger on the internet sending you love and best wishes x

IHateLegDay · 29/04/2024 11:45

Thinking of you today xxx

Topjoe19 · 29/04/2024 10:14

Thinking of you ❤️

gettingolderbutcooler · 29/04/2024 10:14

Lots of people on here rooting for you ♥️

RosamundLeh · 29/04/2024 10:10

Good luck. Thinking of you. It sounds as if you're in good hands.

Frecklespy · 29/04/2024 09:32

❤

HazelBite · 29/04/2024 09:17

They will be doing their best for you, I wish you a very speedy recovery x

BlackCat007 · 29/04/2024 08:30

❤️

ooooohnoooooo · 29/04/2024 08:30

@Lostmymind11 you are in good hands. Deep breaths and before you know it you'll be out and recovering.

Flowers

Lostmymind11 · 29/04/2024 08:28

Morning everyone, i'm so nervous i feel sick. I have seen my surgeon and signed my life away. I'm first down for surgery at 8.30 so any moment now they will be coming for me

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poetryandwine · 29/04/2024 07:28

It’s so hard but you’re doing this for him, too.

💗💗💗

Pottedpalm · 29/04/2024 05:17

🌺

ooooohnoooooo · 29/04/2024 00:53

Another one here wishing you all the best for tomorrow. Your friendly nest of vipers will be ready to support you once you're back online

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jolenethea · 29/04/2024 00:30

All the best for the op. Soon it'll be done and you'll be feeling much more positive Daffodil

WilsonandNoodles · 29/04/2024 00:23

I've been quietly reading and following your story and have shed so many tears for someone I don't even know but just feel gor you do much. I just wanted to send you my strength and positive thoughts for you tomorrow.

DollyPartonsLeftTit · 29/04/2024 00:18

@Lostmymind11 Sending you so much love ❤️

Coffeeisnecessary · 28/04/2024 22:58

Sending you so much hugs and good thoughts for tomorrow op, I hope it goes well. life really is unfair

Strugglebus · 28/04/2024 22:44

It really isn’t fair. Wish I had something worth saying, but I don’t. I’m just sending you every possible good thought and so much strength for tomorrow.

Shityshitybangbang · 28/04/2024 22:21

Difficult

Shityshitybangbang · 28/04/2024 22:20

Thinking of you. It’s difficult isn’t it. Hope all goes well with your operation. I’m waiting to get my operation on my tumor in my chest. I panic thinking about it. We need to be positive 💕

Lostmymind11 · 28/04/2024 21:55

I'm not good tonight 😭😭 had my son in tears all night saying he doesn't want me to go to hospital. Life isn't fair at all

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DyslexicPoster · 26/04/2024 18:35

I hope your weekend is restful and your thouare distracted. I have everything crossed that your recovery will be swift and complication free