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The king has cancer

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TheBayLady · 05/02/2024 18:01

Wow. What a shock

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doilooklikeicare · 06/02/2024 19:25

@MidnightSerenader the third post on this stated they're shocked.....

🙄

MidnightSerenader · 06/02/2024 19:23

Solocup · 06/02/2024 19:10

I’m shocked that people are shocked. It’d be shocking if he were young I suppose. But he’s not. What did they say, 1000 people get diagnosed with cancer in the uk every day. So no, it’s doesn’t count as shocking.

I don’t think anyone is ‘shocked’?

Has anyone come on and said ‘the King has cancer - I’m shocked!’

It’s just big news, what with him being head of state of many countries. 🤷🏻‍♀️

couiza · 06/02/2024 19:16

I think given the longevity of both the Queen and her husband together with the Queen Mother, and the fact that few of the RF in the recent past have been seriously ill (Margaret was of course), that people think the RF now will live into their nineties or beyond.

That ship has now sailed with Kate, the King, and the outsider but once insider Fergie all being quite ill at the same time.

Good wishes to them all.

Solocup · 06/02/2024 19:10

I’m shocked that people are shocked. It’d be shocking if he were young I suppose. But he’s not. What did they say, 1000 people get diagnosed with cancer in the uk every day. So no, it’s doesn’t count as shocking.

Maireas · 06/02/2024 19:08

@RickDaglass - Prince Andrew is not next in line.

threatmatrix · 06/02/2024 18:48

QuestionableMouse · 05/02/2024 18:02

Got a credible source for that?

every media outlet there is 🙄

RickDaglass · 06/02/2024 18:48

Blimey he did well to get an appointment so quickly and see the specialists. The usual serfs have to wait ages.
Prince Andrew next in line.
Do we get a day off work, i hope so.
😁ABOLISH THE MONARCHY

Cloudbuggi · 06/02/2024 18:36

Meagainnewname · 06/02/2024 18:04

yes same as my friend, cancerous mole, she’s been waiting 18 months for removal, she’s finally got a date for removal x

Presumably this will be a slow growing basal cell, not a melanoma.

Weftaway768 · 06/02/2024 18:33

LaDamaDeElche · 06/02/2024 17:59

Similarly people need to stop banging on about how the King will get the best of the best treatment privately. It's not his fault I couldn't agree more. Kind of ironic that these same people don't see how good they have it compared to many others with cancer, thanks to the lottery of life that allowed them to be born/live in the country they are in. Also, are we supposed to be against all people who can afford private treatment, or just royals? What about people who get private healthcare through their companies, or well-off people who can afford it (do we have to sub categorise them into of they've earned that money it inherited it before we can be more or less sympathetic?). Cancer doesn't discriminate and it's a horrible, painful illness and just as scary for the patients, family and friends of people from any walk of life. I don't understand why people say this kind of thing.

While I agree that Charles can’t help his privileged position, and a diagnosis of cancer is awful whatever your income, I think people are allowed to express their irritation at the unfairness of the situation they find themselves in:

News reports such as on the Beeb just now, sum it up:

~ “oh it must have been hard for Camilla doing her job last week knowing the King’s diagnosis”

as if it isn’t equally hard, if not harder, for ordinary members of the public who have to manage their minimum wage job and parent their dc, alongside chemotherapy?

~ And then an expert comes on and says “yes as with most people a diagnosis is shocking at first but then a treatment plan quickly becomes clear”

well sorry, but for many patients in the NHS, the treatment pathway is neither clear or immediate.

The RF can’t help the BBC’s sycophantic and inane reporting of course but there is a fundamental injustice embedded in uk society between the very rich and the very poor, a gap which is widening, and sorry but the monarchy being at the top of the tree, embodies that privilege. People are allowed to respectfully express their disillusion. Especially when the following report on the BBC highlighted the lack of NHS dentists which is a disgrace and the subject of a Parliamentary investigation.

And who says people aren’t appreciative of the care they receive in the uk, even when it’s flawed and inconsistent, and aren’t aware of the suffering of others in under-developed countries? The two are not mutually exclusive. In my experience, most people are extremely grateful for any NHS care they receive.

mikado1 · 06/02/2024 18:25

Meagainnewname · 06/02/2024 18:04

yes same as my friend, cancerous mole, she’s been waiting 18 months for removal, she’s finally got a date for removal x

That is appalling. I hope she'll be OK. Best wishes to everyone here and their loved ones who are going through this.

Meagainnewname · 06/02/2024 18:04

Glasshouses102 · 06/02/2024 06:46

My mum was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer I September. She has her first appointment with her oncologist at the end of this months-a 6 month wait to see someone, not even to start treatment!!

yes same as my friend, cancerous mole, she’s been waiting 18 months for removal, she’s finally got a date for removal x

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ABCDEFGHIJK123456 · 06/02/2024 18:02

Hopefully the grandchildren on the US will be allowed to visit their grandfather.

JMSA · 06/02/2024 18:00

Buffs · 06/02/2024 17:59

Sorry, genuine question, why is it unsettling? I am in my mid 50s with incurable cancer. I get on with life and avoid drama and sympathy! Lots and lots of people get cancer and yes people die, especially people over 70. Why all the drama? It helps no one.

I'm really sorry x

Meagainnewname · 06/02/2024 17:59

Comedycook · 05/02/2024 18:04

Yes it must be a hard time for him. Such a shame he and his brother are no longer close... especially during times like this.

Hopefully they’ll call a truce and bury the hatchet for Charles sake,

Buffs · 06/02/2024 17:59

Sorry, genuine question, why is it unsettling? I am in my mid 50s with incurable cancer. I get on with life and avoid drama and sympathy! Lots and lots of people get cancer and yes people die, especially people over 70. Why all the drama? It helps no one.

JMSA · 06/02/2024 17:59

Whilst I don't care, I wish him no harm and hope that he makes a full recovery.

LaDamaDeElche · 06/02/2024 17:59

Similarly people need to stop banging on about how the King will get the best of the best treatment privately. It's not his fault I couldn't agree more. Kind of ironic that these same people don't see how good they have it compared to many others with cancer, thanks to the lottery of life that allowed them to be born/live in the country they are in. Also, are we supposed to be against all people who can afford private treatment, or just royals? What about people who get private healthcare through their companies, or well-off people who can afford it (do we have to sub categorise them into of they've earned that money it inherited it before we can be more or less sympathetic?). Cancer doesn't discriminate and it's a horrible, painful illness and just as scary for the patients, family and friends of people from any walk of life. I don't understand why people say this kind of thing.

Meagainnewname · 06/02/2024 17:57

QuestionableMouse · 05/02/2024 18:02

Got a credible source for that?

It’s been all over the news!
🤣

Zzzmumzzz · 06/02/2024 17:50

I wish him well. His treatment will be first class. No NHS waiting list or delays for him.

tothelefttotheleft · 06/02/2024 17:09

@WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout

Love your username and I'm very grateful for the well wishes.

AcrossthePond55 · 06/02/2024 14:47

WithACatLikeTread · 06/02/2024 14:35

Yeah sorry I forgot that. In some countries it is still the son. Think I was a bit tired last night! 🤣

Been there, done that! A few nights ago when I set up the coffee to auto brew I managed the filter and the water, but forgot to put in the coffee! DH woke up to a pot of hot water!

Emotionalsupportviper · 06/02/2024 14:42

Cloudbuggi · 06/02/2024 14:23

Oh give over. Then people would moan he shouldn't be using NHS resources when he has the means to pay for private treatment.

If I had the money I'd go private.

This happened when he broke his arm and went to the local A&E. People were complaining they had to wait longer because he took a space up etc.

WithACatLikeTread · 06/02/2024 14:35

AcrossthePond55 · 06/02/2024 13:58

In 2013 the law was changed; the throne goes to the eldest CHILD, regardless of sex.

Yeah sorry I forgot that. In some countries it is still the son. Think I was a bit tired last night! 🤣

Cloudbuggi · 06/02/2024 14:23

ILoveMyCatButHesAPervert · 06/02/2024 11:34

Yes. Why not?

Oh give over. Then people would moan he shouldn't be using NHS resources when he has the means to pay for private treatment.

If I had the money I'd go private.