AIbu to wonder how I’ll cope when I retire?

To be more positive as I realise how negative I was before, a few things:

1. if you pay off your mortgage the advantage is that you’re £2k a month better off. If you can pay it off quicker, you can move the extra into savings/pension. It also allows your cost base when retired to be much lower and means you never need to worry about the roof over your head. You also have an asset that you can sell. You’re in the SE (so were we) and you could sell up there in retirement and move to a flat (actually really good for retired people as lower bills and less maintenance) or a cheaper area.
2. If you’re self employed, you can keep working longer if it’s a job that isn’t too taxing as you get older. DH and I are also self employed and can continue to run our business for many years and can just wind back our involvement as we get older. You don’t need to hit a wall where income goes to 0 overnight.
3. Being self employed does give you the opportunity to work elsewhere as well, or do other things. Don’t be grand about it, even lower paid jobs a couple of evenings or days a week and just put all that earnings straight off the mortgage or into pension/savings.
4. Be ruthless about your spending - check out you’re on the best deal for insurance, phones, internet, everything. Check with your local Industry bureaus about whether there are any grants you can get for bits of your business. We got a chunk of money towards R and D and also towards building our website. The old Department of Trade and Industry can also help you with contacts, advice, way more than I expected.
5. Look at your luxuries - what are your spends on holidays, car etc? Shaving here is normally quite easy. Eating out once a week? Make it twice a month instead. Do a careful budget and take the savings out first and then see what you’ve got left at the end after your fixed costs.

Definitely start saving

I thought OP said they were 48, so much closer to 50 than 40.

Maybe she’s just panicking because she doesn’t have many years left until retirement age to build up a pension - so even though she earns a decent wage, she’s panicking about how much of that she can realistically afford to set aside each month for pension savings.

I earn much less than the OP and am none the wiser about this is a troll thread or not, but I’ve got no reason to believe it is, because I think the OP’s questions and concerns in her posts seem quite fair.

SURELY this is a piss take.
60k each - £3750 EACH per month after tax.
Even if mortgage £1500, that's shedloads of cash left over - at least £6000 left each month after mortgage, plus bills - I'm hoping the OP can manage on half that.
OP is only 40!!

Quite.

Yes but when you draw it down you get 25% tax free , but are taxed on the rest because the pension will take up most of your tax allowance.

and it depends when you want to retire as well .

say you think 65 , then you could need income for at least 20 years . The state pension won’t cover your bills .

2 self employed people in this position.

Do you have an accountant or financial advisor because they are either rubbish or you aren't listening to them?

Seek out decent replacements, especially ones who are very familiar with the sectors your businesses are in. You should be aware of all grants available, all tax reliefs, all pension opportunities etc.

I'm nearly afraid to ask but do you gave life cover in excess of your mortgage or critical illness cover given the self employment risk?

1 Make sure you're on track to get full state pensions.

2 Do a thorough financial audit. I find it hard to believe you've spent that much on house renovations - there are almost certainly savings to be made in your budget.

1. Get an emergency savings fund. At least 6 months salary that you can access immediately if needed.

4 Set up pensions. As higher rate taxpayers, for every £600 you put into a pension you can reclaim £400 in tax. As you're putting self employment money into a SIPP rather than PAYE salary into an employer's pension only the basic rate tax refund will be automatic, you'll need to claim the higher rate part separately. Ask your accountant how to do this. And to calculate any unused pension allowance you can roll forward from past years.

Speak to a financial adviser.

You have an excellent income and I am sure you can find a way to make that work for you.

Plenty of people have decent income on retirement who earn way, way less than you do, and have young families to support.

You could be working for another 20+ years. Planning ahead now is a really good idea.

@OP I think in some ways you have been living beyond your means to date - by which I mean you have paid for house / refurbishments etc without having set anything aside for your pensions. So if it were me I would start squirrelling money away in pensions right now . As you said - the best time to plant a tree.

An inheritance is not a pension - anything could happen. Best to shift for your selves and start saving as much as you can afford now. If you choose to reduce it in the future - so be it .

If you've been putting all that money into renovations to the house OP, do you know what it's actually worth at today's prices? You may find it's worth a LOT more than you realise. Also, when you retire, your house will likely have appreciated even more in value, obviously smaller properties will have gone up in price too, but not by as large a percentage, so you may well be able to release a lot more capital than you think. Obviously this won't replace a pension, but if you also take advice from a financial advisor, and follow it, I feel sure you'll be fine. I guess to a great degree, it's a case of what standard of living you want to have when you retire. If you're used to blowing money on big expensive holidays, replacing cars every year, or have expensive hobbies, etc., then you may not have as much money to indulge in those things as you would like, but also bear in mind, that you will be older, and possibly have considerably less energy than you have now. By that point in life, you're likely to have absolutely everything that you actually need, so would only need living expenses, therefore it may not be nearly as bleak as you're anticipating. The thing is, no one can accurately predict the future OP. Looking on the dark side, you may not even live to retirement, or like my DH, your health may suddenly deteriorate, making travel and other expensive things that you do now, impossible. Again, this could mean that you won't need as much as you might think. We get by very nicely on a really small pension pot, and our savings, but that's because our lifestyle has been curtailed by health problems. So I would say, start now, do what you can, and live for today with tomorrow in mind, ie, don't just save every penny in a panic that you won't have enough when you retire, as that will mean that you're not living your life now, and in all seriousness you may never get that far, but equally, don't spend money frivolously. We found that an easy way for us to save extra, was when we'd had something on a loan like a car, or when we paid off our mortgage, rather than looking at that money as spare cash each month, we just switched from paying it to the loan company, and instead paid it into long term savings, which was best for our particular circumstances, and of course didn't miss it because we'd been used to not having it. Please don't let people bandying about figures needed being in excess of millions, most of us don't have that sort of living standard in the first place. Although of course, we are talking MN here!!!🙄

Agree with what others have said. Start saving now. Imo pensions are great because of the tax benefits. You can reduce your taxable income by saving money. There are also ISAs and first £500 of interest is tax free. I think you will need to focus on saving as much as you can as you won't have much benefit of compound interest. You can also downsize when you retire. There is only a benefit in overpaying the mortgage if the interest rate is higher than the interest you would receive on the money in savings (taking into account the tax position).

You're going to have a mortgage until you're 68? 😯

I'm not sure what the answer is (downsize and reduce your mortgage payments?) but I'd recommend saving as of now.

You could rent your house and go travelling or downsize and move to a differnt cheaper area?

Get a full time PAYE job
£6Ok with no pension is worth much much less

I don’t understand why you keep saying you can’t work full time because the work isn’t available.

You know you can have more than one job, right? At your age I was working four different jobs so I could keep a roof over my children’s heads.

Seek PT employment and use that money for pension, and/or overpaying mortgage.

You work part time on 60k? i want that job! Can you overpay the mortgage as your income is so high or downsize? If you are 48 and still 20 years on a mortgage to go thats not good

Seems like a little, tbh. My DH and I were just discussing how we need a couple million for retirement (he’s early 40’s , I’m mid 30’s). He’s smart with money, and so thinks about inflation, etc…

Oh and this is a good tool for putting numbers in and figuring out what different monthly contributions will (as an estimate) net out at in terms of retirement income

https://www.hl.co.uk/pensions/pension-calculator

https://www.moneyhelper.org.uk/en/pensions-and-retirement/pensions-basics/pension-calculator

Op, if you save a grand a month each you will have about a 2 grand a year pension by the age of 67, so you really need advise now. 4 -5 grand a year between you. It’s better than living off state pension, and it’s over an extra 100 pounds a week between you . The state pension is about 200 a week each. So you’d have 500 a week between you and 2k a month to spend on retirement,sorry edited to Correct the number,

Good point about the April deadline. I think as self-employed you are allowed to pay into your pension for previous tax years, if you haven't used all of your allowance. Please check first with your accountant, HMRC or some other responsible person/organisation! I'm just recalling what DH did when he was self-employed a few years ago. He's now retired, but he threw as much money as he could into his personal pension for only a few years, and it's been very worthwhile.

@HurricaneZeldaAndToto exactly. "better late than never" is such a cliche we sometimes forget how true it is!

As long as you can meet your tax bill, whatever makes the most sense for you...

I would probably speak to a pensions advisor as you said, because it is more complex as someone without a company pension. An expert to guide you on this will be really welcome and reassuring I'm sure.