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firsttimemumglasgow · 02/02/2024 16:59

My baby is two months old and he spends time with his gran on a Friday at their home. They recently got a car seat for their own car and have taken my son to different family member homes (on my partners side). In the first day they used the car seat he went to my partners mums boyfriends mums house then to my partners grans house then to my partners uncles house. It doesn’t feel right that my son is being passed around all these people without either me or my partner being there. I feel so uncomfortable with this and I’m not sure how to approach it. It makes me feel hesitant and him going back again.

I also wasnt asked or told that he would be going to these different places.

Am I being unreasonable?

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W0tnow · 02/02/2024 17:01

Well no, but your newborn doesn’t need to spend time with anyone but his/her parents at this point. How long has this Friday thing been going on?

HowToSaveAWife · 02/02/2024 17:00

Your kid, you make the rules.

I wouldn't be comfortable with this either tbh. Two months - he's still so little and new. It's not pass the parcel.

Edit: just seen you weren't told or asked either - put a stop to this now or you'll have Mil calling shots forevermore.