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To think night driving is getting more dangerous

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DazzledbyHeadlights · 25/01/2024 20:00

Since a few years ago - and now that cyclists/pedestrians have more right of way. I agree and think it works well during the day.

However at night? Headlights seem to be more blinding than ever. Spotting a dimly lit cyclist in front of a full dazzling tank of a car is hard.

In addition, many pedestrians seem to have a cavalier ‘my right of way, I’ll step out’ attitude. I was driving along a 40mph stretch this evening and - 3 times - a dark figure suddenly appeared, stepped out onto the road and I needed to break quite abruptly.

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Topofthemountain · 25/01/2024 21:39

grumpypedestrian · 25/01/2024 21:28

Never attempt this at night. But the driver who is ignoring road markings, signs and pedestrians. If drivers aren’t paying attention to basic things like this then they aren’t safe to be driving and it’s stupid to blame a pedestrian for using crossings designed for said use.

Darwinism at its finest.

I get you want to make a point, but when you might get really hurt doing so, it isn't the best idea.

soupfiend · 25/01/2024 21:38

Ive got anti glare on my glasses. Havent found that its any different to when Im just wearing my contacts

Its the fact that when a light is shining in your eyes, you cannot see anything else in front of you,e verything else is black, why do you think that it used to be used in interrogation. Im not sure any glass coverings would deal with that

Orangeandgold · 25/01/2024 21:37

I agree. Super fast cars overtaking dangerously. Pedestrians stepping out and usually wearing very dark clothing! People don’t realise how much harder it is to see someone in dark clothes at night.

logicisall · 25/01/2024 21:36

On the effectiveness of using yellow tinted glasses at night
are-night-driving-glasses-safe-to-wear-a20Q17g8xnyD

I use prescription night driving glasses which are untinted but with an anti-glare coating. They are much more effective that the cheap yellow ones I bought on amazon, which just dim everything. They were binned.

Are night driving glasses safe to wear? - Which? News

Glasses with yellow lenses are touted as helping to reduce dazzle from headlights at night, but experts say they aren't a good idea

https://www.which.co.uk/news/article/are-night-driving-glasses-safe-to-wear-a20Q17g8xnyD

Walking2024now24days · 25/01/2024 21:33

Allfur · 25/01/2024 20:34

You're the one driving a machine that can kill, just drive slower

So obviously you don't drive then...

Rummikub · 25/01/2024 21:32

@Willowswood yes sorry

i do think manufacturers should take into account the impact on coming Road users so it’s safer for everyone.

Even read works lights are ridiculously bright and pointing directly at on coming traffic.

And don’t get me started on the appropriately named Bright Circle roundabout where the massive led advertising screen dazzles drivers in a bad way.

it all should be looked at in a holistic way.

grumpypedestrian · 25/01/2024 21:28

JudgeJ · 25/01/2024 21:11

If you're stupid enough to step out in front of a moving vehicle then you're not walking safely and represent as big a problem as a speeding car, yet I wonder who would get the blame for crass idiocy?

Never attempt this at night. But the driver who is ignoring road markings, signs and pedestrians. If drivers aren’t paying attention to basic things like this then they aren’t safe to be driving and it’s stupid to blame a pedestrian for using crossings designed for said use.

TheGoogleMum · 25/01/2024 21:24

Overhead lights being switched off for large parts of the motorway annoys me. Even with lots of cars it's easier to see with them on

Willowswood · 25/01/2024 21:23

Rummikub · 25/01/2024 21:10

If you’re aware your lights are too bright then could they be swapped at next change for non led ones?

Agree newer headlights are far too bright. Painfully so.

Add in different driver heights and there’s a problem. Driving on motorways in the dark is challenging.

Is that reply to me?

If so, then no, my car's lights can't be swapped for non led ones. It's a new BMW SUV and has laser headlights that are specific to the model of car.

Sorry! (And yes I do indicate)

Zanatdy · 25/01/2024 21:22

I really hate driving at night so try and avoid it as much as possible. Especially very late at night, since I know of so many drink drive incidents that clearly go on all the time and the people don’t get caught (generally a friends daughter and her partner who are awful and always breaking the law in one way or other).

MoltenLasagne · 25/01/2024 21:21

We had a courtesy car recently with the new headlights and I was amazed at how shit they are compared to our normal old-style headlights. It's as though they emblazon the couple of metres directly in front of the car, but everything outside of that range is in pitch black so it's impossible to see any of the usual hazards. I was very glad to go back to my old banger!

BlackCatsAreBrilliant · 25/01/2024 21:16

@Princessfluffy It's mentioned near the bottom of the RAC article upthread.

KarenSmithsWeatherBoobs · 25/01/2024 21:14

I got some yellow tinted glasses - they also fit over my own specs. Around £7 on Amazon.

Total game changer 👌

JudgeJ · 25/01/2024 21:11

grumpypedestrian · 25/01/2024 20:54

I have to admit that as a pedestrian I do step out in front of cars on purpose, but that’s only at pedestrian crossings where I’m clearly waiting to cross and it’s obvious a driver wasn’t going to stop.

If a driver ignores pedestrian crossings then they aren’t driving safely.

If you're stupid enough to step out in front of a moving vehicle then you're not walking safely and represent as big a problem as a speeding car, yet I wonder who would get the blame for crass idiocy?

Brandyginger · 25/01/2024 21:11

On my trip to pick up ds from late stay at school tonight (ie in the dark) think I ticked off all of this :

  • man dressed entirely in black running out in front of me to cross road on 40 mph stretch. Not on a pedestrian crossing, just literally dodging cars on a four lane stretch of busy London road. I screamed FUCK and managed to slow down in time
  • absolutely dazzled by one car’s headlights at traffic lights (thought they were on beam but having read comments on here it might have just been a new car’s led lights )
  • while still seeing stars from being dazzled, and suffering palpitations from ninja pedestrian, I then encountered an e scooter zooming up on the inside when I was about to turn left : again dressed head to toe black, no lights
  • then just dozens of motorbike delivery drivers who give me grief day and night as I try and avoid killing them
Rummikub · 25/01/2024 21:10

And so being more prone to the brighter lights dazzling.

Rummikub · 25/01/2024 21:10

If you’re aware your lights are too bright then could they be swapped at next change for non led ones?

Agree newer headlights are far too bright. Painfully so.

Add in different driver heights and there’s a problem. Driving on motorways in the dark is challenging.

ISpyNoPlumPie · 25/01/2024 21:09

Feel the same. I hate driving in the dark due to all the issues mentioned. I can WFH, but when I go in to work, I always leave at 4pm so I don’t have to drive in the dark. I’m lucky I can because I would be terrified otherwise. I’m not a particularly confident driver anyway…

JudgeJ · 25/01/2024 21:08

Allfur · 25/01/2024 20:34

You're the one driving a machine that can kill, just drive slower

Usual stupid, smug response. It's a pathetic statement 'just drive slower', short of driving a 0 mph there will always be a danger for all road users, are we telling cyclists to travel at 0mph for everyone's safety and pedestrians to walk at 0 mph? Driving home last night, very dark a pedestrian walking on the correct side of the unpavemented road, started waving her arm at me, pointing to the opposite side of the narrow road, both she and I were clearly visible and I was driving at well under the limit.

Princessfluffy · 25/01/2024 21:06

Where is the petition?

Sirzy · 25/01/2024 21:03

grumpypedestrian · 25/01/2024 20:54

I have to admit that as a pedestrian I do step out in front of cars on purpose, but that’s only at pedestrian crossings where I’m clearly waiting to cross and it’s obvious a driver wasn’t going to stop.

If a driver ignores pedestrian crossings then they aren’t driving safely.

Not in the dark wearing all dark colours/no lights though surely?

with the best will in the world drivers can only see so far ahead in the dark!

soupfiend · 25/01/2024 21:02

SmashedPrawnsInAMilkyBasket · 25/01/2024 20:59

The problem with the rise of the SUV is that, if you’re driving a normal car coming in the opposite direction, the SUV lights are exactly at the eye level of the driver. I am constantly dazzled by very bright SUV lights coming at me in a way I never am with normal height cars, or lorries, where the lights are set at the same height from the road as those of normal cars. Dipping them makes very little difference because of where they are on the car. It’s similar to how tractors dazzle because their lights are set up, but thankfully even in my rural area these are few and far between after dark. Not only are SUVs a blight on car parks, but they also contribute this much more dangerous issue.

Its not just SUVs, all cars with lights like this dazzle and blind me

Toddlerteaplease · 25/01/2024 21:02

Fortunately we no longer have those rental scooters in my city. It feels so much safer. They terrified me, as the riders were always in black.,

soupfiend · 25/01/2024 21:02

Princesspollyyy · 25/01/2024 20:56

What car do you drive? A Fiat 500? 😂 Or maybe a Nissan Micra?

Whats funny?

SmashedPrawnsInAMilkyBasket · 25/01/2024 21:02

Princesspollyyy · 25/01/2024 20:56

What car do you drive? A Fiat 500? 😂 Or maybe a Nissan Micra?

Why is it so hilarious to drive a perfectly normal, low fuel consumption, big enough to carry everyone you need to, environmentally friendly, simple to find a parking space for car? Do you rely on the perceived status of your vehicle for your self esteem? Have a look at yourself if so.

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