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Car insurance for teens now completely unaffordable?

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ginforall · 20/01/2024 19:10

Teen is nearing 17 so started looking at potential cars and insurance. I can't believe the prices of car insurance, I knew mine had gone up loads this year, but the price for DS to have his own policy is crazy. For DS it's approx on average £4000 a year depending on the car (this is for older cars, small engines eg VW polo). Do you have the car in your name and add the child to your insurance? Does that make it a lot cheaper? Just interested in how other people mange this?

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Mademetoxic · 21/01/2024 08:37

Hellocatshome · 21/01/2024 06:24

That was in response to a number of posters saying 17 year old 'kids' dont need cars. Not all 17 year olds are 'kids' in the same way not all adults need cars.

17 year olds are 'kids' the brain is not fully mature until the age of 25.

Hellocatshome · 21/01/2024 06:24

CreateHope · 20/01/2024 22:07

@Hellocatshome its not a “voice of reason” 🙄. Not all adults need cars either. I didn’t learn to drive until I was 26 - I functioned as an adult perfectly well. I have friends in their 50s who still don’t drive.

That was in response to a number of posters saying 17 year old 'kids' dont need cars. Not all 17 year olds are 'kids' in the same way not all adults need cars.

healthadvice123 · 21/01/2024 04:01

@Mademetoxic you do realise some 17/28 year olds work right?
my ds is 18 and works full time so has a car he bought , pays for and insures etc Totally self funded as ne works, not everyone goes to uni

healthadvice123 · 21/01/2024 03:56

For lal those saying 17 year olds don’t need to drive, that depends on where you live
our buses stop at 6pm dont start until 8 and barely a service on a sunday, so ds had to learn at 17 , also ready for when 18 and left college and got a job.
we both work and can’t run him to work as well at all times.

PieAndLattes · 21/01/2024 03:33

CreateHope · 20/01/2024 20:42

@Shadowsindarkplaces this is such a valid point - parents almost see learning to drive at 17 as an inalienable right, when actually for many teens (including mine) it’s an expensive and unaffordable luxury.

Lessons aren’t going to get cheaper so it’s good to get it out of the way, and it’s relevant and useful for CVs and job applications. My DD (now 18) has a part time job she wouldn’t be able to do without a car (think theme park type of job) and has friends she wouldn’t be able to see much without relying on us for lifts there and back. So yes, it’s expensive, but it’ll be more expensive in 3 years. Now it’s done we don’t have to think about it anymore.

JhsLs · 21/01/2024 03:33

Aprilx · 21/01/2024 03:21

What you described sounded like it could be insurance fronting. A long time ago though, presumably you are no longer doing things like that.

https://www.comparethemarket.com/car-insurance/content/fronting/

Edited

Oh, interesting! Not sure if it was insurance fronting as it was her car which I drove occasionally but she used for work. I also must have had my own policy at some point because I built up no claims as time went by.

Aprilx · 21/01/2024 03:21

JhsLs · 21/01/2024 03:17

@MindHowYouGoes How?

What you described sounded like it could be insurance fronting. A long time ago though, presumably you are no longer doing things like that.

https://www.comparethemarket.com/car-insurance/content/fronting/

JhsLs · 21/01/2024 03:17

MindHowYouGoes · 21/01/2024 00:14

That’s insurance fraud

@MindHowYouGoes How?

TheFairyCaravan · 21/01/2024 01:15

We don’t see learning to drive as a luxury, we see it as a life skill. We lived very rurally when our children were 17. The buses to college were infrequent and unreliable. I didn’t want them to ride their bikes down narrow, unlit country lanes to get to college on freezing cold, rainy Winter days and nights either. We were, also, fed up of driving them to their friends houses all weekend and their jobs. They needed their independence.

When you live in a town or a city, with a bus stop at the end of your road, or shops within walking distance life is totally different.

TreyTerr · 21/01/2024 01:11

Mademetoxic · 21/01/2024 00:47

Thinking about how much my car costs to run & maintain (and it's the smallest car possible) I don't even see how a young person under the age of 23 can afford to run their own car at all.

Having a car is a luxury. Young teens/people do not seem to realise and only do realise when older and funding it yourself, without the bank on mum and dad. (And your daughter's wouldn't understand this either as you paid for their actual car)

Why was there a need to rush to have lessons at 17? You said yourself that it's a 'want' and not a 'need'

For your circumstances your daughter's would be easier and cheaper to use public transport.

Answering your points in the sane order -

I don’t see why you’re so concerned about how my dd funds her car. She works pt earning a decent wage while at uni. If she didn’t, no doubt we’d cover what was needed.

Her car IS a luxury and there’s no rule that says car owners must fund their cars themselves. As it is, DD doesn’t NEED to know, understand or experience self-funding her car, neither is it a prerequisite of car ownership. Should the car become unaffordable for us all, it’ll undoubtedly have to be sold. Very very very unlikely, but that’s what would happen in theory.

Driving lessons at 17 are an option, not a rush. An option that is available for my dc.

Why do you presume to know ‘my circumstances’ better than I do? Our decisions about dc driving are not based on being ‘easier or cheaper’, and not a problem that needs you to try solving.

Dixiechickonhols · 21/01/2024 00:57

Mademetoxic · 21/01/2024 00:48

Having them as named drivers, you're responsible for any accidents they might have. So it will put your policy up.

Poster means naming parents on the teen’s policy so their policy but with added drivers. It can save money. I always go on DH’s car as it’s cheaper with me on too even though I rarely drive it.

Mademetoxic · 21/01/2024 00:52

Marchintospring · 20/01/2024 23:54

@Mademetoxic I think that's fairly typical actually. Most of my friends are average to affluent and all of us bought our kids driving lessons when they turned 17. Some lost interest when the tests became so difficult to book, kids went off to uni and will probably start lessons
again at some point in the future.

I work with families in rural social housing and for many young people especially single parent households, lessons let alone a car are out of the question. Of the families that don't drive, its the parents not the kids who are most often learning as they need it more.

To be fair if it wasn't for credit any people wouldn't be able to get on the road at all/

Very good point about your last sentence. ^^

jamimmi · 21/01/2024 00:50

It does seem.to fall into 2 camps here..Those saying its a.luxuary in the main live in large towns with good youth job opertunitys and public transport . TBH adults of all ages don't really need a car there. Just back from London, public transport. was amazing. The other group which is where we are, very small market town , 1 bus an hour, starts at 8 stops at 6, every 2 hours from 9 on a.Saturday nothing Sunday. DD 16 can't get a job locally, to get to the local.larger town see the bus issues and only work locally is bar/ restaurants. Taxis cost £25 one way so would wipe out a 5 hour shift on minimum wage. Uber dosnt exist. I work.so not always able to drive her, dad blind so can't drive either now and also at the mercy of buses. Ds now at uni passed his test at 18, has a local bar job in the holidays , borrows my car to get there and is on marmalade. Thankfully he will be 21 before his sister lerns so will add him.to my insurance and put her on marmalade. He drives.my fiesta but also his dad's motabiliy car a Honda crv and has done since he passed..when he takes his dad out. Luckily the scheme.covers his insurance, and having 2 driver's when he's home is amazing. Driving is not a luxury unless public transport is good.

Mademetoxic · 21/01/2024 00:48

caringcarer · 21/01/2024 00:37

Small engine.
Black box.
You and DH both as named drivers.
Only insure for the milage that the car will be driven.

Having them as named drivers, you're responsible for any accidents they might have. So it will put your policy up.

Mademetoxic · 21/01/2024 00:47

TreyTerr · 21/01/2024 00:26

Not quite. As I said, my eldest has already had her car for over a year, but only passed in July. She funds it herself.

My middle dd might be a different story though, I grant you that, but we’ll see when that time comes.

Thinking about how much my car costs to run & maintain (and it's the smallest car possible) I don't even see how a young person under the age of 23 can afford to run their own car at all.

Having a car is a luxury. Young teens/people do not seem to realise and only do realise when older and funding it yourself, without the bank on mum and dad. (And your daughter's wouldn't understand this either as you paid for their actual car)

Why was there a need to rush to have lessons at 17? You said yourself that it's a 'want' and not a 'need'

For your circumstances your daughter's would be easier and cheaper to use public transport.

caringcarer · 21/01/2024 00:37

Small engine.
Black box.
You and DH both as named drivers.
Only insure for the milage that the car will be driven.

Angrymum22 · 21/01/2024 00:34

Marchintospring · 21/01/2024 00:23

Just to point out that in rural areas you need to pay for a double lesson in order to get somewhere with standard road driving. That in excess of £60 round here. The average driver needs 40 lessons apparently so that’s £1200 plus the £23 theory test. Then it’s the £60 test plus the extended session to use the instructors car if needed.
That’s nearly £1.5k before you even get to buying and insuring an actual car. It’s out of the reach of many families sadly. No matter how much they need their own transport compared to those in cities. I think it would boost the economy no end if everyone rurally could drive.

You can always teach them yourself. I taught DS. I spent time online researching then planned the first few lessons. Then I made him drive everywhere for 3 months. He drove the 11 miles to school ( rural then into the city) and also drove home. We spent at least an hour every evening pottering around the city ( where he took his test) so he had experience of urban driving.
He passed 2nd time. His first test he failed because he pulled up on a curb ( all the cars on the road were parked on the curb) but knew immediately he’d messed up.
We calculated that he had done at least 150hrs of driving when he took his first test.
It doesn’t have to cost a fortune but you do have to have nerves of steel and infinite patience.
I think we only fell out once, he is a quick learner and is easy to coach. We did have great fun though.

TreyTerr · 21/01/2024 00:26

Mademetoxic · 21/01/2024 00:19

But you are funding their cars as you're paying for their insurance. Without that they'll be driving illegally.
They're in for a nasty shock when they have to pay their insurance themselves when their first year runs out, alongside their MOT, car repairs etc....

Not quite. As I said, my eldest has already had her car for over a year, but only passed in July. She funds it herself.

My middle dd might be a different story though, I grant you that, but we’ll see when that time comes.

Marchintospring · 21/01/2024 00:23

Just to point out that in rural areas you need to pay for a double lesson in order to get somewhere with standard road driving. That in excess of £60 round here. The average driver needs 40 lessons apparently so that’s £1200 plus the £23 theory test. Then it’s the £60 test plus the extended session to use the instructors car if needed.
That’s nearly £1.5k before you even get to buying and insuring an actual car. It’s out of the reach of many families sadly. No matter how much they need their own transport compared to those in cities. I think it would boost the economy no end if everyone rurally could drive.

Angrymum22 · 21/01/2024 00:21

We have two family cars. DS is the main driver on the smaller one but it is not “his “ car. He does use it the most and drove himself to school every day once he passed his test. It wasn’t the plan, but DH had a stroke and wasn’t able to drive for a while. This caused logistic problems because we are rural. The only solution was for DS to drive himself.
He's now on a gap year and is around when I’m at work to chauffeur his dad around when needed. DH can drive again but is no longer confident on unfamiliar routes.
To be honest it has been a godsend, having another driver has taken the pressure off me. Depending on the premiums I am going to put him as named driver on our big car so that when he goes to Uni he will be able to do some of the driving.

When I learned to drive my dad let me borrow one of the cars at home in exchange for driving my younger sisters to after school activities. Most evenings I was taxiing them somewhere.

Although we refer to the car as DS’s we just replaced one of our cars with one he could drive. We had two cars before hand we still have just two cars.

Mademetoxic · 21/01/2024 00:19

TreyTerr · 21/01/2024 00:09

Also, is shame the opposite of pride? As I don’t see why my dc might feel shame, in not funding their cars.

Like anything else we give them, they feel grateful and then get on with it.

I do see your point to some extent, but I think it’s an odd way to look at a car purchase.

But you are funding their cars as you're paying for their insurance. Without that they'll be driving illegally.
They're in for a nasty shock when they have to pay their insurance themselves when their first year runs out, alongside their MOT, car repairs etc....

Ducksurprise · 21/01/2024 00:17

CreateHope · 20/01/2024 22:47

@Mademetoxic given only 1/5 of our population is rural they do seem to be rather over represented on Mumsnet 😂

Do you know what 1/5 of 67 million is?

Ducksurprise · 21/01/2024 00:15

@Bridgertonned because on dark rural roads with large agricultural vehicles, pot holes, floods and big vehicles I know what comes out best.

MindHowYouGoes · 21/01/2024 00:14

JhsLs · 20/01/2024 22:19

I passed my test as an 18 year old in 2006. My mum bought my car and was the registered keeper. She had a policy (3rd party, fire and theft as it was a cheap run around) and I was a named driver. It made it a lot cheaper but not sure if it’s allowed!

That’s insurance fraud

TreyTerr · 21/01/2024 00:09

Mademetoxic · 20/01/2024 23:51

Will they go running to you if they need new tyres? Or any other expensive repairs?

4 tyres on my small little car cost me £500 to replace.

I have a sense of pride that my car that I own I funded myself.

Cars are a luxury.

You're not doing your children (as 17 is a child as they're not fully mature) any favours by paying for their cars.
They will not realise how expensive cars are to keep, how to fund it themselves. They will be in for a shock when they have to pay for it themselves (if it all)...

Also, is shame the opposite of pride? As I don’t see why my dc might feel shame, in not funding their cars.

Like anything else we give them, they feel grateful and then get on with it.

I do see your point to some extent, but I think it’s an odd way to look at a car purchase.