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Does your adult DC live in the family home still?

32 replies

allthenights · 16/01/2024 22:52

If you have DC in their 20's, can I ask if they still live in the family home?

OP posts:
Deb13b · 12/05/2024 19:48

My son, 20, had to give up uni due to chronic health problems. He can't work and honestly I don't think he will be able to move out on his own for years.

5128gap · 12/05/2024 19:29

One moved out at 26, then back at 28 with partner in tow and had DGC. All moved out when DD was 30.
Another moved out at 28 to live with partner. Third is 24, still here, and his girlfriend too 3/4 nights a week.
All three know that they, their partners and DC can consider this their home whenever they want it.

junebirthdaygirl · 12/05/2024 19:21

Two in their 20s have moved out. Our third was away at college and living away but has now returned in an effort to save for his own home.

2chocolateoranges · 16/01/2024 23:01

20yr old at uni lives at home
22yr old still lives at home, started graduate job with 2 and a half years of exams to go. They’re working and saving as much as they can for a deposit for a flat looking to move out after final job exam.

I moved out at 24 and dh was 26. We moved in together after getting married.

mrsfollowill · 16/01/2024 22:57

21 yr old DS still with us. Has a full time job locally and is saving up to buy a house one day. Why do you ask?

OliveToboogie · 16/01/2024 22:55

My 25 daughter has her own home . My 19 son lives with me.

snoopyfanaccountant · 16/01/2024 22:55

20 year old at home, 23 year old moved out last summer into a student flat. I moved out at 24 when I got married.

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