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Rude kid/sleepover

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sweatband · 13/01/2024 18:41

Have a child staying over tonight from sons school, age 9.

He's already made a fat mum joke multiple times (yes I am on the portly side so have taken offence), and he's been incredibly offensive and rude on other levels, non-stop showboating throughout about his Nike airforce this and his foreign holiday that, even asking my child why he always wears the same trainers (he doesn't but that's beside the point).

He has made me realise how polite my kids are though, every cloud...

I just don't know how to control my annoyance at such a rude brat. AIBU to never allow another sleepover again?

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NotSuchASmugMarriedAnymore · 13/01/2024 18:49

Just tell him off.

Tell him if he doesn't behave himself he won't be able to come again.

AyeRightYeAre · 13/01/2024 18:48

Fredthefrog · 13/01/2024 18:46

I'd tell the kid to find his manners or he can go home. I'd follow through as well and call parents to pick up if needed. Has he always been rude or is this new?

Absolutely.

Warning first. Then consequence.

PonyPatter44 · 13/01/2024 18:47

I think I'd tell him that he's obviously not happy andxring his parents to come and get him. I'd tell them why as well.

Why does your son want to be friends with this little twit?

Fredthefrog · 13/01/2024 18:46

I'd tell the kid to find his manners or he can go home. I'd follow through as well and call parents to pick up if needed. Has he always been rude or is this new?

MillicentRogers · 13/01/2024 18:45

If he made a personal jibe at my appearance I would phone his parents straight away and tell them to come and get him and why.

Bibbitybobbitty · 13/01/2024 18:44

I'd be giving him a warning & if it doesn't stop ring his parents to collect tonight. No reason why you should put up with his rudeness in your home.

sweatband · 13/01/2024 18:44

I'm developing a migraine and may take to my room and leave OH to monitor proceedings, I'm that annoyed!!

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justalittlesnoel · 13/01/2024 18:43

I mean it's not even 7 - can you send them home 😂

SusieSussex · 13/01/2024 18:43

Definitely never invite this child back.

Blobblobblob · 13/01/2024 18:42

Of course. You don't want your son thinking this is normal. It's a awful behaviour. Tell the parents!

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