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The desire to be important

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TFrth · 10/01/2024 11:52

I'm currently reading a self improvement book. One of the insights quoted is that the desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature. The gist is that this desire drives a lot of what we observe in daily live - why top execs continue working even when they have millions - why people feel down when they have no work or purpose - why people do attention seeking things. It got me thinking and I realised that nearly all situations I've encountered in life come back to this desire ultimately (with exception of parenting/caring for loved ones probably).

What do you think? Most actions are driven by the desire to be important. Is this a reasonable or unreasonable statement, and why?

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ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/01/2024 12:21

l have no drive to be important in any work place. Jostling with a load of presenteeism turds.

No thanks

Lougle · 10/01/2024 12:19

I would think of it as a desire to be significant, not important. People like to know that they'd be noticed if they were missing.

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