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To vaccinate newborn or not

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confusedaboutclothes · 10/01/2024 10:37

I know this is a very sensitive subject, but i’m asking please for FACTS only - I don’t want answers like ‘because the NHS recommends you to vaccinate your baby etc’

Id like to point out i’m not ‘anti vax’ as such, but covid really opened my eyes to researching vaccines etc i’ve done my own research on whether i should be vaccinating my newborn but it’s hard to find unbiased facts.

What I don’t like, is the pressure that is put on us to do as we’re told with our babies. I don’t like the constant reminders, the phone calls and the pressure to vaccinate - it all feels like a box ticking exercise not because the NHS are actually worried about my baby.

Please be kind, I really am confused about this and would love some different perspectives

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Ann3347 · 10/01/2024 13:37

Andarna · 10/01/2024 13:31

"Id like to point out i’m not ‘anti vax’ as such, but covid really opened my eyes to researching vaccines "

The problem with this starement is that you don't understand why the research was quicker. Normally they research a, then if that went well b, then after that c. With covid they did all the researches a, b and c at the same time and accepted the consequences of the possibility of pursuing a dud in hope that it wasn't and completing the research faster.

You can not speed up the amount of time it was in human trails it's not possible unless they invented a time machine too. A new drug is normally tested for 6-10 years to look for possible side effects this obviously was not done. The human trails for the covid vaccine are on going in all those that took it.

stormy4319trevor · 10/01/2024 13:32

@Happybunnytoday Thank you. Very interesting.

DwightDFlysenhower · 10/01/2024 13:31

Cerealkiller4U · 10/01/2024 12:29

Agree

to say you’ve done readers h is not looking at google

no no no. Proper read watch needs to be published. What papers have you published with regards to your research please?

You don't have to publish to do research...

I'm a research scientist and we don't publish. We patent.

I've also done dozens of literature reviews. Definitely research, definitely unpublished.

I agree with you that looking at Google isn't really research, but you've written a nasty gotcha/put down that isn't even factually correct.

Pratchettt · 10/01/2024 13:31

Nancy1906 · 10/01/2024 13:02

This !

But for all people saying ‘just do your research’ WHERE can you conduct comprehensive and unbiased research @Tryingmybestadhd? it’s no good saying ‘do your research’ unless you’re able to provide reliable resources, and so far the only people who have been able to produce such resources are those in full support of vaccination

Andarna · 10/01/2024 13:31

"Id like to point out i’m not ‘anti vax’ as such, but covid really opened my eyes to researching vaccines "

The problem with this starement is that you don't understand why the research was quicker. Normally they research a, then if that went well b, then after that c. With covid they did all the researches a, b and c at the same time and accepted the consequences of the possibility of pursuing a dud in hope that it wasn't and completing the research faster.

fiftiesmum · 10/01/2024 13:30

The vaccine will give primary immunity - if you come across the disease afterwards this can also act as a booster
Most mums of newborns now have no memory of diphtheria, polio, measles, rubella damaged babies either themselves or their parents.
I am 100% in favour of vaccines but still was nervous at taking my baby to have them done

stormy4319trevor · 10/01/2024 13:28

@justteanbiscuits Thank you so much. I wish I could remember the epidemiologist's name. She was from Imperial and gave a number of interviews during Covid. She said, I am sure, that only vaccines provide lifetime immunity. Catching and recovering from any illness does not. Until then, I'd always thought having measles once gave life time immunity, but now I think the science must have shifted. Also, she didn't say whether boosters were required throughout life to maintain immunity, so I wonder how protected adults are, even if they followed the childhood schedule. What you say is what I thought, but she really confused me.

Andarna · 10/01/2024 13:27

What kind of research did you do? How many patients were involved? Was it double blind? Was it peer reviewed? Or did you just google something and call it research?

Pubmed is where the medical researchers publish their peer reviewed work. That's the only home research that you should take seriously.

Happybunnytoday · 10/01/2024 13:25

stormy4319trevor · 10/01/2024 13:20

There seem to be experts here, so I'll ask again. Are vaccines the only way to get lifetime immunity from every disease? And is this true if you only have childhood vaccinations, or true only if you maintain boosters throughout adult life? Many thanks if anyone can answer.

No, vaccines aren’t the only way. But the other way - the actual exposure to a virus or bacteria and subsequent illness - is much more dangerous, as vaccines contain inactive bacteria and viruses or only their parts.

Also our immune system is very complex and our ability to generate life long immunity is more impaired as we age. Importantly, there are different types of immune responses and they differ in longevity, boosters produce antibodies that are available readily on blood but they don’t persist for more than approx 6 months, while long life immunity relies on T cells that “remember” the pathogen for life and can recognise repeat attack and produce immune response (but this takes a while).

justteanbiscuits · 10/01/2024 13:23

stormy4319trevor · 10/01/2024 13:20

There seem to be experts here, so I'll ask again. Are vaccines the only way to get lifetime immunity from every disease? And is this true if you only have childhood vaccinations, or true only if you maintain boosters throughout adult life? Many thanks if anyone can answer.

It depends entirely on the vaccine. There is no yes or no answer to your question. Some vaccines requires boosters (tetanus for example from the top of my head), some provide life long immunity. Some illnesses provide life long immunity when you catch them. Some don't. Some viruses mutate and require regular vaccination for the mutations.

ItsTheDramaaMick · 10/01/2024 13:23

If you choose not to vaccinate your child you should have to pay privately if they need icu

stormy4319trevor · 10/01/2024 13:20

There seem to be experts here, so I'll ask again. Are vaccines the only way to get lifetime immunity from every disease? And is this true if you only have childhood vaccinations, or true only if you maintain boosters throughout adult life? Many thanks if anyone can answer.

Happybunnytoday · 10/01/2024 13:19

Do you understand that doctors, whom you trust to save your life, wouldn’t harm you for £10?

carolmil · 10/01/2024 13:18

@pinkerseal that is an out and out antivaxxer book... It's not well researched and is basically one big summary of conspiracy theories dressed up as "science".

Happybunnytoday · 10/01/2024 13:16

Tryingmybestadhd · 10/01/2024 13:02

No they get a incentive if they teach a number , maybe you need to research this yourself . They do , not always in money , often I large discounts , new machines or access to them .

No they really do not. This is very highly regulated in the UK. What a load of rubbish. And I don’t need to research this, it’s my job to know. What is yours?

Islandermummy · 10/01/2024 13:15

I didn't want to wade into Covid as it's so polarising.

But... I live somewhere that was basically zero Covid until everyone had the opportunity to vaccinate (think, like New Zealand). It was also a very vaccine skeptical place so lots of people refused - as is their right of course.

When the government opened the borders (after everyone had been offered a vaccine), Covid ran through the population like wildfire. Many of vaccine refusers very sadly died (the health authority initially published whether those that died had been vaccinated or not). Vaccine take up then improved quite a lot.

Of course correlation is not causation and other factors may have been at play - those with less trust in the medical profession may have had other risk factors. But the difference was stark.

Merely anecdotal so probably just as useless a contribution as other ill-informed posters, but my own experience living here has made me confident that the Covid vaccines saved many many lives. And we haven't all died of blood clots or turned into robots

pinkerseal · 10/01/2024 13:15

I also wanted more information about vaccines so I have now read plenty on this subject. I made my decisions based on books such as thismost recent, this, this, and many more. I would say do as much research as you can, i don't believe the decision is as clear-cut as people say it should be.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Turtles-All-Way-Down-Vaccine/dp/9655981045/ref=sr_1_1?adgrpid=1183075410703690&hvadid=73942416208518&hvbmt=be&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=133668&hvnetw=s&hvqmt=e&hvtargid=kwd-73942351880712%3Aloc-188&hydadcr=24431_2219465&keywords=turtles%20all%20the%20way%20down&qid=1704891411&sr=8-1&tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-am-i-being-unreasonable-4981896-to-vaccinate-newborn-or-not

Namechangedforobvsreasons · 10/01/2024 13:14

Verbena17 · 10/01/2024 13:01

If your reply was to me I didn’t google.
I was a student midwife and researched through much academic literature, case studies and trial outcomes (some of which were hidden after animal trials).

Then you'll be aware that usually wouldn't be enough to get you an MSC, let alone anywhere near a PhD.

I'm not questioning your research skills, but you won't have had access to even the resources fully funded departmental research has.

uncomfortablydumb53 · 10/01/2024 13:13

Childhood diseases kill
I can't imagine why you'd want to put your baby at risk, when these are readily available
Personally I think it should be mandatory before school admission unless there is a very good reason, but that's my opinion

Ann3347 · 10/01/2024 13:13

HonoriaLucastaDelagardie · 10/01/2024 12:48

I would like to see long term studies showing general health of vaccinated vs. unvaccinated.

The first people to have diphtheria and polio vaccines are now past retirement age. How long term do you want?

I was in the first cohort to be given the polio vaccine when it was first rolled out. I had it at school, younger siblings had it at the baby clinic.

I knew two people, only slightly older than me, who had polio before the vaccine was available. They were left with permanent disabilities.

There are no studies showing general health of vaccinated vs unvaccinated. Why not?

You might what to read up about polio vaccines they are not all good!
www.theguardian.com/global-development/2019/nov/28/polio-outbreaks-in-four-african-countries-caused-by-mutation-of-

VickyEadieofThigh · 10/01/2024 13:11

IrisVonEverec · 10/01/2024 10:38

Have you looked up the infant mortality rate before and after vaccinations were introduced as part of your research?

This.

therealcookiemonster · 10/01/2024 13:07

dontgetitpal · 10/01/2024 13:05

As a biological scientist I am absolutely triggered by some of the content in this thread. 😂 Fuckin hell, get down to big pharma and apply for a job if you think you know better

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exactly. or even better, get a job as a doctor in the NHS so you can see first hand what happens when people decide not to give vaccines. I am also happy to fund one way tickets to countries with less access to vaccines for some brutal eye opening.

twnety · 10/01/2024 13:06

WAKEFIELDS RESEARCH WAS ON 12 (TWELVE) CHILDREN

Serious Professional MisconductSoon after The Sunday Times published another damning investigative report by UK journalist Brian Deer on December 31, 20069, the UK General Medical Council (GMC) launched what would be the longest Fitness to Practice hearing in its history. Announcing its findings on January 28, 2010, the GMC found more than a few biases in Wakefield’s study and research practices:10

  • Wakefield did not conduct the 1998 study according to ethical standards for research.
  • Wakefield lied in the Lancet paper when he wrote that the participating children were referred independently after being diagnosed with IBD or other major gastrointestinal issues. In fact, many of the children were chosen specifically by Wakefield, and others were recruited with the help of the same lawyer who was paying him to conduct the study.
  • Wakefield subjected vulnerable autistic and other developmentally challenged children to a variety of difficult GI tests, including colonoscopy and lumbar puncture (i.e., spinal tap), without any medical indication to benefit the children.
  • Even before publication of the study, Wakefield was working on patenting his own version of a measles vaccine, which he would sell at a great profit as a supposedly “safe” alternative to the MMR vaccine. The father of one of the children in Wakefield’s study was a cofounder of the planned business that would market this product.
  • Unrelated to the particular paper in question, the GMC panel also found that Wakefield had paid children at his own son’s birthday party £5 each so he could draw their blood for use in his research. He later joked about this during a lecture.
justteanbiscuits · 10/01/2024 13:06

My sons were very happy to receive the HPV vaccine (well, one will get it next month). The rise in penile, anal and mouth / throat cancers caused by the strains of HPV covered by the vaccine far outweighed the risks in their, and my, opinion. It would have also saved me from having dodgy cells removed three times.

Because yes. I have had sex. With more than one partner who has also had sex with more than one partner. I am still at risk of mouth and throat cancers though.

CouCouCachou · 10/01/2024 13:06

stillmissmyboy · 10/01/2024 12:48

OK.

So questions - Why insist on so many different injections in one single visit? Surely much much safer to give a vaccine for one thing, let the baby's body deal with it and then go back for the next one when they're well again?

If the baby is seriously ill, and you've whacked in 6 different vaccines at the same time, how on earth is the Dr in the hospital supposed to know which vaccine has caused the problem?

Why such an insistence on vaccinating against measles but no one seem to give a shit about chickenpox? Looking into both diseases, both can be equally fatal. One of my children was very seriously ill with chickenpox, admitted to hospital. Yet I had measles as a child and breezed through it. I remember having chickenpox a year later and also being very seriously ill. So clearly my 'genes' and those of my son's do not agree with chickenpox.

Why do we stigmatise measles and not chickenpox? Both can be a 'normal' childhood disease - both can be deadly, depending how your individual body reacts to it. Why is the same parent who is deemed negligent for not having the MMR not being told the same for not getting a chickenpox vaccine?

MMR - why oh why do they not still offer single vaccines? A lot of people who currently do not have the MMR would have single vaccines. I definitely would have vaccinated my two earlier if single was available. As it is, I've waited until their bodies were big enough and strong enough in my mind. Both were still poorly after their MMR and neither wants to go back for the booster (they will but you get my point, they're not 'nice' vaccines and do make you sick)

Why keep telling people vaccines are the only way to prevent serious illness? They're not 100% efffective. I saw this myself when my child , vaccinated, got taken into hospital with whooping cough. Seriously ill. Doctor iniitally refused to believe it was whooping cough as he was vaccinated and then had to admit he was wrong. The vaccine simply hadn't worked for him. Please don't tell me it would have been much much worse without as that's just rubbish! He had the disease , a disease he shouldn't have been able to get according to the the information vaccinators give out.

Why do we not acknowledge at all the huge numbers of people, adults and children who are permanently damaged by vaccines? They do exist. Yes, your chances of being seriously affected or killed are higher by the disease itself, but let's not pretend they're 100% safe. They're not. I've read some heartbreaking accounts of babies who have died days after their MMR. True stories. Unbelievably heartbreaking true stories. I can guarantee those parents 100% regret getting the vaccine.

There's always two sides.

But on MN we only ever seem to push the one side.

I was very very grateful that I had a Nurse at my Dr's surgery, and a GP, who were both very open to the idea of spaced out vaccines. GP actually said it was very sensible of me.

But listening to you, it's just get them vaccinated, as many as possible, as quickly as possible.

Are you 100% sure that a vaccine you've given hasn't severely affected a child?

It’s simply factually inaccurate to state that chickenpox and measles are the equivalent of one another.

Chickenpox is a mild disease. Complications are not common. The fatality rate is around 1 per 100,000 cases in children, with most deaths occurring in immunocompromised children. Very few children who catch chickenpox will need hospitalisation.

The fatality rate for measles is about 2 per 1000 cases. That’s 0.20% compared to 0.001% for chickenpox. That is an enormous difference in risk. It’s 1 in every 500 children dying of measles vs 1 in every million children dying of chickenpox. They are orders of magnitude apart.

And that’s before you consider the other complications associated with measles - meningitis, blindness, seizures etc.

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