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To insist on sending gluten free flour for DS's food tech lesson

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listsandbudgets · 08/01/2024 14:43

DS is gluten intolerant. We've just had an email from school asking us to send ingredients for bread and also scones - fair enough not too complicated. However the email goes on to say that it's so they can look at the affect of gluten in cooking

I've emailed back saying that as DS can't have gluten I'll send the closest gluten free equivalents I can find so DS can at least participate and almost immediately got a response saying that it had to be gluten because that was the point of the lesson.

AIBU to insist? It seems very unfair to make him cook something he can not eat. I'm considering emailing back telling them that having a gluten free version will help illustrate the differences and actually enhance the lesson (but I don't want to be THAT MOTHER!!)

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Redburnett · 08/01/2024 15:24

Has DS been diagnosed with coeliac disease by the GP? I think this is critical as to whether you are being unreasonable or not.

MrsCarson · 08/01/2024 15:23

I wouldn't send flour. I'd send a message to say we don't have gluten containing products in the house due to allergy/intolerance. Please be aware not to ask my son not to handle/eat gluten.
I know some kids would feel pressure to be just like anyone else and taste the products. Not all have the confidence to stand up.

Thementalloadisreal · 08/01/2024 15:23

I think you’re right and it’s silly of the teacher not to take advantage of this opportunity to allow them to cook both gluten and non gluten and do a comparison.

cryinglaughing · 08/01/2024 15:22

This sounds like the GCSE curriculum, he will need to know the effect of gluten.
I think at some point they wash the gluten from the flour, unless things have changed in the last couple of years.

Mummyofthewildones · 08/01/2024 15:22

YABU, school have explained why, you could always cook the same thing at home GF with him so he gets to eat it.

Singleandproud · 08/01/2024 15:21

The OP hasnt mentioned any future lessons, there is no way of knowing whether students will be doing a separate lesson using gluten free to both compare properties but possibly looking at intolerances as a whole. If that is the case the OP can not/should not tip the lesson sequences on its head by insisting her child uses gluten free on the gluten week

TeenDivided · 08/01/2024 15:20

I think if this is for GCSE then it is reasonable. If lower down school then I think they should allow gluten free and use him as the comparison.

Edited for typos

aSwarmOfMidgies · 08/01/2024 15:16

If The curriculum says study the effect of gluten then they should have gluten and none gluten or they are not studying any effect , just making a mockery of education and scientific method

KingsleyBorder · 08/01/2024 15:16

PuttingDownRoots · 08/01/2024 15:10

I would expect a Food teacher to understand dietary requirements like gluten intolerance... and why this lesson could potentially cause illness...

The DC won’t be ill unless he eats the items containing gluten. If he had a severe allergy triggered by atmospheric exposure to gluten the OP would have had to pull him out of all food tech lessons already.

sensationalsally · 08/01/2024 15:14

Why don't you just go the whole way and revise the National Curriculum to suit your child?

aSwarmOfMidgies · 08/01/2024 15:12

How can you study the effects of gluten without having a with and without gluten version ? Very poor science surely

PuttingDownRoots · 08/01/2024 15:10

I would expect a Food teacher to understand dietary requirements like gluten intolerance... and why this lesson could potentially cause illness...

Plexie · 08/01/2024 14:57

The point of the lesson is to examine the effect of gluten in baking, not to produce something edible.

What's the point of cooking something inedible in a food tech class??

OP: yes, point out to them that DS baking with gluten-free flour will provide an in-class example they can compare with gluten flour. Although will that be edible or would a different recipe be needed?

Singleandproud · 08/01/2024 14:57

Ask for the recipe to be sent home and DS can make a gluten free batch at home.

If it's a food science type lesson rather than a catering lesson you would be unreasonable to send in the gluten free flour. They may well be doing gluten free the following lesson to compare.

kittykarate · 08/01/2024 14:54

Actually - think it would be useful to have both gluten including and gluten free examples. Then you can 'see' the difference in the dough stretch etc.

pinkysmum · 08/01/2024 14:53

I wouldn't send non gluten. If they want to make the point of the lesson to be to show the effect of gluten - let them provide the resources for that. Why should you pay for something that is useless to your/your son?

Schools should pay for the resources to achieve the learning objective - not the parent. I remember a few years ago I found out my son was being told to use his mobile in school in a lesson to access something regularly - at MY expense as I was paying for the data (not allowed on school wifi) and it had used rather a lot. I kicked off and they apologised.

I would reply to them with what you suggested. It seems a good opportunity to show the difference with/without gluten.

Gruffallowhydidntyouknow · 08/01/2024 14:51

I think you are significantly missing the point of the lesson.

I'm sure we don't need to spell out that they cant study the effect of gluten on baking without the gluten?

mathanxiety · 08/01/2024 14:49

Yes, YABU to insist.

The point of the lesson is to examine the effect of gluten in baking, not to produce something edible.

Bake something gluten free with him at home. The teacher could mention gluten intolerance or allergy as part of the lesson. There's no need to make your child be the poster boy for it.