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Has anyone else never been loved?

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Blomdd · 07/01/2024 22:30

This is something that's been swirling around in my head for a while since I've started dating again. I was in a horribly abusive relationship for years. Before this I had 3 relationships that lasted between a year and two years. I've never been in love, and nobody has ever been in love with me. I have reached a point where I feel like I'm just not the sort of person someone falls in love with. It's getting me down and I feel really unworthy. Has anyone ever felt like this into their 30s and met someone who has treasured them?

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baileybrosbuildingandloan · 07/01/2024 23:03

I'm 61 and every major relationship I have had has cheated on me or become a DV. Three in total. Cheat, cheat and abandon, DV. So no I have never been properly loved.

However I do believe love can happen when you least expect it OP. So fill your life being you and it will come along 💜

Blomdd · 07/01/2024 22:52

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