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To be shocked that over half a million people under the age of 35 are out of work due to long-term sickness

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puncheur · 24/12/2023 16:29

I had no idea. These numbers are extraordinary. 560k people between the ages of 16 and 34 economically inactive due to long term illness.
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/dec/24/500000-under-35s-out-of-work-long-term-illness-uk?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

More than 500,000 under-35s in UK out of work due to long-term illness

Experts link 44% increase in four years to a growing mental health crisis and underinvestment in health services

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/dec/24/500000-under-35s-out-of-work-long-term-illness-uk?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

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roughlyexactlythesame · 25/12/2023 01:18

Not all those 1 in 4 are born that way or have dodgy genetics. I know people who are disabled from accidents and other acquired health conditions. I for example, developed hearing loss in 2015 and have been told it's very likely down to the medication I was taking.

Tigerrag - what medication were you taking? So sorry you've suffered in this way.

Crikeyalmighty · 24/12/2023 23:46

This is a really complex situation- on the one hand there really are some complete pisstakers and I don't get how it is easy it seems for some people to get this that and the other but nigh on impossible for many genuinely pretty disabled people.
I actually know a woman now in her mid to late 50s - who hadn't worked for 30 years or so - no kids, single. She is a bit odd but I wouldn't say incapable of work of some kind , more of a personality disorder- she genuinely doesn't seem fussed to work and would rather struggle-

RidingMyBike · 24/12/2023 23:04

It's a lot harder to manage a fluctuating condition and to work now. When I first started work over a couple of decades ago sick leave was a lot more lenient- nobody kept central records, or demanded doctor/hospital appointments were logged as sick leave, people seemed to take a lot of time off sick and it was never an issue. Temps would be provided to cover work.

Now work is a lot more pressured, we don't get temps in to cover any more, just have to struggle on with it. The Bradford Factor scores mean you're penalised if you manage to get both flu and a stomach bug in the same year, so more people are at work whilst ill spreading bugs around. All of that makes it s lot harder for someone with a fluctuating condition to manage at work without ending up with disciplinary action. Yes, employers are meant to make reasonable adjustments, but that is a lot harder when it's a fluctuating condition.

And a lot of the WFH or more flexible jobs are more senior so you have to get the experience to be able to get those jobs.

Teder · 24/12/2023 22:59

Notlikelysaidthedragontothefly · 24/12/2023 19:37

The issue is no one is taught resilience at all. No one is taught or given the tools to navigate their way through a dark time or challenging part of life so that it does not manifest itself into a mental illness.
I speak as someone in their early 30’s who has gone through Anorexia and an 8 hour scoliosis operation as a teenager. The person who taught me resilience was of the eldest generation - I’m forever grateful to them. I hope I can pass what I’ve learned to my son; that whatever he struggles with as an adult won’t end in him being labelled with something or succumbing to a mental health disorder.

For your son’s sake, I really hope he doesn’t develop a serious mental illness. Firstly, I wouldn’t wish that upon anyone. Secondly, with your attitude of how people are being “labelled” and “succumbing” he’ll have an even harder time in dealing with it.

Octavia64 · 24/12/2023 22:29

Sothisiit · 24/12/2023 19:56

It's a remarkably high number considering the steps made to design buildings for disability access, huge workplace initiatives for mental health access and awareness, flexible work arrangements and working from home employment options.
I'm sure there are many who could contribute some useful hours weekly with many of these workplaces initiatives in place.

I'm disabled.

I use a wheelchair following an accident. Initially I couldn't walk at all but now I can walk short distances.

I've continued in my job since the accident.

The lift breaks on a regular basis. It's a 2 story building, loos are upstairs. If I stay downstairs I can't access a loo all day unless I crawl up the stairs. If I stay upstairs I have to crawl down the stairs to get to my car to go home.

Fortunately I have friends who carry my wheelchair down or up the stairs when the lift breaks.

But I really shouldn't have to rely on friends to get around the building I work in. And crawling up and down stairs is seriously demeaning no matter who you are.

Twilight7777 · 24/12/2023 22:13

i suspect it won’t be as small as you think it is, I was basically told to accept the news and accept that I’ll probably get worse from here on in. Cheery news

DragonMama3 · 24/12/2023 22:12

Before the head-on car crash I was a Size 6 Mother, I canoed, swam, walked and had to order my clothes online. Post crash, my knees are ruined - I can't walk. I'd rather work. Sometimes life happens.

DragonMama3 · 24/12/2023 22:09

megletthesecond · 24/12/2023 16:43

I'm not surprised. My DD may well end up one of them due to MH issues.

I've been trying to get her help from CAMHS for a decade and she's now pretty much dropped out of school. If CAMHS was funded she could have been supported and we wouldn't be in this mess.

Is she getting a tutor for GCSE English & Maths

MissTrip82 · 24/12/2023 22:05

puncheur · 24/12/2023 16:58

The former. Apology for your presumption accepted.

Perhaps next time offer an opinion? As otherwise it looks rather like you intended for criticism to rain upon the heads of people with chronic illness and then rapidly backtracked when you saw the way the wind was blowing in replies.

I feel intensely glad to be 45 and to have been able to work since the age of 15, including whilst completing my degrees. My life has been absolutely enriched in every way because I’ve never had a major health issue. I’m very lucky.

Elfon · 24/12/2023 21:58

I do think that low wages and the nature of many jobs means that people are left with long term sickness as a more attractive option.

My DH has a serious chronic health condition/disability but he has a well paid professional job that he enjoys so he makes it work. In fact, work is a release from some of the pain and inconvenience of his condition as it allows him to focus on something else. I can totally see how if he was working in a low paid job that he didn’t enjoy and with no autonomy to manage his own workload he would be far less inclined to carry on.

Neitheronethingnortheother · 24/12/2023 21:36

Individuals should take more responsibility for their own living expenses, it shouldn’t fall automatically to the taxpayer to foot the bill when people are too unwell to work.

54% of the population are net benefiters i.e. they pay in less than they get back. But sure let's just point our fingers at the disabled and chronically ill people as if they are the only ones.

So much for glad tidings of comfort and joy...

Jouleigh · 24/12/2023 21:35

I'm lucky I can work from home or I would be one of those statistics. Since getting Covid and then being in a horrible rta I have lost the physical ability to drive.
I have had to cut hours as I can't stay in one position long enough.
I'm waiting for several operations and scans. It's been 2.5 years and not got an appt yet.

easylikeasundaymorn · 24/12/2023 21:28

AnaNimmity · 24/12/2023 17:13

There is always the option of paying into an income protection/family benefit plan while still in good health. In the event you’re sadly too unwell to work, the policy will kick in and pay you roughly your salary.

Individuals should take more responsibility for their own living expenses, it shouldn’t fall automatically to the taxpayer to foot the bill when people are too unwell to work.

Isn't that the whole point of tax and NI payments - you pay in when you are able to work in order to get benefits back when you aren't?

Ideally yes it would be great if people paid into an income protection scheme. But people under 34 are already on average going to be earning less than someone 10,20, years older and more likely to be spending much more on housing.
How much money do you think they have free after tax, NI, student loan (12%), pension deductions, followed by extortionate rent, possibly childcare, and constantly increasing bills?

Neitheronethingnortheother · 24/12/2023 21:01

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That survey is skewed. It's conducted through telephone calls (in working hours) and visits to people's houses

Who is going to be more available to take phone calls or be in their house during working hours - the elderly, stay at home parents and disabled people who are either out of work or part time

The government themselves literally say the results are skewed towards people over the age of 65

So if you only interview 0.3% of the population, of which a higher proportion are elderly or disabled then it's not surprising when the results come back saying "guess what lots of people are disabled". Its a biased dataset to begin with

Ask people you work with how many of them have answered a government phone survey. I bet you will count the affirmative answers on one hand.

As for that comment about "crap genes and born defective"...

Spendonsend · 24/12/2023 20:52

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I dont think that sounds unrealistic. Lots of people are born with things and lots of others aquire things as life goes on. With an aging population you end up with a heap of dodgy knees, hips, hearing loss etc.

Squaringthecircle · 24/12/2023 20:50

Mother nature has dictated that 1 in 4 of us Brits will be born defective in some way..

You are being incredibly fucking offensive @EasterBun23 The sad part is I doubt you even understand why.

New wave Aktion T4 project, here we come...

TigerRag · 24/12/2023 20:48

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Some of those 1 in 4 will have long COVID and other long term problems from COVID. People with things like cancer are living longer .

Not all those 1 in 4 are born that way or have dodgy genetics. I know people who are disabled from accidents and other acquired health conditions. I for example, developed hearing loss in 2015 and have been told it's very likely down to the medication I was taking.

EasterBun23 · 24/12/2023 20:43

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Nynaeva · 24/12/2023 20:42

You took the words right off my keyboard @IClaudine.

I just hope some of the judgemental prissies on this thread get to experience what it's like to have or care for someone with a disability at some point, and sooner rather than later, frankly.

Or will they only be happy when we live in a world where AI can identify the future disabled at, or even better, before birth, to all be suitably disposed of before becoming a burden for society? Those that are missed can be left to rot on a winter hillside, wasn't that once the Roman way?

God forbid people with disabilities might have good days and bad days, say, or need some short term help.

There's a massive shortage of assessors as few clinicians with a conscience will do the Tories' dirty work for them, only a handful still genuinely help and that under the radar, given the targets they have to hit.

Good clinicians with a heart are often kicked out of the hiring process early on. From the sound of it though there's plenty on this thread that would be only too happy to be PIP, ESA, or other assessors and take great joy in summarily dismissing all requests for help on the basis of Fred next door and his brand new motor.

How many of the people on here pronouncing these opinions will toddle along to a carol service or mass in a bit and not even see the hypocrisy....

StarDolphins · 24/12/2023 20:39

There are genuine people that can’t but want to work but are unable to due to real sickness.

There are also people imo/e that can work but don’t want to so get signed off sick.

Neitheronethingnortheother · 24/12/2023 20:30

IClaudine · 24/12/2023 20:27

Oh a Christmas bash the disabled thread! How lovely.

Well we aren't supposed to drink, or have a day out or a holiday, or go shopping so we certainly shouldn't be daring to celebrate Christmas, we can't possibly be "properly disabled" unless we never leave our houses and are suitably somber all the time..

Happy fucking Christmas 🙄

IClaudine · 24/12/2023 20:27

Oh a Christmas bash the disabled thread! How lovely.

Neitheronethingnortheother · 24/12/2023 20:24

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 24/12/2023 20:13

I was thinking similar - given the number of people that are off sick with stress, could it have anything to do with management practices (embraced by/forced on the public sector as well as the private) that have made what used to be relatively low pressure jobs enormously stressful? Teaching and childcare and how they are treated by OFSTED would be one example. Another is the NHS where it’s not just management practices it’s trying to deliver a service with chronic underfunding and staff shortages which causes people to go off sick or leave because they can’t cope and then it spirals.

Yes this is probably part of it

Plus companies where the culture is to not hire enough people or to not replace people when they leave so people end up working harder and harder to keep up

Then a culture in some companies (and some schools etc) that you will respond to emails in your own time so that you are never "off"

Even jobs that should be less stressful (is stress was correlated to pay) such as retail can be incredibly stressful when you add in sales targets and understaffed, and managers not backing up their staff against the public, and being torn apart if you don't greet the mystery shopper in the "approved" way, meanwhile you can get videoed and torn apart on social media if you aren't perfect

And then the other thing is the automation of "easier" jobs. So maybe at one point Larry who has autism could go to work in a factory where he had a very specific, relatively skilled job turning out a particular part. Everyone knew he didn't really want to interact too much and they left him to get on with his job which he was good at.

Now that job is done by a machine what is Larry supposed to do? Go work in a call centre, speak to the public all day, have his calls recorded and get bollocked if he doesn't try to upsell three times in every call?

Babyroobs · 24/12/2023 20:23

Davies24 · 24/12/2023 20:09

Please educate me someone..

These "pisstakers" that i know. Trust me i know loads. I'm not lying many of them are my mates, mutual acquaintances etc.

Is it conceivable that years ago it was easier, and they got on the wagon then and since then the evil tories got in power and made it impossible but that doesn't matter once you're in, you're in.

Don't you have to go for a yearly review or something like that?

People go absolutely years between assessments for disability benefits, and at the moment the system is so overwhelmed with new applications ( a huge surge this year ) that re-assessments/ reviews are being put on the back burner so people wait even longer. It's a mad system that needs urgent review.

EasterBun23 · 24/12/2023 20:18

Davies24 · 24/12/2023 17:48

I am not shocked, in my area at least it seems to be relatively easy to get yourself on disability payments for the rest of your life for dubious "mental health" issues.

I can go down to my local Wetherspoons at 10am and many of them will be down there. I know loads of them,

There's a guy on disability who deals cannabis on the side.

There's a guy who gets around on his red disability scooter, parks it outside the pub, walks in and is perfectly fine. Seen him on the dance floor on the weekends 😁

I know a bloke who's in his early 40s who's literally never worked a day in his life. He went to university and after that he was on disability for "anxiety". Granted he does seem slightly socially inept but he's a nice bloke and perfectly capable of coming down the pub and socialising.

My best mates mother doesn't work because of "back problems".. but she's fine walking the dog and decorating. She has a "disability vehicle".. a brand new Volvo.. My mate is on the insurance and he gets to drive it which he is made up with 😂

Quite a contrast to some places in the world i've visited where people with limbs missing are on the streets working, selling food etc.

It's a piss take.. but hey ho. Live and let live.

Where do you live? That sounds like my wetherspoons 😂

Place is half full in the morning with the "anxiety" "depressed" crowd drinking cheap guest ales.

The irony is.. alcohol is a depressant, is exacerbates mental health issues and depresses you further..

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