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What do you tip your bin men?

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ChocolateTVandbaby · 17/12/2023 16:32

Inspired by a podcast I'm listening to... wondering whether people tip their binmen and if so what with? My mum leaves beer out for them. Some people I know give cash. What do you give and how much?

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tara66 · 17/12/2023 17:44

QUESTION - How do you tip the postman if you never see him?
Do you just stick an envelop on the front door with ''Postman'' written on it and hope it's not stolen?
Thanks

FlowerBarrow · 17/12/2023 17:44

I agree they are paid to do a job however in my area they get a lot of abuse for doing that job and maybe an unexpected pack of mars bars takes the edge of having to put up with that all the time

aLFIESMA · 17/12/2023 17:43

£10 or more if I can afford it, our bin men are lovely and will stop the cart lifting up the bins when we are out walking as they know my little rescue dog is frightened of the noise. Lovely guys.

TerrysChocolateOrange · 17/12/2023 17:42

Different crew every week, our last providers were brilliant, I was very sick several years ago and they always put my bins back for me.

In return I left water out for them in hot spells, Easter eggs, and beer at Christmas. I see my old bin man in Sainsburys. We still chat.

QueenBean22 · 17/12/2023 17:42

Nothing. My council tax is extortionate.

Maireas · 17/12/2023 17:40

Perfectlystill · 17/12/2023 17:39

Because they do a really horrible job in all weathers and don't get paid very much.

And ours are lovely. Our old ones were horrible, throwing our bins through our hedge etc so I never gave them anything at Christmas. Then we moved and our new lot were lovely so we've always done it since.

So do you give money per person, or a lump sum per crew?

Perfectlystill · 17/12/2023 17:39

TheSingingDefective · 17/12/2023 17:36

I have never tipped a bin man or postie in my life. I mean, why would you ? Do you tip cashiers in supermarkets ? Bus drivers ? Pharmacists ? It’s bonkers.

Because they do a really horrible job in all weathers and don't get paid very much.

And ours are lovely. Our old ones were horrible, throwing our bins through our hedge etc so I never gave them anything at Christmas. Then we moved and our new lot were lovely so we've always done it since.

spriots · 17/12/2023 17:36

They miss one of our bins about 1 in 4 times so no...

TheSingingDefective · 17/12/2023 17:36

I have never tipped a bin man or postie in my life. I mean, why would you ? Do you tip cashiers in supermarkets ? Bus drivers ? Pharmacists ? It’s bonkers.

Maireas · 17/12/2023 17:36

I don't tip the bin crew, or anyone else. I don't get the inconsistency really between who people tip and who they don't.

MargaritaThyme · 17/12/2023 17:35

I don’t. Tipping is outdated, feudal and, with the living wage now above £11ph, unnecessary. Bin collectors work hard & do an important job, for which they are presumably paid fairly. They are not serfs and I am not lady bountiful.

Maireas · 17/12/2023 17:34

Ostryga · 17/12/2023 17:28

Binmen get a big crate of beer on the last round before Xmas. They drink it at the depot apparently! Postie gets £20 because I order a lot of stuff and he will always, always put them somewhere safe and sign them for me so I don’t have to rearrange delivery. Lifesaver!

Window cleaner gets a Costa voucher and I get my cleaner a hamper of whatever she likes or a SpaceNK voucher.

Do you tip your children's teacher, the nurse who does your smear test, the person serving you in a shop, the shelf stacker at the supermarket?

mygrandchildrenrock · 17/12/2023 17:33

mambojambodothetango · 17/12/2023 16:43

How do you give it? Do you run outside in your pjs at 7am? Or do you put it out for them and hope a ne'er-do-well doesn't make off with it? I do give the cleaners and window cleaner a Xmas tip but they come in/come to the door.

Yes, that’s exactly what I do but I’m in my nightie, as I don’t wear pjs! I am quite old and have always tipped bin men, for over 40 years.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 17/12/2023 17:31

£20 binmen
£10 postman

GatoradeMeBitch · 17/12/2023 17:31

I have always given a tenner because ours are pretty good, on the rare occasion we forget to put the bin out they collect it anyway. But the only way I can do it this year is to tape a card to the bin lid and I don't trust it to stay there if creepy neighbour two doors down notices it.

Also which crew do you tip? Main bin, recycling bin, or food bin? I assume the default is main bin, but what if some of the collectors do food bin every week?

Mumof2teens79 · 17/12/2023 17:31

I know it used to be a thing but I never see them....not like you used to when I was a kid and you knew the names of the 3 guys on the lorry. Now there are 6bor 7 of them, probably different every time..somedays we put 3 bins out so I assume theltas 3 different crews?
They don't do a particularly stand out job either.
So no I don't tip

FestiveAuntFanny · 17/12/2023 17:31

We give them 20, they actually come round door to door on their best (clean) uniforms

Ours are amazing they came on Christmas Day one year, and never complain about our overstuffed bins.

TiredOfYourNonsense · 17/12/2023 17:29

Icepop79 · 17/12/2023 16:33

Never crossed my mind to tip them. I have no idea how many there are, or if they’re the same ones each week. Just like I don’t tip all the other people I come across doing their job.

This.

I don't tip anyone any more. I used to tip the postman, but it seems to be a different person every week

Ostryga · 17/12/2023 17:28

Binmen get a big crate of beer on the last round before Xmas. They drink it at the depot apparently! Postie gets £20 because I order a lot of stuff and he will always, always put them somewhere safe and sign them for me so I don’t have to rearrange delivery. Lifesaver!

Window cleaner gets a Costa voucher and I get my cleaner a hamper of whatever she likes or a SpaceNK voucher.

Hottenan · 17/12/2023 17:27

Ours been on strike for weeks so they can fuck right off.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 17/12/2023 17:26

I don't tip anyone any more. My hair costs a fortune and I usually end up buying a mask to keep the colour or the shampoo and conditioner. I felt bad last week as I went and I took dd and booked her in for a cut which only cost £25-apparently over 5 they charge for an adult cut so it should have been £55 and I didn't take a card or present for my hairdresser but tbh I could dye my hair myself and not pay £110 for it every 10 weeks. My nails I also don't tip as I pay £30. Bin men and postman also no. I pay loads of money in council tax

Awumminnscotland · 17/12/2023 17:26

We give a box of sweets and last year a box of lager too. We're tight this year though so it'll be a box of sweets if anything. They do a great job are part of the community and always go the extra mile for us. They've had our daughter in the cab letting her push buttons etc as she was until this year obsessed with the bin truck. They also leave our bins half way down our steps towards our door not half way down the street. It's appreciated.
No they're strictly not meant to accept gifts as the work for the local authority but I guess that's the same as teachers who work for the local authority.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 17/12/2023 17:25

Nothing. They come before I get up in the morning, so I've never seen them, let alone spoken to them.

LinneM · 17/12/2023 17:24

Benibidibici · 17/12/2023 16:43

I have never tipped a bin man and don't know anyone who does. I also do not tip hairdressers etc. They are free to set their price and i expect them to set a price they are happy with.

The uk doesnt really have consistent tipping expectations. Its not like the US where service employees can be paid as little as $7.25 (only £5.70) an hour and tipping is expected to make up the rest of the pay. UK staff receive a minimum wage intended to be full remuneration.

There's a trend for service people to ask for tips now, with card machines offering it as an option, but i don't know many people who routinely do this.

I dislike tipping culture. I prefer to pay a price knowing it includes good service as standard.

Yep, yep and yep!

sensationalsally · 17/12/2023 17:23

Nope. They get paid a wage to do their job. Same as me.

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