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To ask for your funeral music

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Margotshypotheticaldog · 09/12/2023 18:46

I've narrowed it down to The Only living Boy in New York by Simon and Garfunkel ( I'm obsessed with the weather forecast, only news I need)
And Raise Hell by Brandi Carlisle. Also something by Magnetic fields....Andrew in Drag probably not appropriate though...

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Shivermetimbers0112 · 09/12/2023 22:45

Seem to Recall - Ron Sexsmith
My Baby’s Taking Me Home - Sparks
I Will Follow You Into The Dark - Death Cab for Cutie

Death Cab For Cutie - I Will Follow You Into The Dark +Lyrics

One of my favorite songs by DCFC.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NDHY1D0tKRA

Gardengirl108 · 09/12/2023 22:43

Fate - New Model Army
Good Riddance (Time of your Life) -Green Day
Light Behind your Eyes - My Chemical Romance (and if I happen to die with cancer, I’m having their song Cancer, too) ❤️

Pieceofpurplesky · 09/12/2023 22:38

Counting Crows Holiday in Spain

Thisbastardcomputer · 09/12/2023 22:38

November Rain, Guns and Roses
Save the last dance for me, The Drifters

QueenOfHiraeth · 09/12/2023 22:35

lartghy421 · 09/12/2023 20:06

I want "you'll never walk alone". Only because my family are huge huge huge Everton fans and it would really annoy them.

I love my family but I love then idea of them all having to sit there listening to it.

This made me laugh as I have always threatened the same!

WoollyRosebud · 09/12/2023 22:34

Stardust by Nat King Cole as the curtains close and people leave the crem. Beautiful song and beautiful singer

Crazyforcavies · 09/12/2023 22:32

Barneysmomma · 09/12/2023 20:36

Some Fantastic Place by Squeeze - listen to the words if you don't know it.
You by Ten Sharp
Viva La Vida by Coldplay

I'm so excited to see Ten Sharp, You. I love that song!

Inertia · 09/12/2023 22:30

Terminus - Half man Half Biscuit
This Song- Badly Drawn Boy
Everybody Hurts -REM

AlizeeEasy · 09/12/2023 22:29

Exitlude by the killers

claireymrsd · 09/12/2023 22:28

At my husband's funeral a month ago we had

  • an orchestral version of Today, by The Smashing Pumpkins, his favourite song
  • Abide with Me (London Gospel Choir version)
  • Human, Jack Savoretti version
autienotnaughty · 09/12/2023 22:24

Half the world away Oasis

Beeswood · 09/12/2023 22:24

Entrance - 'In Paradisum', Gabriel Faure.

Exit - 'Clair de Lune', Claude Debussy.

mewkins · 09/12/2023 22:18

toastofthetown · 09/12/2023 19:30

Sally MacLennane - The Pogues
Days - Kirsty MacColl

I love the KM version of Days.

I'd like:

Sweet Thing by Van Morrison
These were the days of our lives - Queen
Strangers - the Kinks

whatwasIgoingtosay · 09/12/2023 22:11

I would like to find a couple of songs that are not hymns but would be suitable for the congregation to sing together as a community - any ideas?

starrylights · 09/12/2023 22:08

gingerpassthegin · 09/12/2023 19:00

This woman's work, Kate Bush, and I wish I knew how it would feel to be free by Nina Simone.

Women's work is mine too.

Greenstar22 · 09/12/2023 22:06

Movin on up - primal scream

FormerlySpeckledyHen · 09/12/2023 21:59

In the Presence Of The Lord - Blind Faith
Our House - Crosby Stills and Nash
Moon River - Eric Clapton & Jeff Beck

hby9628 · 09/12/2023 21:56

@SkyFullofStars1975 we had my MIL funeral this week and they played time to say goodbye. It was a very sad & poignant moment.
Going to her funeral has made me think about my song choices but they keep changing. At the moment it's

Titanium
Champagne Supernova
Zephyr Song
Gravity

SnobblyBobbly · 09/12/2023 21:41

I have a terminal illness and my kids will likely be teenagers when I die. I kind of feel like I'd like my husband to choose a song he wants and I'd like Three Little Birds by Bob Marley at the end. I don't want them to be sad and it's a song that I sing to myself quite frequently if I'm worrying about it all.

Pizzanightagain · 09/12/2023 21:40

My girl...or
I can see clearly now the rain has gone.

Can't decide, I think the latter. It mentions a rainbow so that's enough for me.

JudgeJ · 09/12/2023 21:33

Make Me A Channel Of Your Peace.

Who Wants To Live Forever as the curtains close

5128gap · 09/12/2023 21:30

Hymn to her The Pretenders
Good Riddance Green Day

RobertaFirmino · 09/12/2023 21:30

You'll Never Walk Alone (am lifelong Liverpool supporter) and Always Look On The Bright Side. You come from nothing, you're going back to nothing, what have you lost? Nothing!

Peakypolly · 09/12/2023 21:25

The Lord bless you and keep you - John Rutter
Those were the days of our lives -Queen
Outro - M83

I'd like to slot in Louis Armstrong's Wonderful World if there is an opportunity.