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To find travelling EXTREMELY exhausting all of a sudden?

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whysotiring · 06/12/2023 14:20

I'm only in my late thirties and can't believe how tiring and depleting I find travel now. Planes especially but all sorts of hauling luggage any distance and staying in unfamiliar places really. Don't get me wrong I really enjoy being away on holiday, but I am amazed how exhausted and achey I am now on return. I need a few days rest and quiet to recover - this can't be normal?

It makes me feel so filthy and dishevelled, traipsing through train stations or airports. I hate this aspect I can't seem to feel properly clean. I have no idea how on earth some women look so perfectly fresh and put together at the airport. I just look like complete shit.

I don't class myself as a fussy type of person but when staying away often I find the shower isn't as good as at home - crap water pressure or whatever.

I don't have children so it's not travel with children that's tiring me so much but I do have several autoimmune conditions. However, they never did this to me up until maybe 5 years ago.

My mum died a year ago and we lived abroad so there was a lot of stressful travelling involved with that and I honestly think I have changed since that.

Does anyone else find travelling extremely tiring and like it drains your strength? Am I just turning into a tired cranky woman?

OP posts:
Touty · 06/12/2023 15:18

Yes i find that I don’t enjoy traveling and I hate airports and flying, too clostraphobic and too many germs.

crochetmonkey74 · 06/12/2023 14:57

I definitely know what you mean ! Especially the hotel showers etc. Nothing quite feels as comfortable as home. Generally I love travel, but I've come to realise that unless you pay mega bucks, parts of it are not going to be comfortable. I guess you have to weigh up if its worth it. I've been spending more on shorter breaks, and found this more achievable and enjoyable. I know that grotty airport feeling too! There's nothing like that first bath or shower when you get home

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