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To feel completely disillusioned with the Labour Party?

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user6776 · 04/12/2023 10:19

I've voted Labour since I've been able to vote. Come from a working class family of Labour voters also and I'd never vote Tory, but I'm feeling so disillusioned by Labour at the minute.

Wasn't really a fan of Starmer to begin with, but even less so after his comments about Margaret Thatcher. I really don't want to vote for them at the next GE.

AIBU to just not vote at all?

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mumda · 04/12/2023 21:25

user6776 · 04/12/2023 10:27

How is voting Green not a wasted vote though?

It's beyond bad.

They're really not sensible as an option.

Vote independent.

EatMyHead · 04/12/2023 21:01

YANBU

Starmer represents the establishment's ultimate infiltration and capture of the Labour party and its reconfiguration to make meaningful change impossible. Our electoral system - a blunt instrument for the expression of popular will at the best of times, due to the perversions of First Past The Post - is now nothing more than a rubber stamping exercise to make the public complicit in its own economic and cultural decline and helpless before the challenges of climate change.

I won't be voting for this exercise in mass delusion, in either of its (largely identical) manifestations.

santasknackered · 04/12/2023 20:56

CasperGutman · 04/12/2023 10:30

You need to vote for whatever party is least bad. Please. Parties aim at meeting the needs of those who vote. Presumably their thinking is that you don't win elections by appealing to non-voters!

Currently we've had a series of successively more right-wing Tory and coalition governments, and that's shifted the "Overton window" way to the right of what you want.

The current Labour leadership is pitching itself just to the left of the Tories, as that's where they think they need to be positioned to capture as much of the vote as possible in our stupid First Past the Post two-party system.

If we vote in a few successive Labour governments, we'll hopefully find a choice between a more recognisably socialist Labour party and a Conservative party that's trying to pitch itself as a sort of Blairite democratic liberal grouping.

Of course, a more representative electoral system could also be something to try, but I'm not holding my breath!

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This is spot on and exactly why you need to vote OP.

MargaritaThyme · 04/12/2023 20:40

Starmer’s Thatcher comment would have been extensively tested & focus grouped. It was obviously targeted at people who voted Tory in 2019, but feel disillusioned by the government’s failures. The fact that he made the comment in a Telegraph article tells you all you need to know.
This is the reality of electoral politics in a two party system under FPTP. Swing voters in marginal seats are the only ones who really matter. Boris persuaded millions of them to vote for him in 2019 which is why places like Stoke, Blackpool and even Mansfield are currently represented by Tory MPs. Starmer’s job is to win them back, and he’s currently making a very good job of it.

Papyrophile · 04/12/2023 20:36

I don't have a political affiliation, and never have had. Given the national situation, and my situation, I vote for my best interests. Currently, I tend to think the Tories are out of ideas and Labour is the better option. Interested to see what Wes Streeting has to say about reforming the NHS when he returns from his research visit to Australia.

cardibach · 04/12/2023 20:33

Aishah231 · 04/12/2023 20:30

I'm considering not voting Labour for similar reasons OP. I don't feel comfortable giving my vote to a labour leader who praises Thatcher and won't condemn laying siege to the entire population of Gaza. Also a leader who has broken every promise he made to members and tramples all over democracy in the party. I'll probably vote for a party unlikely to get anywhere but to the left of Labour. I'm hoping the message will get through and the party wil adopt a less corrupt and right wing leader. If the Tories get in again so be it. I'd rather that than be stuck with more of the same but from Labour this time

He didn’t praise her.
He’s made it clear that he thinks the bombing of Gaza should stop.
Vote for the Tories (or someone who will let them in) if you like, but don’t do it because of nonsense made up by the media.

Aishah231 · 04/12/2023 20:30

I'm considering not voting Labour for similar reasons OP. I don't feel comfortable giving my vote to a labour leader who praises Thatcher and won't condemn laying siege to the entire population of Gaza. Also a leader who has broken every promise he made to members and tramples all over democracy in the party. I'll probably vote for a party unlikely to get anywhere but to the left of Labour. I'm hoping the message will get through and the party wil adopt a less corrupt and right wing leader. If the Tories get in again so be it. I'd rather that than be stuck with more of the same but from Labour this time

Papyrophile · 04/12/2023 20:30

All incoming governments are somewhat hamstrung by the economic legacy left to them. It's how they manage their way past it that distinguishes the above average. Blair's landslide victory in 1997 came on the back of Ken Clarke diligently assembling an economy ready to boom back to health, despite the travails of the early 1990s and the shitty corruption scandals (on both sides of the HoC) from the mid 1990s.

cardibach · 04/12/2023 20:25

missmollygreen · 04/12/2023 16:52

The point isnt to vote for someone you think is going to win. It's to vote for someone you want to win

With FPTP it’s also about voting against someone you don’t want to win. I really don’t understand how anyone would want the current shit show to be re-elected…

MissyB1 · 04/12/2023 20:20

Bluemacaroons · 04/12/2023 18:00

Hertfordshire market town by any chance?

No, I’m in Cheltenham. We have the joy of the Justice minister Alex Chalk as our MP sigh……

Bluemacaroons · 04/12/2023 18:00

MissyB1 · 04/12/2023 10:28

Please vote. I totally understand your disillusion but we have to get this criminal shitty Government out.

For the first time in my life I will not vote Labour I will vote Liberal Democrat, and anyway in our town the Lib Dem guy is the only guy who can knock the Tory twat out of his seat.

Hertfordshire market town by any chance?

Circularargument · 04/12/2023 17:57

user6776 · 04/12/2023 10:27

How is voting Green not a wasted vote though?

I voted Green last local elections and for the first time in my life, and I'm 62, someone I voted for got in. All the other votes were arguably wasted on a safe Tory seat.

MintJulia · 04/12/2023 17:56

I'm with you OP, politically homeless. I hate the idea of spoiling my ballot paper but none of the parties is worth voting for.

All I can hope for is a decent local independent candidate with some principles and a backbone. Otherwise, I just don't know......

Hollyhead · 04/12/2023 17:53

I’m a centrist and feel like the only person in the world who thinks he’s sensible, professional and better than the other offerings. He’s got my vote, and it will be the first time in my life voting Labour.

HRTQueen · 04/12/2023 17:21

Did you vote for Blair we all know he was an admirer of Thatcher and even Brown was begrudgingly

I don’t think Starmer is usually particularly good at playing the political game but this time he has even if not done intentionally. To distance himself from the far left is the best thing he can do to win the next election

Papyrophile · 04/12/2023 17:15

Checking tactical.vote, it's unsure about my consituency where Lab and LDs are neck and neck, with the Conservatives hoovering almost 60%.

AgnesX · 04/12/2023 17:13

Even if Labour gets in not much will change. It's hamstrung by the massive borrowing debt that the Tories have left behind.

So much else is a side issue when you look at economics. It really does affect the rest of policy eg the NHS, taxes, public spending.

LakieLady · 04/12/2023 17:02

Tukmgru · 04/12/2023 16:44

If you want the tories out, depending on where you live, you may not have to vote Labour. The Lib Dems are best placed to beat be tories in about 50 constituencies. The SNP similarly in 10 or so.

This website is handy for those considering tactical voting:

Tactical voting guide

Tactical voting list for every constituency

tactical.vote | ready for the next general election

https://tactical.vote/all/

SerendipityJane · 04/12/2023 17:02

Even the biggest landslides have less than 1 in 5 eligible voters vote for them due to low turnout and fptp system.

Somewhere on MN there is a post where I went through the last election results and showed that if less than 50,000 people had changed their minds, we'd have had a hung parliament.

Probably best not obsess on that - it's dangerous knowledge.

LakieLady · 04/12/2023 17:00

Fieldofbrokenpromises · 04/12/2023 16:35

Depends where OP is in any case - if a safe seat then voting makes fuck all difference due to our shit system.

One of the political sites does a really great map, showing what the outcome would be if the latest batch of opinion polls were right. It's quite surprising how many seats once considered safe are actually fairly vulnerable.

I mostly look at the SE, as that's the area I'm most familiar with, and there are a surprising number of seats that were generally regarded as safe Tory seats that could well be at risk, including Jeremy Hunt's, in leafy Godalming, and Chris Philp's in Croydon South (the latter particularly delighted me, because Philp is an idiot, and because I lived in Croydon until I was in my 30s, and the prospect of the Tories losing Croydon South was considered beyond anyone's wildest dreams.) The Tory majority in Guildford was less than 6%, so only needs a 3% swing to the LDs for the LDs to win it.

Boomboom22 · 04/12/2023 16:55

Also if every single person actually voted and voted how they wanted it could easily not be tory or Labour win. Even the biggest landslides have less than 1 in 5 eligible voters vote for them due to low turnout and fptp system. Of those who do turnout less than 2 in 5 vote for the winning party. So all votes def do count and can quite easily swing all seats. If all eligible voters voted in most constituencies that is enough to overturn the current mp.

Abhannmor · 04/12/2023 16:55

When you are polling at 45% like Labour is currently, then there are no 'swing voters ' left to persuade. The 22% or whatever supporting the Conservatives are unlikely to switch because the Labour leader said something vaguely nice about Thatcher. They are probably considering Reform or something similar instead.

On the other hand you risk alienating many of the people who voted for ' levelling up ' in 2019. The voters Mandelson thought you could ignore because ' they have nowhere else to go'. He was so wrong. This idiocy notwithstanding, Labour will surely win the next election? The danger is they will piss around doing Tory lite for one term and be swept away by another far right demagogue.

GasDrivenNun · 04/12/2023 16:54

Vote for the least worst alternative. All parties have some policies that you won't agree with. Some more than others.

NamechangeForthisquestion1 · 04/12/2023 16:53

@GasDrivenNun I think we have far, far bigger issues than gender woo right now, although I appreciate it is an issue...

Mischance · 04/12/2023 16:53

It isn't what KS actually wrote that matters - the problem for me is that he did not have the wisdom to foresee how the media might spin this. If he wants to be PM (and we need to get rid of this government) he needs to develop a bit more in the way of common sense.

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