I did. He'd asked me previously what I'd do if I was with a man who wouldn't leave me, and I told him I'd piss him off until he left me. He'd also said, several times (not at the same time as the "What would you do" question) that nobody ever finished with him. He always told me this very forcefully, as if the very thought enraged him.
From what I could gather, his previously serious relationships had ended that way - he'd been convinced his fiancée was cheating, and ended their engagement in a dramatic way. There doesn't seem to have been any evidence she was cheating, but she acted in some ways that caused him to "know". The other one managed to be annoying and drift away, so he started looking elsewhere.
Our marriage wasn't good from before the wedding. He was a bit of a gaslighter with an unpredictable temper: I became quite insecure. He absolutely hated me asking where he'd been, who with, etc, even in the normal "how was your day" sort of way. I asked him more often, and for more details. We had many huge arguments about it. I cried quite a bit. This all came very naturally, as I felt so unstable in that relationship.
Nonetheless, he kind of seemed to expect this - he was acting like a shit, so perhaps his internal marriage model included an evasive husband and a wailing wife. I already had an active social life of my own, but stopped telling him where I was going, who with, and what I'd been doing. That didn't seem to bother him but he followed me a few times, so I figured I'd carry on.
If anything clinched it, it was when I completely stopped being attentive. I acted like we shared a house (with sex - the sex was mainly good). Didn't do any household stuff except what I needed, didn't ask him if he wanted to eat, made zero attempt at conversation. We spoke, but I didn't chat and shut down the few efforts he made. Didn't say hello or goodbye. You'd think, with all his fulminations about being a Very Private Person, he'd enjoy this but he didn't. He was already shagging around but, conveniently, I think he met his current wife around this time.
As he stormed out, yelling that he was done with me, complete with ring-throwing, one big thought was in my mind: "At last!"
He still didn't file for a divorce - he might have been waiting for me to beg him to come back - so I hurried him up by filing myself. This was when you still had to give reasons, and I knew he'd never sign a document saying he'd been unreasonable! As expected, he counter-filed against me. I signed that thing quickly.
You didn't need all this detail, @JackTheSad - sorry. It's the first time I've had a chance to tell the story! In short, I played to his ego and need for control.
Whatever he keeps telling you annoys him - do more of it. Stop being a wife, as far as humanly possible without distressing your DC. Stop even being his friend & companion. Importantly, follow the advice of the wives of yesteryear: make him think it's his idea!
Oh, and do line up your ducks. I didn't, and came off slightly worse financially (he refused to fill out the financial declaration, which I should've foreseen). Post-divorce, though, he was quite civil and actually very helpful.