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How clean should your house be after a cleaner visit?

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Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 21:15

I am trying to work out if I have unreasonable expectations of my cleaner.

She does a bit of tidying as well and some ironing. She has plenty of time, isn’t rushed but I’m finding that stuff I think is basic is being left unclean.

Should they move stuff to vacuum around?

Should they move stuff on the kitchen worktop to clean under?

Should there be smears on windows or glass surfaces? This is kind of where she’s obviously wiped it down but not ‘polished’ it off.

Would you expect the floor in the gaps between appliances to be cleaned?

Would you expect cobwebs to be removed?

I’m having a real internal struggle as I really like her, she’s a lovely women, but I just don’t feel like she’s doing a good enough job.

I pay her well, she has good conditions, I am just trying to understand if my expectations are too high.

Happy to answer any questions if it helps.

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Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 23:06

Honestly thank you all.

I am genuinely very easy and if it were right time wise I would extend it - I don’t expect anyone to work in a stressful way.

I like her a lot and trust her so I will have an honest conversation and hopefully we can get through it.

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Concannon88 · 20/11/2023 23:02

So when I was younger I had a couple of cleaning jobs, and as silly as it sounds I just didnt know what to clean. I think I would have missed some of these things. Please just write a list of things she is missing and some of the things she isnt missing and ask her to do them, itll make her feel less shit if she thinks it's just you wanting certain things cleaning and not saying shes done a shit job. You can change it every week and hopefully after a few goes she'll know what to clean. If this doesnt happen shes just lazy.

Dramatic · 20/11/2023 22:58

I was a cleaner for years and you are absolutely not asking too much. I would never leave cobwebs or streaks on glass. Things like hoovering/mopping under side tables would always be done and cleaning round the bottom of taps is very very basic. For 4 hours in a house your size I'd be expecting to do a very thorough clean.

RocketIceLollie · 20/11/2023 22:58

Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 22:49

Absolutely. I could clean the areas I’m asking in less time than I’m paying for.

There's your answer then. The market is saturated with lots of cleaners. Try someone else, preferably an independent self employed cleaner who will probably attend to detail rather than an agency cleaner just doing the rounds.

Jellykat · 20/11/2023 22:55

The fact she leaves early says it all.
I clean a 3 bedroom house top to bottom, including fridge, cooker etc and change the 5 beds in 4 hours, time to get a new cleaner!

Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 22:54

Concannon88 · 20/11/2023 22:46

It would be easier to comment if you listed the things she does do in the time.

She theoretically does what I ask but not as well as I’d like.

So I ask her to hoover the whole house, but skirtings and edges aren’t done and easily moveable things aren’t moved.

She cleans the bathroom but misses some surfaces and the taps etc.

She cleans the kitchen but there are still crumbs in crevices and the worktops feel sticky.

She dusts but I notice she doesn’t move picture frames.

She does the living room but doesn’t move dining chairs to clean under the table.

It’s all done but not as well as I’d like.

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Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 22:49

RocketIceLollie · 20/11/2023 22:47

Do you honestly think you personally could do a high quality clean of all the areas you are asking for in the time you allocate? That should answer your question.

Absolutely. I could clean the areas I’m asking in less time than I’m paying for.

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Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 22:48

@RusemaneGanche

I really don’t think I am expecting too much especially as she’s leaving early!

@mathanxiety

In the kitchen I’m talking toaster, kettle, breadbin and three canisters. No dishes. Everything goes in dishwasher before she arrives.

Hoovering I am taking about laundry baskets on the landing, shoe basket in the hallway, blanket basket in the lounge.

Underneath easily accessible furniture - not moving any armchairs or anything like that.

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Iceache · 20/11/2023 22:48

I expect cleaners to clean like I clean:

All dust gone
Skirtings & edges hoovered (inc bannister & plate rail, picture rails)
Bathroom / toilet as clean as can be done - ie no grime left anywhere
Nooks & crannies hoovered / things moved to hoover under (not large furniture)

I’m yet to find a cleaner who does as good a job as I do which is frustrating. I’ve had every one question why I need a cleaner when my house is spotless. I’d say you need a new cleaner but good luck finding one!

RocketIceLollie · 20/11/2023 22:47

Do you honestly think you personally could do a high quality clean of all the areas you are asking for in the time you allocate? That should answer your question.

Concannon88 · 20/11/2023 22:46

It would be easier to comment if you listed the things she does do in the time.

Nevermind31 · 20/11/2023 22:40

My amazing cleaner (who I have had for 14 years across three properties) has a rota of things she does, but the house is always clean after her visit. She does clean under the sofa and in gaps, moves things around, and the place is spotless. We will have tidied for her.
before her (and for a while whilst she was on sick leave) I had to fire a lot of cleaners because their clean was not acceptable. But I go through an agency, and they just send you a different one. I think the difference is… I have someone who is a professional and takes pride in her work. Others might clean, but they may not be a professional cleaner.

mathanxiety · 20/11/2023 22:26

How much stuff has to be moved to vacuum around? Mounds of clothes? Footwear? Heavy furniture? Blankets that have fallen off the couch onto the floor? Or is it just a case of shifting an armchair back a few inches?

How many items are left on the counter for her to move so she can clean the surface? If it's just the usual appliances and not stacks of dishes or bags of flour, etc, then she should move them to clean underneath.

RusemaneGanche · 20/11/2023 22:22

She has plenty of time, isn’t rushed

How big is your house?
How untidy is it left for her?
How big is the ironing pile?
How long does she have to do it all in?

I'm a cleaner. I'm good at my job, Im sought after and have a waiting list. I've been doing it for years and know my stuff. I'm part of a national network of cleaners. Thousands of us. The one issue we ALL struggle with is clients with unrealistic expectations.

As an example, I recently met a client who had dumped her cleaner because she wasn't doing a good enough job. This house comprised of 2 WFH adults, one of whom had two businesses which ran from her house - a mum & baby group, and a dog training class. Hoards of people coming in daily. She also had 3 young kids, 3 large long haired dogs and two long haired cats.
The house was a 3 storey - All LARGE rooms. 6 beds, 3 bathrooms, 2 offices, utility room, dining room, family room, lounge, downstairs WC, boot room. It was huge. They were outdoorsy people too, so mud and leaves were traipsed on top of all the per hair and general mess of all these many people who used the house.

She dumped her cleaner because she wasn't managing this house to a high standard kn the TWO HOURS she'd only pay her for.

When I explained a house like this needed at the very bare minimum, 5 hours, she wouldn't have it. Then proceeded to say "but my last cleaner did it in two!"... but she wasn't, which is why she got rid of her! The poor cleaner had also started bringing her mum to help her. So actually 4 man hours of work was being put in, but client was still only paying for 2 hours and complaining it still wasn't good enough.

She insisted she wanted me though, so I agreed I'd do what I could in 2 hrs, but there was no way I could do the whole house. She followed me round and saw the back breaking effort I put in, and reluctantly agreed "OK, maybe 2hrs isn't enough" so said "let's do 2.5hrs" I wanted to cry!

Eventually, after many a conversation she agreed to go up to 3hrs. But she expected the entire house done.

That job was literally injuring me trying to do it at break-neck speed to meet all her demands and expectations. My back started giving in and I was having to cancel other jobs after doing hers because it made me so physically exhausted and in pain.

I let her go when I ended up having to have 3 weeks off work (self employed, so if I don't work I don't earn). And she still said "I think you ought to work notice to give me time to find someone else" ...I was literally physically unable to work because of the physical pressure she'd been putting me under because she didn't want to pay for the actual amount of time that house needed.

That was a big lesson learned for me. I have these sorts of clients sussed within about 2-3 cleans now, and no longer put myself through months of gruelling pain trying to satisfy their unrealistic expectations. I just move on to the next one. I don't earn nearly enough to put my physical and mental health at risk like that.

So, just make sure you really aren't expecting too much OP. It's very easy for people who don't do this job to think we just waft a duster about and think it's a piece of piss. It actually requires more skill, physical demands, coordination and time management than people realise.

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Flibbertygibbetty · 20/11/2023 22:09

You are not being unreasonable! Our cleaner leaves the house shiningly clean and has 4 hours £15per hour for 4 bed with big rooms, also irons, cleans windows, anything we ask for. You need to have an honest conversation and let her know exactly what you expect. Cleaning taps properly is basic. Show her how you want things done if necessary, just the once. Ask her to hoover properly under things and use the nozzle for the ages. It is pointless paying someone if they don’t leave it really clean.

I don’t know why you let her go early though. Give her a list of extra jobs to do “if you have time at the end” eg ironing. She needs to know you expect more. If she doesn’t respond get a new cleaner.

Cosywintertime · 20/11/2023 22:07

Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 21:59

4 hours

3 bed

One bathroom and one loo. They are very modern so no funny crevices etc.

Basically I want hoovered throughout, hard floors mopped, all rooms dusted, thorough clean in kitchen and bathrooms.

No bed linen changes etc

The ironing is an ‘if you have time’ and not essential.

For that time and house size then your list is correct and I’d have the beds changed too.

Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 22:06

Ok, thank you everyone. Much appreciate all of your input.

Big chat this week 👌🏾

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Heloo · 20/11/2023 22:02

sorry but you need to get a new cleaner. Changing the beds is the best bit of having ours!

Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 21:59

Cosywintertime · 20/11/2023 21:53

How much time does she have op and how big is the house? You’re developing quite a list there, on top of tidying and ironing.

so the key question is time and house size.

4 hours

3 bed

One bathroom and one loo. They are very modern so no funny crevices etc.

Basically I want hoovered throughout, hard floors mopped, all rooms dusted, thorough clean in kitchen and bathrooms.

No bed linen changes etc

The ironing is an ‘if you have time’ and not essential.

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Flanjango · 20/11/2023 21:57

Hoovering edges is part of the job of hoovering. I had some who cleaned before I arrived (very strange) and others that, well, left worse but I won't make you sick with that one. Basic jobs should definitely be done properly if time allows, which clearly they do as she leaves early. Not getting what you pay for tbh

Sunnydays0101 · 20/11/2023 21:56

If she’s not doing basic things like cleaning taps properly, then it’s time to let her go or maybe first, explain exactly what cleaning is not up to standard and give her a chance to step up. It may well be that she thinks she’s doing a good job.

zurala · 20/11/2023 21:56

I would just get a new cleaner. If you talk to her she will do what you want a few times then go back to her old ways. She knows she's doing a crap job and she doesn't care.

Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 21:55

@Reallyontherocks

£15 an hour for cleaning and some ironing (basic bits - not smart shirts etc).

I pay for 4 hours but don’t mind her finishing early if the house is really clean.

So for example I dropped a concealer stick the other day on my way out of house and it rolled under my hall way unit, the base of which is about 15 inches off the floor.

It was still there when I got home and there was dust all there so she’s not hoovered swept or mopped under and that wouldn’t have required anything to be moved.

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Pugdogmom · 20/11/2023 21:54

Merryoldgoat · 20/11/2023 21:42

I have spoken to her but I feel like a broken record.

Also, it feels weird to say ‘when you clean the bathroom can you make sure to clean round the basis and the taps all the way to the bottom?’

That just feels obvious which is why I’m asking if I’m being unreasonable - it seems so obvious that if she’s not doing it is it unreasonable?

I had a couple of cleaners, and ended up doing it myself as they didn't clean to a high enough standard for me, ended up doing it myself. Same thing, leaving early, and not doing it properly.
I'm talking about similar things, mirrors with smears, half my bedroom furniture dusted and taps half done.
Always left place tidy so they could clean.