To be so sad to find out I'm having another boy

I don’t understand either, but threads come up on mumsnet all the time about people feeling sad that they’re having sons (and it’s always sons people are disappointed about). So you aren’t alone, even if it’s baffling to most people.

You presumably wouldn’t swap your son for a girl now that you have him. You’ll feel the same about the new baby too.

Sad?? I have two friends who would have given everything in the world to have two healthy little boys.

I have one of each and both are a joy. My 5 year old ds said completely unprompted last night 'mummy I love you, you're so beautiful'. He is always keen to help around the house and is a total breeze to food shop with. Every parents evening nothing but good things, he's kind caring, tries his best etc. Honestly the perfect kid. It's a shame you feel the way you do and no I don't understand it. A child of either sex is a blessing and I know 2 friends whose babies have died so honestly a living child is something to be grateful for.

I have two boys. I also longed for a daughter and am ashamed to admit that I cried when I found out my second was a boy. I wouldn't change a thing now, they are my absolute world and it's true what they say about 'Mummy's boy, Daddy's girl' - I have a beautiful relationship with both of them. They also have a such a special brothers' bond. You can have just as fantastic bond with sons as you can with daughters, I promise ❤️

3 boys here, they're an absolute pleasure honestly. Wouldn't change them for the world. Just enjoy your precious miracles honestly, you're so lucky 💗

I was disappointed to find out I was having a son but he's an absolute delight, at 18 he is a fantastic lad. My step daughter is not so nice. Boys are generally affectionate and loving and from my own experience and my friends, boys are much easier in general.

Sorry, I don't understand. Congratulations on your pregnancy. I had my first son after many years of trying. Couldn't believe I fell pregnant again with my younger son. I am so happy to have 2 healthy children, 20 months apart. They're now 14 and 12 and get on so well. Would I have liked a girl? maybe early into second pregnancy but having 2 children of the same sex is nothing to be upset about x

Only boys here. Wouldn’t change them and their cheeky smiles.
They give best hugs.

Bit silly putting this in AIBU OP, it’s like you want a bashing. Maybe ask for it to be moved. Obviously you are BU and if you get to take a healthy baby home at the end of your pregnancy you should be very grateful.

I have one of each and my dd is such a dads girl. She absolutely adores him. She's only a baby though and her entire first year revolves around dh so you might be wishing for something that doesn't happen. otoh my ds is sooo close to me from baby till now (7yo).

You know the saying mummy’s boys , daddy’s girls. I’m sure you’ll have wonderful relationships with your boys .

I hate these threads. It is always bashing boys, people never seem disappointed to have girls... Given you thought you couldnt fall naturally I would focus on that.

You can’t help how you feel. Take a deep breath, let yourself feel a few days of grief and loss for the girl you dreamed of, and then accept that another cute little boy will be completing your family. Hope it all goes well.

It will pass. Sons can still have close relationships with you. My sons are delightful and i truly enjoyed them. Be grateful for the blessing you have been given. Your boys might really bond with each other more so than if they were boy/girl And have a wonderful close relationship. Look for the positives. I do understand that if you had your heart set on a girl it can be disappointing but this baby is an unexpected gift.

I wanted a daughter first time round. Son arrived. Second time I wanted a son as I figured they’d be better friends. My 2 are in their 20s and have been great friends since they were young and still are.
I have great relationships with both of them and enjoy their girlfriends and my niece.