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To think State education is really poor?

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Boswelian · 17/11/2023 19:55

We sent our eldest to a taster day at a private school. He was agog. His school don't allow playing on the grass when it's wet. The private school change them into waterproofs and wellies for break. PE 3x a week. Sport every day. Dedicated specialist teaching in art, DT, languages, sciences etc. 16 in a class instead of 30. The difference in the quality of life between the two school has really blown my mind. The state school is "outstanding". The private school reckon DS is 2 years behind their curriculum. We've been told in state that he's meeting expectations. How is this remotely acceptable?

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HumourM3 · 17/05/2024 06:06

Charlie2121 · 16/05/2024 22:51

Can you explain how this is crippling the country?

Are all judges incompetent? Are all actors rubbish? Would England have won more test matches if they’d picked more state school educated players?

It’s cropping this country because it ensures social mobility is incredibly poor. There are many, many state educated people who could do the same jobs (and probably better) but they are held down, shut out. And so it goes on generation, after generation.

And yes yes to the previous poster’s point about regional spending educational inequalities. Yet another educational inequality the Tories have done nothing about.

It’s appalling and the majority are sick of it. The status quos needs to change.Those who buy privilege for their children are up in arms at the thought they may not be able to afford the luxury anymore which will mean their dc joining the ranks of everybody else. We see you. You don’t actually give a shit about anything else just your own children having access to unfair privilege. There is a reason parents pay ££££££ and often more than many people earn and it’s this.

RampantIvy · 17/05/2024 04:40

Papyrophile · 16/05/2024 23:02

I no longer have DC in school, but nationwide per capita funding to level the regional discrepancies would help. I read London posters often praising their local school. While I am delighted for them, my local community college's per capita funding, in a low-wage agricultural area is only two-thirds of theirs.

That was the case at DD's school. Several years ago the school, along with the support of the parents and our MP successfully fought this to win a fairer slice of the funding cake.

CurlewKate · 17/05/2024 04:28

@opticalconclusion "His family is a story of people who have worked hard to achieve. People Labour can’t bear."

What, people like Wes Streeting, Angela Rayner, Keir Starmer.....

Papyrophile · 17/05/2024 00:05

No, social mobility plummeted when the universal 11+ was abolished. When I took it, in 1967, it was with my whole class from a very ordinary working class county primary school in rural west Cornwall. Three papers, English, Arithmetic and a reasoning paper. If you scored high, you went to Grammar School until you were 15. And then, most got an office job. If you didn't, you worked in the quarry or on a farm or for your family, because there were few alternatives. Military service perhaps. A handful, about 5%, went to university.

JimmyGrimble · 17/05/2024 00:03

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:48

How is he doing that?

Labour are definitely doing that with their vat fee proposal. As has been documented on this thread and others.

That’s just an opinion. Not a fact. Other opinions are available.

WrongSwanson · 16/05/2024 23:55

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:48

How is he doing that?

Labour are definitely doing that with their vat fee proposal. As has been documented on this thread and others.

I can't see anything to be proud of in a private education sector that produces the next Rishi/Suella /Boris. I would be appalled if my children grew up with their values.

Social mobility has plummeted since the Tories were in power

(I am a floating voter, I am not a lefty).

Papyrophile · 16/05/2024 23:54

I often muse that the the UK is a country that prefers gradual organic change rather than anything more radical. Safer, softer and more sustainable long term. It's not as broken as some suggest although there's always scope to do better, of course.

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:48

WrongSwanson · 16/05/2024 23:35

And now he's busy kicking the ladder rungs off for everyone else and even supporting the deportation of people to Rwanda. Hardly a success story in my book. I would be devastated if my child took the stance Suella and Rishi etc have taken and I know many others who feel the same

How is he doing that?

Labour are definitely doing that with their vat fee proposal. As has been documented on this thread and others.

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:45

ForlornLindtBear · 16/05/2024 23:24

He is an abject failure as a politician though. That is the only point. His race has absolutely nothing to do with it.

Eh? Who brought up his race??

Papyrophile · 16/05/2024 23:44

They can't fill jobs because mid career changer PGCE students, like me, refused to apply for jobs in classrooms to engage with the behaviour issues after qualification. I liked teaching, and teenagers, but with no effective disciplinary sanctions, it wasn't a task I was willing to perform. I don't have a vocation to transform sow's ears into silk purses and I wasn't bothered either way.

Sadly not @JimmyGrimble. My local independent school already had a teacher for my subject and because DH has a small business, relocation wasn't on the cards. I wanted to work, not a divorce.

JimmyGrimble · 16/05/2024 23:36

Papyrophile · 16/05/2024 23:32

They can't fill jobs because mid career changer PGCE students, like me, refused to apply for jobs in classrooms to engage with the behaviour issues after qualification. I liked teaching, and teenagers, but with no effective disciplinary sanctions, it wasn't a task I was willing to perform. I don't have a vocation and I wasn't bothered either way.

Couldn’t you have worked in the independent sector?

WrongSwanson · 16/05/2024 23:35

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:16

His family is a story of people who have worked hard to achieve. People Labour can’t bear.

https://www.findmypast.co.uk/blog/discoveries/rishi-sunak-family-tree

And now he's busy kicking the ladder rungs off for everyone else and even supporting the deportation of people to Rwanda. Hardly a success story in my book. I would be devastated if my child took the stance Suella and Rishi etc have taken and I know many others who feel the same

Papyrophile · 16/05/2024 23:32

They can't fill jobs because mid career changer PGCE students, like me, refused to apply for jobs in classrooms to engage with the behaviour issues after qualification. I liked teaching, and teenagers, but with no effective disciplinary sanctions, it wasn't a task I was willing to perform. I don't have a vocation and I wasn't bothered either way.

ForlornLindtBear · 16/05/2024 23:24

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:23

Perhaps he should have stayed being a waiter in a curry house. Where he belongs eh? How dare he make a success of his life.

He is an abject failure as a politician though. That is the only point. His race has absolutely nothing to do with it.

JimmyGrimble · 16/05/2024 23:24

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:23

Perhaps he should have stayed being a waiter in a curry house. Where he belongs eh? How dare he make a success of his life.

What a ridiculous comment. Pathetic.

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:23

ForlornLindtBear · 16/05/2024 23:21

What a disparaging comment. If he were as incompetent with prescriptions as he is in government, the thought of him as a pharmacist is frankly quite terrifying.

Perhaps he should have stayed being a waiter in a curry house. Where he belongs eh? How dare he make a success of his life.

JimmyGrimble · 16/05/2024 23:23

Another76543 · 16/05/2024 23:20

You only have to have read reports in the media and posts on here to realise that teachers are often leaving because of behaviour problems. Society has changed hugely since 2010. Lockdowns have added to the issues. Those issues run far deeper than funding.

It’s all part of the same shitshow. It’s what happens when a deliberate police of ‘austerity’ attacks the weakest in society. And who did that?

ForlornLindtBear · 16/05/2024 23:21

Papyrophile · 16/05/2024 23:14

He could have qualified as a pharmacist and still be dispensing your antibiotics from a Boots in Southampton. Would you like that better? Sunak's parents earned the funds to educate a clever lad to get to Winchester, and he built on it.

Suggest you change username to JimmyGrumble.

What a disparaging comment. If he were as incompetent with prescriptions as he is in government, the thought of him as a pharmacist is frankly quite terrifying.

Another76543 · 16/05/2024 23:20

JimmyGrimble · 16/05/2024 23:16

I’m a teacher. 25 years. Taught under Labour, taught under the Tories. Guess which one was better? ‘They’ can’t fill vacancies because of the way they have treated the profession since 2010.

You only have to have read reports in the media and posts on here to realise that teachers are often leaving because of behaviour problems. Society has changed hugely since 2010. Lockdowns have added to the issues. Those issues run far deeper than funding.

JimmyGrimble · 16/05/2024 23:20

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:17

Gimmy Jimble?

A career in stand up beckons, clearly

JimmyGrimble · 16/05/2024 23:18

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:16

His family is a story of people who have worked hard to achieve. People Labour can’t bear.

https://www.findmypast.co.uk/blog/discoveries/rishi-sunak-family-tree

It’s true. ‘We’ can’t bear miserable, mendacious Tory failures.

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:17

Papyrophile · 16/05/2024 23:14

He could have qualified as a pharmacist and still be dispensing your antibiotics from a Boots in Southampton. Would you like that better? Sunak's parents earned the funds to educate a clever lad to get to Winchester, and he built on it.

Suggest you change username to JimmyGrumble.

Gimmy Jimble?

JimmyGrimble · 16/05/2024 23:16

Another76543 · 16/05/2024 23:10

He announced more teachers before today. Where are these extra teachers coming from? The magic teacher tree? They can’t even fill existing teacher vacancies, let alone additional ones. Teachers are leaving in droves, largely because of behaviour issues. That is not an easy fix.

I’m a teacher. 25 years. Taught under Labour, taught under the Tories. Guess which one was better? ‘They’ can’t fill vacancies because of the way they have treated the profession since 2010.

opticalconclusion · 16/05/2024 23:16

WrongSwanson · 16/05/2024 23:09

This is rather naive and stupid. The PM went to Winchester college and suella also went to expensive private schools.

Plus they are hardly good examples if we want to talk about the kind of citizens and leaders private schools produce. In fact I sit firmly on the fence about the whole vat thing but mention of Sunak, Suella (and their cabinet peers) and not to forget Boris "lockdown party" Johnson reminds me that some private schools produce abhorrent individuals

His family is a story of people who have worked hard to achieve. People Labour can’t bear.

https://www.findmypast.co.uk/blog/discoveries/rishi-sunak-family-tree

A story of migration and cultural exchange:  Rishi Sunak's family tree | Blog

With a heritage that spans from India to East Africa, this Conservative politician’s family has a rich and interesting history.

https://www.findmypast.co.uk/blog/discoveries/rishi-sunak-family-tree

Papyrophile · 16/05/2024 23:14

JimmyGrimble · 16/05/2024 23:04

Sunak? Self made? He went to frigging Winchester and his parents owned a chain of chemists. It’s not evolution that selects its cold, hard cash.

He could have qualified as a pharmacist and still be dispensing your antibiotics from a Boots in Southampton. Would you like that better? Sunak's parents earned the funds to educate a clever lad to get to Winchester, and he built on it.

Suggest you change username to JimmyGrumble.

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