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Boswelian · 17/11/2023 19:55

We sent our eldest to a taster day at a private school. He was agog. His school don't allow playing on the grass when it's wet. The private school change them into waterproofs and wellies for break. PE 3x a week. Sport every day. Dedicated specialist teaching in art, DT, languages, sciences etc. 16 in a class instead of 30. The difference in the quality of life between the two school has really blown my mind. The state school is "outstanding". The private school reckon DS is 2 years behind their curriculum. We've been told in state that he's meeting expectations. How is this remotely acceptable?

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Charlie2121 · 16/05/2024 08:56

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:41

Well the extra cash will be useful. But like many I will expect labour to bring in other measures on top to counteract the unfairness and inequality in all sectors of life caused by private education.

You do realise there won’t be any additional cash. Even Labour has agreed that the headline figure is misleading.

Firstly there is the cost to fund additional state places.

Secondly there is a cost caused by the change in behaviour that will result from the move to state. If I use state schools I won’t pay 250k fees. I also won’t pay 50k VAT. But more significant than that I won’t need 600k of earnings to fund the 300k I no longer need to pay. This means 300k less income tax receipts as I’ll work 4 days, retire earlier etc.

It soon becomes obvious that this policy will actually cost the tax payer money.

philosoppee · 16/05/2024 08:55

There are loads of wonderful, inspirational teachers in state schools. Who are there because they believe every kid should get a chance. Yes we have low budgets and less equipment (rainwear for the whole school? No way) but that in no way means we are crap teachers! We are also juggling a wide range of needs with far higher numbers. But unless you are exceptionally well off and can afford to dismiss us, you should appreciate that most of us are doing the best we can for your kid! I know there are some crap teachers. They annoy good teachers just as much as they annoy the parents. But your OP is just plain silly. Of course if you pay loads you get more equipment and opportunities. The issue is you have to pay.

Barbadossunset · 16/05/2024 08:54

Well the extra cash will be useful. But like many I will expect labour to bring in other measures on top to counteract the unfairness and inequality in all sectors of life caused by private education.

HumourM3 what other measures will Labour bring in?

Another76543 · 16/05/2024 08:53

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 06:14

The majority aren’t bad. That is a ridiculous thing to say. Nearly 90% are rated good or above by Ofsted which isn’t easy to achieve.

Ofsted ratings mean very little to many families. Our local “good” state primary is dreadful. Pupils join in reception far exceeding national averages in assessments, and yet leave in year 6 performing far below average. Around 60% leave without having reached the expected standards in English and maths. Pupils and teachers are leaving in droves. There have been violent incidents. Perhaps Ofsted views that as “good”. As a parent, I certainly don’t.

Busephalus · 16/05/2024 08:51

No-ones forcing you to do anything, if there's enough of you in that area, send your kids local and raise it's standards and spend the extra cash on extra curricular

TheaBrandt · 16/05/2024 08:50

Very cruel to say all state schools are “crap”. Awful.

Mine thriving in a single sex state dd1 aced her GCSEs and on track for top a levels top
level university offers nice decent like minded friends. We supplement sport and tutors where needed. It’s not perfect but many of the teachers are amazing. The biggest issue seems to be teacher retention. I do resent it when some of those that choose to privately educate want to justify their choice by slagging off state schools. Had it in real life it’s not on. .

Charlie2121 · 16/05/2024 08:47

SabrinaThwaite · 16/05/2024 08:32

Does anyone think that those defending private education have very little experience of good state education?

Absolutely.

Plus you have to be able to defend forking out upwards of £150k - £200k per child for a private education from age 4 through to 18.

It is pretty much the exact opposite of this.

Virtually all the private school parents I know have had experience of decent state schools whether that be as children themselves, through a mix of private and state use or from friends and family experiences.

They would love to have this for their own children however the option is not always there in their locality.

If there was excellent state school provision local to me I would not be spending 250k on private schools.

This is why the tax feels so unfair. It will cost me an additional 50k simply because I live in the wrong post code. Other families living a short distance away in excellent state catchment areas can afford to earn far less, pay less tax, have a decent level of schooling provided and yet have the same disposable income as we do.

When parents who were fortunate enough to live in excellent state catchment areas start commenting about private schools I would flip the original question around and ask does anyone think that those defending excellent state schools have very little experience of poor state schools? Perhaps if they did they’d understand the position many of us who are effectively forced to use private schools find ourselves in. We don’t spend £250k+ for no reason.

twistyizzy · 16/05/2024 08:47

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:41

Well the extra cash will be useful. But like many I will expect labour to bring in other measures on top to counteract the unfairness and inequality in all sectors of life caused by private education.

What extra cash? If >10% of DC leave private schools then the net income will be £0.
There has already been a 2.7% reduction before Laboir have even won the election.
The policy is not sustainable as it will result in behaviour change.
If Labour were truly bothered about improving schools they would raise revenue through income tax. As an example, a 1p ring fenced education tax for higher rate payers could bring in £10+billion per year. However they aren't propsing that are they?

NeedToChangeName · 16/05/2024 08:46

Fionaville · 17/11/2023 20:10

In our area, the very deprived town is next to a very well to do town. The state high school results are world's apart. The top sets in the deprived school area, perform the same as the bottom sets in the richer area.
That's been the same for decades.

@Fionaville this doesn't surprise me. But I dont think it follows that the private school is "better". Exam results tend to reflect the catchment / demographics of the pupil population

LutonBeds · 16/05/2024 08:45

Ballsbaill · 17/11/2023 20:03

Education education education for the rich rich rich under labour.

Your precious Blair ... the first thing he did was introduce university tuition fees. How short a memory you have.

…And his Education Secretary; Ruth Kelly at the time IIRC, scrapped support for night schools, stopping adult learners being able to access qualifications. It was so sudden that the college (16-19 in the day but did night school too) I worked at had people on the doors on the evening that the night school should have started, apologising and having to refund everyone who’d booked on to classes as they could no longer run them.

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:41

EasternStandard · 16/05/2024 08:40

I can see you are sold on the policy but it won’t do what you’re after

Well the extra cash will be useful. But like many I will expect labour to bring in other measures on top to counteract the unfairness and inequality in all sectors of life caused by private education.

EasternStandard · 16/05/2024 08:40

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:37

VAT will bring in £1.6 billion. The unfair advantages private education causes needs to stop with proper measures put in place. Then it wont be a teeny tiny number benefiting but the vast majority.

I can see you are sold on the policy but it won’t do what you’re after

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:40

twistyizzy · 16/05/2024 08:36

If >10% leave private school then there will be £0 income from VAT.
For every DC that leaves private means an extra burden on the state because that pupil now needs funding.
Short sighted.
If DC from state schools get the same grades and have a better life experience then what is the issue with private schools? Leave is to waste our money for no benefit for our DC.

The issue is the privately educated with the same grades unfairly represented in the top jobs and unis. It needs to be recognised and measures put in place to stop it. Then frankly nobody will give a shit about private education at all- but of course those in the private system don’t want that. They want the status quo to carry on whilst pretending to care. 😂

twistyizzy · 16/05/2024 08:37

SabrinaThwaite · 16/05/2024 08:32

Does anyone think that those defending private education have very little experience of good state education?

Absolutely.

Plus you have to be able to defend forking out upwards of £150k - £200k per child for a private education from age 4 through to 18.

Not many parents pay from 4-18 and a lot mix and match state.

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:37

Charlie2121 · 16/05/2024 08:32

I’ll say it again, if what you say is true, then why would you support a policy that will make the situation you appear to have an issue with even worse? It makes no sense.

VAT will bring in £1.6 billion. The unfair advantages private education causes needs to stop with proper measures put in place. Then it wont be a teeny tiny number benefiting but the vast majority.

twistyizzy · 16/05/2024 08:36

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:26

Of course labour don’t care because a tiny number of families get bursaries and a tiny number will pull out of private. The scaremongering and frothing is all from MNers with kids in private. The rest of the country know the reality and the damage private education causes. The Tories lack of any attempt to sort the huge inequalities private education brings just showcases their entire time in power.

If >10% leave private school then there will be £0 income from VAT.
For every DC that leaves private means an extra burden on the state because that pupil now needs funding.
Short sighted.
If DC from state schools get the same grades and have a better life experience then what is the issue with private schools? Leave is to waste our money for no benefit for our DC.

Charlie2121 · 16/05/2024 08:35

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:29

It’s not unfair discrimination. At the moment private school pupils are unfairly represented in the top jobs and unis for literally no good recon as state pupils get the same grades and actually have far better life experience. That is unfair discrimination and needs to change.

I’m not sure the most appropriate way to correct perceived discrimination is to create an alternative discrimination in the opposite direction.

Charlie2121 · 16/05/2024 08:32

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:26

Of course labour don’t care because a tiny number of families get bursaries and a tiny number will pull out of private. The scaremongering and frothing is all from MNers with kids in private. The rest of the country know the reality and the damage private education causes. The Tories lack of any attempt to sort the huge inequalities private education brings just showcases their entire time in power.

I’ll say it again, if what you say is true, then why would you support a policy that will make the situation you appear to have an issue with even worse? It makes no sense.

SabrinaThwaite · 16/05/2024 08:32

Does anyone think that those defending private education have very little experience of good state education?

Absolutely.

Plus you have to be able to defend forking out upwards of £150k - £200k per child for a private education from age 4 through to 18.

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:31

Charlie2121 · 16/05/2024 07:37

“Something needs to be done about private education to stop the inequality”.

I know let’s gets rid of any possible access to private schools for lower earning families while at the same time leave the people who we have an issue with to continue with their elitist education and by definition become even more elitist.

Great plan Baldrick!

Hardly any low earners can access private education. All children from low and middle income families should have the same chances as kids from rich families. Sorting out private education unfairness properly will level the playing field far wider and in a more though way- but of course those with kids privately educated don’t want that.😂

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:29

Charlie2121 · 16/05/2024 07:39

Why would someone who appears to strive for fairness wish to unfairly discriminate when it suits?

It’s not unfair discrimination. At the moment private school pupils are unfairly represented in the top jobs and unis for literally no good recon as state pupils get the same grades and actually have far better life experience. That is unfair discrimination and needs to change.

HumourM3 · 16/05/2024 08:26

twistyizzy · 16/05/2024 07:43

All that will happen is that bursaries for lower income families will end and private schools will become for the trulybwealthy only. Thus actually increasing the inequality gap.
A >10% reduction in DC going to private school = £0 net income from VAT.
Labour know all of this but they don't care.
If they were truly bothered about improving state education then they would be talking about ring fencing income tax, but they aren't.
VAT policy will add an additional 16,000+ students to the state sector this September 2024 at a cost of 100m+. The policy is already costing the treasury more before they’re even in power! Where is the extra budget coming to fund those 16,000+ places and more expected in next couple of years?

Of course labour don’t care because a tiny number of families get bursaries and a tiny number will pull out of private. The scaremongering and frothing is all from MNers with kids in private. The rest of the country know the reality and the damage private education causes. The Tories lack of any attempt to sort the huge inequalities private education brings just showcases their entire time in power.

EasternStandard · 16/05/2024 07:57

RampantIvy · 16/05/2024 07:49

Does anyone think that those defending private education have very little experience of good state education?

We considered private education for DD for secondary but when we did the maths it was clear that it would be a huge stretch and we wouldn't be able to support DD through university. We took the view that paying for a tutor would be an option if required, which we did just for maths as she had a not great maths teacher.

DD went to a good state comprehensive, smashed her GCSEs and A levels and graduated from an RG university that required AAA with a first in a STEM degree.

The all state schools are rubbish mantra is simply not true.

We’ve used both and we have similar results from state for Ds, STEM at RG

I don’t agree with the VAT policy due to all the reasons that keep coming up. It’s just a gimmick and will have poorer outcomes

twistyizzy · 16/05/2024 07:54

RampantIvy · 16/05/2024 07:49

Does anyone think that those defending private education have very little experience of good state education?

We considered private education for DD for secondary but when we did the maths it was clear that it would be a huge stretch and we wouldn't be able to support DD through university. We took the view that paying for a tutor would be an option if required, which we did just for maths as she had a not great maths teacher.

DD went to a good state comprehensive, smashed her GCSEs and A levels and graduated from an RG university that required AAA with a first in a STEM degree.

The all state schools are rubbish mantra is simply not true.

We did state primary because the village state school was fab.
Private secondary because local state secondaries are dire.
State 6th form because the local 6th form college ie great.

I am not ideologically wed to private but I just want to do the best for my DD.
If we were in a grammar area then she would probably have gone to grammar.

There are good and bad schools in both sectors, most of us just do what is best for our DC.

The 90,000+ SEN DC in private are there for a reason ie mainstream state can't accommodate them.

Fundamentally the comprehensive 1 size fits all has proved not to work. It doesn't work for many SEN, it doesn't work for many high achievers and it doesn't work for many low achievers. What we actually need is MORE choice not less.

RampantIvy · 16/05/2024 07:49

Does anyone think that those defending private education have very little experience of good state education?

We considered private education for DD for secondary but when we did the maths it was clear that it would be a huge stretch and we wouldn't be able to support DD through university. We took the view that paying for a tutor would be an option if required, which we did just for maths as she had a not great maths teacher.

DD went to a good state comprehensive, smashed her GCSEs and A levels and graduated from an RG university that required AAA with a first in a STEM degree.

The all state schools are rubbish mantra is simply not true.

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