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Primary school dilemma - Please help

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Carbonaranight · 11/11/2023 23:20

Which primary school to choose out of the two below for our reception child that starts in September? Please help!

AIBU - Local primary , 8min walk from home, good reputation over the years, ofsted rating good (last inspected last year) and many current friends from the nursery will go to this local school meaning that our kid will have some friends to begin with

AINBU - CofE primary, 15min drive, needs supplementary form from a Christian church to get in but our priest signed this form for us, good reputation over the years, ofsted rating outstanding (last inspected last year) and our kid won’t possible know any classmates.

We are Christians from a different denomination, believers and don’t mind the churchy part of the second school. We also love that it’s outstanding but the commute and the fact that our kid won’t have friends in the beginning worries us.

Please please please help us chose! Whichever we put first, we will get an offer 🙏🏻

AIBU - Go for your local good school
AINU - Go for the churchy outstanding with longer commute

OP posts:
mynameiscalypso · 11/11/2023 23:26

We've gone from a longer nursery commute to a short walk to school and it's made a huge difference to our lives.

DDivaStar · 11/11/2023 23:25

Local school within walking distance will be so much better.

School runs by car are so stressful and great to have local friends.

I don't think schools should be teaching religion as fact they have enough to do.

acemenace · 11/11/2023 23:25

I'd opt for the good local school. The school run quickly gets tiring! Plus local school means local friends.

Tarantella6 · 11/11/2023 23:23

If there is a perfectly good school in walking distance you would be absolutely crazy to commit yourself to a twice daily drive for the next 7 years.