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Only CF don't park on their driveway?

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rubyjan · 20/10/2023 16:18

So neighbours next door recently dropped the kerb outside our houses and built themselves a driveway. They can fit 2-3 cars. They have 2. A small pick up truck and a car.

Doing this they removed 3 parking spaces that were used, and inconveniently the next available parking space on our side of the road is in front of my home where I've managed to park for years with no issues.

Each neighbour sort of parks outside their homes but before they dropped the kerb they would park outside theirs but there was extra space for other cars to. (Their drop kerb spans more than 3 curbs) because they wanted to ensure they could reverse out as people opposite park on the opposite road in front.

My aibu is, they never fucking use their drive. But they don't park on their dropped kerb either. They park opposite!!! So the residents who usually park there, now fight for my parking spot or the woman's next door to me.

Because of working hours, I've now found myself without a parking spot and I have to park round the block as if I manage to park outside mine if I dare leave, it be taken.

I actually want to shout at them for not using their drive! But my mum said I would be unreasonable as it's a public road.

Im council and they won't give me permission to turn my front garden into a drive either! And it's just a ball ache walking an extra 10 minutes to my house heavily pregnant with small children purely on the basis they don't use their drive they put in 4 months ago!!

Would I be unreasonable to actually have a word with them?

OP posts:
paintingvenice · 20/10/2023 16:41

Why wouldn’t you get permission from a dropped kerb but they would? I’d look into whether thru actually did it with permission- and see if they have set a precedent for you?

TheFlis · 20/10/2023 16:41

There is a guy on our street who has a driveway that easily fits 2 cars side by side. He has 2 cars but only ever parks one of them on his drive. Everyone hates him. It’s just so selfish when parking is limited (to to an unusual road layout, most of us aren’t allowed to have drives).

I bet they tell their insurance companies the cars are parked on a drive!

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 20/10/2023 16:37

I would definitely want to know why they aren’t using the driveway they’ve paid for. 🤔

rubyjan · 20/10/2023 16:33

TheThingIsYeah · 20/10/2023 16:23

It's a bit of a pain when a road gets turned into a series of dropped kerbs as it implies no one can then utilise on-street parking.

But I looked this up years ago when our then neighbour was being a twat. I think you can park across a dropped kerb as long as there is no vehicle on the property, i.e you can block someone from getting ONTO their driveway from the road but you can't block someone getting OFF the driveway.

Not sure if this is true and would like to hear if anyone's had the balls to try it!

When I arrive home, if their drive is empty and they are all parked opposite.. I will test this out! L

I was all for them getting their driveway,

I totally get I don't own the road I front of my home and when residents have guests they generally park in my spot but it really bothers me that I can't park because they removed parking spots on road and then use others!!

OP posts:
Blackbyrd · 20/10/2023 16:31

Don't speak to them at all, report your concern to the relevant Planning Authority. As PP said, there is no way they'd get permission for a triple width dropped kerb

TheThingIsYeah · 20/10/2023 16:23

It's a bit of a pain when a road gets turned into a series of dropped kerbs as it implies no one can then utilise on-street parking.

But I looked this up years ago when our then neighbour was being a twat. I think you can park across a dropped kerb as long as there is no vehicle on the property, i.e you can block someone from getting ONTO their driveway from the road but you can't block someone getting OFF the driveway.

Not sure if this is true and would like to hear if anyone's had the balls to try it!

Zingy123 · 20/10/2023 16:22

They could get a ticket parking over a dropped kerb. That's probably why they aren't doing it.

JustALittlePotatooo · 20/10/2023 16:22

I'm surprised they were allowed such a wide dropped kerb. I would start by trying to find out if it was done legally or if they just dropped it themselves 🙈 we aren't allowed a dropped kerb at all because it would result in the street losing out on a parking space 🙃 Never mind the fact we're the ones who park in the space in question...

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 20/10/2023 16:20

ask them if you can park on their empty drive?

did they actually get permission to drop the kerb? were you or the other neighbours consulted first?

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