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wonder what has happened to couple who freebirthed in Carribean?

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StrangerYears · 19/10/2023 03:43

Clive and Iuliia Gurzhii were all over the news for 3 days in August, after idiotically going to give birth on a beach a long way from home.
The birth was unwitnessed and very odd circumstances.
I googled them and all I could find was a gofundme (never saw that one coming!!) - it raised GBP128 out of an ambitious target of GBP15.000.

Do you think they are still out there?

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StrangerYears · 06/09/2024 02:33

Wow, I missed lots of this.
It really is a shitshow and all of their own doing.
The only ones I feel sorry for is the toddler, pre teen child in UK and the Ethiopian men.

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Catsmere · 05/09/2024 23:31

FarmGirl78 · 05/09/2024 23:11

Did you read the original post? I think you're crediting Clive with FAR too much intelligence to plan even a tenth of that. Didn't he previously get done for driving the wrong way down a dual carriageway or did I dream that? And wasn't he banned from a running club for something? I'm sure he was one of those 'Freemen of the land" types. He just came across as a very disorganised, oblivious, over confident feckless middle aged man with a much younger wife. I hope it worked out for them, but I'd definitely assume moron rather than cunning mastermind.

Yes, I only know of this knobhead from these threads, but I remember all the incidents you mentioned being referred to in the original thread.

FarmGirl78 · 05/09/2024 23:11

SwingTheMonkey · 19/10/2023 04:34

Not sure what was said in the original thread about these two but there’s no way this baby was theirs. They faked a pregnancy and went abroad trying to adopt a child without going through the correct route. Gave birth in the middle of the sea? Do me a favour. Someone gave birth, it just wasn’t her.

Did you read the original post? I think you're crediting Clive with FAR too much intelligence to plan even a tenth of that. Didn't he previously get done for driving the wrong way down a dual carriageway or did I dream that? And wasn't he banned from a running club for something? I'm sure he was one of those 'Freemen of the land" types. He just came across as a very disorganised, oblivious, over confident feckless middle aged man with a much younger wife. I hope it worked out for them, but I'd definitely assume moron rather than cunning mastermind.

Dixiechickonhols · 05/09/2024 13:20

I think baby (toddler now) is theirs and reluctance to have dna test and engage with authorities re birth certificate is due to Clive’s ‘freeman of land’ beliefs. But I guess anything is possible.
I still can’t get my head around starting a go fund me which then drew press attention to them sailing around Caribbean in a luxury yacht (I thought drug not people smuggling but it was obviously being funded somehow) and leaving elder child behind in England then feeling aggrieved when authorities take action in criminal court or social services scrutiny.

meteow · 05/09/2024 10:16

How messed up is this ! I guess just because most people would want to be with their kids more than the bloke, doesn't mean all women would think the same. Look at the women that allow men to abuse their children... not all have morals.

I wonder if the baby is actually theirs too.

TooBigForMyBoots · 04/09/2024 23:02

HonoriaLucastaDelagardie · 04/09/2024 14:57

the two, who cannot be identified for legal reasons:....

Does that mean there are more charges pending, I wonder?

But really, on the evidence of this and the previous thread, he who can't be identified for legal reasons appears to be both inept and unpleasant.

I think it may be in order to protect the children.

HonoriaLucastaDelagardie · 04/09/2024 20:08

Depends if either agreed to a DNA test. Which they seemed to be refusing and I don't think you can force that.

Maybe if it's required as part of a criminal investigation it can be compelled?

So the 'wanting to give birth on a beach' story was all bollocks? People smuggling was what they were at all along? I suppose if the baby is theirs, she came early, when they were at sea, and the delay getting to the hospital was because they had to offload any migrants they were carrying first.

Thank goodness they weren't able to take the older girl with them, whatever the reason.

ayvasili · 04/09/2024 19:02

Better than EastEnders! I wonder what will happen next?

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RedToothBrush · 04/09/2024 17:46

I think the thing I find mad is he sailed a boat of that size across the Atlantic. And back again. Without killing himself in the process.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 04/09/2024 15:37

‘Ethiopians is as bizarre as the rest of the story. How do two Ethiopians end up being trafficked in the Caribbean?’

We tend to think of people smuggling or illegal migration as boats in the Mediterranean or the Channel, but it is a worldwide business ( well, probably not China or North Korea), as these two blokes’ stories demonstrate. I read somewhere that a lot of the people coming over the southern border into the US are not from South American countries, but African and Pakistani / Bangladeshi. The Caribbean is a recognised stopping off or transfer point .

murasaki · 04/09/2024 15:18

HonoriaLucastaDelagardie · 04/09/2024 15:14

I find it hard to believe that the second daughter hasn't been trafficked at this point.

I suppose by now the Cayman authorities will have established whether she is their biological child.

Depends if either agreed to a DNA test. Which they seemed to be refusing and I don't think you can force that. So he'd be putting his principles over the child. Unsurprisingly.

HonoriaLucastaDelagardie · 04/09/2024 15:14

I find it hard to believe that the second daughter hasn't been trafficked at this point.

I suppose by now the Cayman authorities will have established whether she is their biological child.

RedToothBrush · 04/09/2024 15:08

NearlyAugust · 04/09/2024 15:04

Blimey!

It's the story that keeps on giving!

Poor men on the yaught and that couple's poor kids

I find it hard to believe that the second daughter hasn't been trafficked at this point.

murasaki · 04/09/2024 15:05

He's a one man cult and she has Stockholm syndrome, probably.

NearlyAugust · 04/09/2024 15:04

Blimey!

It's the story that keeps on giving!

Poor men on the yaught and that couple's poor kids

HoppingPavlova · 04/09/2024 15:00

I just don’t understand how any woman could find Clive attractive? I don’t mean physically but attractive as husband/father material. I mean surely, you’d just want to be with your kids, and when you realise it’s all gone pear shaped and you are pretty permanently separated from your child in the UK, surely then you go ‘pack it in Clive, and if you don’t, I’m out of here in a millisecond so I can get back to my daughter in the UK and will happily provide my DNA so I can take my new baby back (if indeed it was actually her baby???)’. How on earth does Iuliia find Clive so attractive as a man that she is prepared to give up her child/children for him? What am I missing?

murasaki · 04/09/2024 14:58

HonoriaLucastaDelagardie · 04/09/2024 14:57

the two, who cannot be identified for legal reasons:....

Does that mean there are more charges pending, I wonder?

But really, on the evidence of this and the previous thread, he who can't be identified for legal reasons appears to be both inept and unpleasant.

I suspect it's just because they refused to give their names so they aren't on record.

HonoriaLucastaDelagardie · 04/09/2024 14:57

the two, who cannot be identified for legal reasons:....

Does that mean there are more charges pending, I wonder?

But really, on the evidence of this and the previous thread, he who can't be identified for legal reasons appears to be both inept and unpleasant.

NewName24 · 04/09/2024 14:56

Hernandez asked the man, 52, and his wife, 39, who appeared by video link from George Town’s Summary Court cells after they were removed from the courtroom for disruptive behaviour, if they wanted to give evidence in their defence.
The pair earlier denied the legitimacy of the court and insisted they did not recognise its authority. They did not enter plea.

Wow. They are the gift that keeps on giving, aren't they ?
Good spot @taxnotme

On a more serious note, I hope their poor children have someone with more than an ounce of parenting ability looking after them. Sad

Dixiechickonhols · 04/09/2024 14:55

It must be a massive headache for officials. I’d guess baby is still no birth cert or passport (as she was born at sea and last update on that was the Caribbean country they had sailed to wanted a dna test and they had refused and sailed off) they can’t just repatriate baby to England to be looked after by family or foster care here.

RoseAndRose · 04/09/2024 14:55

I think the circumstances of the older daughter are probably best left private (some posts on this or earlier threads hint at a likely scenario)

Refusing to acknowledge a court's authority in straight from the Freeman Of The Land playbook, and never gets anyone the result they were after.

Dixiechickonhols · 04/09/2024 14:51

Thanks for sharing @taxnotme. I can’t believe it’s not been picked up by mainstream media.
It sounds like he’s been making a living people smuggling.
Where is baby if they are in cells? Assume in an orphanage there.. and oldest daughter back in Tameside.

murasaki · 04/09/2024 14:51

Can they sentence people who refuse to give their names even though the court knows full well who they are? It's fascinating in a fucked up way, but I hope someone appropriate is looking after the baby. And the kid in the UK. They are not to blame for the utter batshittery of the parents. If indeed they are the parents. If they trafficked the men, and by not taking them to where they'd agreed and paid for, it could be said that they did, they could well have trafficked the baby.

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