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To wonder why shoes are so expensive for toddlers

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Mama822 · 18/10/2023 13:17

Why are toddler shoes so expensive?
so I got my toddler some wellies from next with vouchers but he couldn’t walk in them, and i thought maybe wrong size, poor fit or not ready for wellies. He’s 18 months and been running since 10 months!
it’s the third time I tried to buy shoes online that just don’t fit!
last time I went to Clark’s LO was curling his toes and the shoe fitter just said “oh let’s just guess he is a size 4”, and then tried to squeeze shoes on and encourage me to buy the shoes.
so I went to a little independent shop and he’s needed a size 5! got shoes there, great service and fortunately the best fitting shoes were half price!
anyway went today to see if we could get fitted and get the right wellies and none of the wellies are supportive enough so tried on a pair of gortex ankle boots which fit great and comfy, waterproof and warm enough for winter and fine for spring too etc then asked the price —- £64?!!!! Is this normal?
I’ve come home to think about it, and will need to discuss with DH. If we get then we won’t get any other shoes , and won’t get spares. He will wear them until he outgrows them! They do leave plenty growing room.
money is tight but I don’t want to get badly fitting shoes - DH has foot problems and so have I, and was told by the foot dr it was from wearing poorly fitted shoes, and I’m so paranoid about that.

I don’t trust myself to buy online again or fit them myself.
I don’t want to go back to that Clark’s again. There is nowhere else near us that fit kids shoes so I think I’ll have to go back and get these shoes. And hope he doesn’t have a growth spurt!!

but I can get shoes cheaper for myself so it’s a little frustrating.

AIBU to wonder why shoes are so expensive for toddlers? Is it worth it? Is it normal? Should I just be ok with it?

tia x

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YourNameGoesHere · 18/10/2023 13:44

Honestly for the amount of time he will be wearing them if be buying them secondhand. Either that or ask around any other parents you know I suspect someone will have a pair of wellies knocking around they would happily give you.

Mama822 · 18/10/2023 13:44

I also know not all the fitters at Clark’s will be like the one I last experienced, but I do know at the independent shoe shop they are all experienced with young feet

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Mama822 · 18/10/2023 13:42

Benminster · 18/10/2023 13:34

Your comparison is off.

You would not get an equivalent gore tex for an adult cheaper then a toddler - a quick look at the Clark's website puts them at over £100.

Oh that makes sense. I guess I feel more limited what I can buy my toddler because they are still so young and need the support.
but then maybe I should be buying better shoes for myself?!

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Mama822 · 18/10/2023 13:41

Heartbreaktuna · 18/10/2023 13:34

We have a local independent children's shoe shop I get DS feet measured at. I only buy his shoes there because I've also had disasters buying (supposedly) the right size shoes elsewhere online. It's a false economy! Each time it's £60+ a pair.

Yeh this is what I am thinking - I may end up spending more buying the wrong shoes, thinking I’m spending less, but h e to change them more often!

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Benminster · 18/10/2023 13:35

Posted too soon

You can get cheaper toddler shoes in the same way you can get cheaper adult shoes. If you choose a branded show in Clarks you will of course pay a higher price

Heartbreaktuna · 18/10/2023 13:34

We have a local independent children's shoe shop I get DS feet measured at. I only buy his shoes there because I've also had disasters buying (supposedly) the right size shoes elsewhere online. It's a false economy! Each time it's £60+ a pair.

Benminster · 18/10/2023 13:34

Your comparison is off.

You would not get an equivalent gore tex for an adult cheaper then a toddler - a quick look at the Clark's website puts them at over £100.