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Complaining about Village life?

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BumpkinChic · 08/10/2023 08:47

I just don’t really get this.

I live in a rural village and almost every week we have someone complaining on the village online group about one thing or another… mostly over things that pretty much come along with rural village life. The top culprits are usually along the lines of:

”they haven’t told us they are going to spread manure and now I can’t open my windows because of the smell”

“church bells ringing at all hours”

“the internet speed is always so poor”

Why are you living rurally if you didn’t factor these things in? What is complaining on a Facebook groups supposed to do about manure? IMO a lot of these things are minor annoyances. I know not everyone has the choice of where to live but I know this is not the case for some of the regular moaners. And I know village life can sometimes be dreary but I love it and have always lived in small villages so I know I’m biased.

please enlighten me, I’m genuinely baffled.

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brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 08/10/2023 09:43

SiouxsieSiouxStiletto · 08/10/2023 09:37

Now I want to know how Ted is. Poor Ted.

Maybe he’s one of “there fallen comrads” now, those motorcyclists of the Eastern Front…

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Dessertinthedesert · 08/10/2023 09:39

Not rural but beside the sea. Lots of newbies complaining of the fog horn.

Dita73 · 08/10/2023 09:38

This happens all the time where I live too. People seem to think that if you live in the country it’s all growing your own veg and riding horses. It is quite funny when reality hits them

ehb102 · 08/10/2023 09:38

You're allowed to not like the behaviour of the hunt even in the most rural of rural places. It's when people start taking against pest control with guns that country people start rolling their eyes.

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 08/10/2023 09:37

MyJetNowAirlines · 08/10/2023 09:36

Those screenshots are fabulous @brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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SiouxsieSiouxStiletto · 08/10/2023 09:37

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 08/10/2023 09:34

I love village Facebook. My village is not populated by Nobel prize winners. I keep my favourites in an album, some highlights attached.

Now I want to know how Ted is. Poor Ted.

MyJetNowAirlines · 08/10/2023 09:36

Those screenshots are fabulous @brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Bagpuss2022 · 08/10/2023 09:35

We lived in a village it was the chicken shit that drove me mad I didn’t complain on FB though we lived there as it was housing for DH work.
we live in a “village” that’s not a village now but the old timers hate the new comers we have 4 primary schools, a high school a supermarket many pubs etc The old timers don’t like the newcomers doesn’t affect me I just find it funny

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 08/10/2023 09:34

I love village Facebook. My village is not populated by Nobel prize winners. I keep my favourites in an album, some highlights attached.

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SiouxsieSiouxStiletto · 08/10/2023 09:32

Our top two are people moving here and complaining about tractors driving through the village. I mean, did they not drive past all of the farms on their way into the village when they came to look?

And complaining that they can't get a taxi/ubereats. No taxi firms here and ubereats is for other people, you have to fetch your takeaway or make your own food Grin

NunsKnickers · 08/10/2023 09:31

Spudinafuckit · 08/10/2023 09:01

Tractors in a field going up and down noisily with lights on at 3am early Monday morning. It woke her, her husband and her child and she was incandescent with rage. She’d had to put up with them all day Saturday and all day Sunday ruining her beautiful view, but this was her absolute limit. Barely any sleep and she had to be at work for 9.

This was the best day ever on my village Facebook.

Lol 😆

bozzabollix · 08/10/2023 09:29

@Galadali I come from this rural town and so feel totally entitled to be disgusted by the fox hunt, you’ll find there’s a lot of people who will be in agreement with you.

Ours is on the way out now, public opinion has changed so much. Good. They’re psycho arseholes and if they come on my land I’ll blow a gasket.

Keepingthingsinteresting · 08/10/2023 09:27

Galadali · 08/10/2023 09:18

When this city girl moved to a very rural village I was shocked by the amount of noise and smell. Wouldn't have dreamt of complaining about it though! The only thing now that really rattles me is the hunt trashing our land and frightening my kids/animals every so often. I've learnt to keep my mouth shut on that though 😭
Honestly, the only things that seem to get our village WhatsApp group fizzing are the state of the verges and solar farm planning applications.

There is no automatic right for the hunt to be on your land @Galadali , I’d get that sorted personally.

tenbob · 08/10/2023 09:26

I live in zone 2 London, and you wouldn’t believe the amount of people moaning about hearing sirens, their neighbours parties, planes on the overhead flight path etc

The absolute worst are people who move to Soho or near a long established music venue and then complain relentlessly about the noise until the council closes the venues down.
God knows how many have been lost because of this

MrsMontyDon2020 · 08/10/2023 09:23

We live under a flight path and people are constantly complaining about the planes. Drives me nuts! The airport (and runway) has been here for years!
I personally LOVE seeing the planes fly over. One of the reasons we bought where we did.

The worst I heard in a village Facebook group was complaints about the noise of the birds 😂

KimberleyClark · 08/10/2023 09:22

Moving to a rural area where a car is essential then moaning about the price of petrol. Well that’s something you should have thought about.

Galadali · 08/10/2023 09:18

When this city girl moved to a very rural village I was shocked by the amount of noise and smell. Wouldn't have dreamt of complaining about it though! The only thing now that really rattles me is the hunt trashing our land and frightening my kids/animals every so often. I've learnt to keep my mouth shut on that though 😭
Honestly, the only things that seem to get our village WhatsApp group fizzing are the state of the verges and solar farm planning applications.

Ifailed · 08/10/2023 09:15

I grew up in a small village in the 60s, and I complained about church bells ringing throughout the night, but was told it was for people who couldn't afford a clock.
I don't think the same arguement would hold water nowadays.

maddening · 08/10/2023 09:14

I live in a village and grew up in another village, both rural, I am on both village fb groups and also the fb group of neighbour village and there is really none of what you describe - mostly dog poo and fireworks as far.as complaint type posts go and some parking ones. Other than that it is largely non complaint type posts.

user1477391263 · 08/10/2023 09:11

Basically, these people want an exurb - a distant suburb on the outskirts of a city, the kind of place you get in the United States and similar countries, where cities are allowed to sprawl to vast sizes.

In the States, those who want to and have the money buy houses in the exurbs that are bigger than what you'd get in town with a large garden and a lot more space between them and their neighbors than urban residences have.

In the UK , we don't allow this kind of development because of greenbelt policies. So British people instead move to villages to try and enjoy this kind of lifestyle (particularly as villages in the UK are very often close enough to towns to allow you to commute daily).

This inevitably causes tensions, because somewhere that is an Actual Village will have Actually Rural Stuff going on, like crop spraying, manure, tractors trundling about, no streetlighting, fields full of livestock etc.

The next round of tantrums will be about electricity pylons, solar panels and windfarms etc. Because a lot of people want all the conveniences of modern life, combined with chocolate-box views out of the kitchen window.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 08/10/2023 09:11

Oh dear! 😂

The best one we've had was someone new moving in to a place down a narrow lane and putting up homemade signs for 'No HGVs!'.

On the public highway.
That also serves farms, who need deliveries and milk tankers etc.

Mischance · 08/10/2023 09:08

That's very strange - I live rurally and have never heard anyone grumble about these things. Have you got a lot of "incomers"?

Jeffjefftyjeff · 08/10/2023 09:06

We had someone complaining about cows mooing. And frequently get people moaning about church bells.

I have some sympathy with the poor internet - there are areas of our small rural town that have been upgraded (the streets where all the posh houses are basically) but not others

essaytwenty · 08/10/2023 09:05

My local one always has people moaning about the internet speed, and the same people moaning about the planning application for a 4G mast to serve the village.