Have been contemplating whether to bring this up with DP. I have several strong reasons to believe he's vaping behind my back but no conclusive evidence (haven't found a vape yet).
Earlier today he came home smelling fruity which has happened before. I went a bit sour and did bring up the subject of vaping but left it when he said he wasn't doing that.
My questions is, do I poke the bear and send him a message about how I feel about him doing this behind my back, and what it says about our relationship if he has to hide it from me, or do I leave it, which I have been for at least 6 months now!
I have written what I think is a very non-accusational message and saved it but am unsure if I should send it.