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Or are dog owners getting worse? The useless ones used to be a small minority, now they're everywhere

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Greensleeves · 21/09/2023 16:01

I go for a long walk most days, so I see a lot of dogs and their owners. I'm noticing more and more feral dogs and ineffectual or wilfully ignorant owners. Three of my walks this week have been spoiled by them! The first was a large over friendly terrier type dog who bounded up, jumped up and got muddy paws all over my coat. Owner laughed and said "oh, she likes you!". Second was a little yappy thing that barked and wove around my ankles for about 20 yards, making me struggle not to step on it. Owner only called it when I shouted to her and gave me a filthy look. The third was the worst - some sort of bull breed, very large, not aggressive but ran up to us sniffing our hands and getting in our way, I was visibly nervous and froze to the spot. Owner called out "don't worry, he's friendly", I called back "I'm not, could you call him off please" to which he replied "I've tried, he ignores me...actually if you could grab his collar for me?"

FFS! And that's aside from the epic levels of fucking dog shit all over the parks, streets and local beauty spots. I'm not an animal hater at all, but it's really starting to get me down Sad

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GingerIsBest · 21/09/2023 16:11

Around here, this was true about a year or two ago - basically towards the end of Covid when lots of useless people had got dogs and didn't have a clue. But it's actually settled down again now and I haven't noticed it as much. Possibly all those puppies are now proper grown up dogs and the owners have finally cracked basic training?

My dog did bark at all the parents on the school run the other day. Mortifying and she's now banned from school run again!

IKnowAPlace · 21/09/2023 16:06

I'm a dog owner and find these things annoying too. My dog is quite reactive so even though her recall is good, I'm too nervous to have her off lead anywhere public. I won't even let her go near others when on lead. You just never know. When loose dogs like the ones you describe come up to her, it's really horrible as she's powerless.

And the poop is just gross.

So, I hear you. Irresponsible dog owners need to be held accountable.

lilyblue5 · 21/09/2023 16:06

Uhhh I have the small yappy. We are back in dog training classes but I keep her on the lead and away from people so hopefully not that annoying. We are trying 🫠
Re all the rest, we aren’t rural and I walk on the roads but I have noticed an increase in the bully type dogs. I don’t know if the recent news has just made me more wary.
YANBU to be annoyed at your walk being spoilt - and your coat too!
I hate off leash in the dog park now. I feel constantly on edge.