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To be scared of getting mirena coil?

84 replies

LittleRedRuth · 08/09/2023 10:42

GP wants me to have one put in due to blood clotting periods and worsening anaemia.

I’ve done a search on here and I’m terrified! My cousin also had a terrible experience and ended up in A&E after it moved out of place causing agonising pain

Surely there must be an easier way to stop periods??

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Hankunamatata · 08/09/2023 22:25

I put it off becuase of all horror stories. Ended up getting mirena in my 40s as part of hrt as my periods become even worse. Had it well over a year now and really wish I'd done it sooner. No periods at all. Took 6 months to settle down and it's been awesome

mrsmillertron · 08/09/2023 22:23

Horrendous going in, 2 months of constant heavy bleeding and begged then to take it out. I did it against my better judgement, wish I’d listened to my gut!

Shouldbedoing · 08/09/2023 22:19

I had 3 mirenas, several of my friends did too. Not one had anything but improved or no periods and freedom, including the 15 minute flooder who could barely survive the school run on Day 1 every month.

WessexPrincess · 08/09/2023 22:15

I'm another one saying it's a game changer, on my 2nd one now. Bit crampy on insertion but well worth it for no periods. Wish I'd got one earlier

Soubriquet · 08/09/2023 16:07

Some people get on well with them, some people don’t.

I unfortunately was one of those who didn’t. It caused a lot pain internally for me and dh could feel the strings whenever we were intimate.

But then, I’ve known people who get on really well and don’t even notice

Hadjab · 08/09/2023 16:00

I’m on my third and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done!

Mrsworried1 · 08/09/2023 15:57

Did it stop your issues straight away? Or did it need time to settle? X

QueenBitch666 · 08/09/2023 14:59

After years of heavy bleeding and dysmenorrhea it was a game changer for me. I did however have it inserted under GA as I'm really squeamish down there 👀 🤦‍♀️

ThreeLittleDots · 08/09/2023 14:58

I hated Mirena; insertion relatively painless, but gave me awful awful restless legs. I pulled it out myself after two days.

I take the mini pill which stops my cycles completely

emmylousings · 08/09/2023 14:57

Ive had coils for years, I think they're great. Mirena especially- no periods!!

Bloatstoat · 08/09/2023 14:52

I've had the copper coil fitted so can't comment on the mirena effects, but if you concerned about the fitting could you go to your local sexual health centre? I had three failed attempts at fitting the copper coil, two with my GP which was pretty painful and unpleasant. I got referred to the sexual health centre, saw the consultant, she did a quick initial exam and the nurse chaperoning started to make conversation and ask what I was up to for the rest of the day and before I had time to answer it was in, amazing.

Bobbotgegrinch · 08/09/2023 14:27

DP ended up with absolutely crippling migraines for 3 months before she had it taken back out.

She gets them anyway, but while she had the Mirena in they were daily and way worse than her normal ones. Trying to convince her GP that it was the Mirena causing them was a nightmare, but surprise surprise, they vanished as soon as it came out.

Switcher · 08/09/2023 14:17

I love Mirena. Total freedom from all of it.

HareSong · 08/09/2023 14:15

It works for me. Insertion was as unpleasant as a smear, but over quickly - they put some numbing gel on your cervix first. Pre-emptive paracetamol helped. I had some cramping that day, light spotting for several months (not going to lie), but no periods, and then no bleeding at all in the years since. When this one runs out I'm getting another! And I'll stay on it for HRT too.

Don't be put off by other people's scare stories - only you will know what you are prepared to try.

Peekingovertheparapet · 08/09/2023 14:14

I’m on my second; the exchange was done under general anaesthetic as the first was hard to reach (3 attempts were made in clinic). Even though getting it replaced was a complete pain in the backside because of the need for a GA, I would still definitely have another. It’s a really good intervention.

SingingWaffleDoggy · 08/09/2023 14:09

Had mine put in in May and despite various gynae surgeries that meant it could have been tricky it was painless and has been a godsend for my heavy periods.
I did bleed lightly for 6 weeks or so but my periods are so much lighter now.

HiBarbie · 08/09/2023 14:06

Vaginal ring is amazing, I like the fact that I could take it out if I stopped getting on with it. I've had the mirena and it was ok but I didn't get on with the hormones and then found doctors reluctant to just take it out. Insertion was awful pre dc for the mirena and fine after dc. I prefer the ring though.

bakewellbride · 08/09/2023 14:03

I'm on depo provera injections, no periods for me.

CattingAbout · 08/09/2023 14:00

Would this implant have a similar effect? Would you be less scared of having one rather than a coil? Perhaps worth asking the doc.

Mrsworried1 · 08/09/2023 14:00

That’s my next option they said. Im
only 34 and been having irregular and
unusual bleeding for 3 years now, gynaecologist insists it’s hormonal. Had a hysteroscopy so it’s not anything worrying with my womb, and ultrasound showed not my ovaries, but nothing really investigated with my cervix. Im
worried xx

QuillBill · 08/09/2023 13:59

Totalwasteofpaper · 08/09/2023 13:22

Let me put it this way.

None of my female dr friends is using this as a preferred method of contraception
and i would never put one in my body.

What do your doctor friends use for contraception?

Wannabegreenfingers · 08/09/2023 13:58

I love mine, I'm on my second. No periods, no pain. Wouldn't be without it. I have had two children so not sure if this helps or not.

Supercat100 · 08/09/2023 13:55

There are other options. I absolutely refused a coil as I haven't had kids, have a history of trauma and also a tilted womb. My pain threshold is very low as well. The consultant totally understood and I'm due to have an endometrial ablation instead. Worth considering.

Mrsworried1 · 08/09/2023 13:48

Was this immediately or did it take time
to settle? Consultant told me the same- he said in six months it’ll have all
stopped (I was bleeding all the time and this was meant to stop it) and never offered me a follow up as was so sure it was hormonal
and the coil would fix it all.

I’m 8 months in and getting a bit fed up of the varying length and amount of bleeding. Just had a months break, no bleeding for the last 4 weeks, other than that, I’ve bled the entire time since January.

Yesterday started spotting again. Cant take much more x

bertagarden · 08/09/2023 13:36

I’ve got one - post menopause HRT related adenomyosis. I was absolutely dreading it but it’s been fine. I put on a few pounds in the first couple of months but other than that, no problem at all

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