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Young men hating women

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Maatandosiris · 05/09/2023 16:52

Something I’ve been noticing is that young men (say under 30) are becoming increasingly misogynistic. Not in the old fashioned dirty old man way but very aggressively trying to take away women’s voices. Anything they can do to undermine you they will, whether it’s criticising politics, eating habits, looks, viewpoints. Any excuse to undermine women they jump on it (aided and abetted by some women I should add)

AIBU to wonder whether all the fighting for rights and equality has been pointless and young girls generally seem content to be treated like shit to the point I’m not sure many actually see the threat. How the hell did we get here? In the past week I’ve had a man gaslight me and try and undermine me in a discussion as a “rebel” for quoting the suffragettes, had a bunch of blokes gang up on me and chuck me off a forum for saying transrights need balancing with women’s rights followed by inaccurate allegations and ignored on a discussion simply because I was female. Not long ago I was told that the way to make things more female friendly was to make them less academic

We literally seem to be reverting back to women make yourself look pretty whilst listening to the views of the oh so intelligent men.

AIBU to think in20 years time women’s rights are going to dead unless women, inc young women start standing up to be counted.

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Clarabe1 · 05/09/2023 17:12

I work with a lot of younger men ( I am 50) and I can’t say I have noticed this. In fact things are a lot better than when I started work 30 years ago. There was certainly a lot of misogyny then.

TomatoSandwiches · 05/09/2023 17:10

I think they're called incels aren't they?

Itick8outof10boxes · 05/09/2023 17:07

Social media to a degree and how boys are parented, if they have useless fathers for role models what hope do they have? It's the lads culture though, egos and small penises got to keep women at heel at all costs.
Then they wonder why women belittle them and don't want relationships with them because they act like twats and women belittle them, wash, rinse, repeat.
They seem to be too thick to understand and try to shut us up. Well, fuck off with that matey.

Calistano · 05/09/2023 17:05

Yeah I don't think the USA can be blamed for this one, misogyny never went away, it was just slightly more subtle for a few years (even then not very).

wankyseahorse33 · 05/09/2023 17:05

I've DEFINITELY noticed this online with the whole red pill pod cast ilk and the incels. Young women have never had it so bad, I truly feel sorry for them. I think it stems from internet porn.

phoenixrosehere · 05/09/2023 16:59

Fightyouforthatpie · 05/09/2023 16:54

YANBU - I think this has come to us from the USA via social media.

Ugh. Do some of you ever get tired of blaming the States for every little thing that is deem a new negative trend?

Misogynistic behaviour the OP is describing has existed for decades including before social media. It’s not new and has always been an issue, it’s only more noticed and considered unacceptable by many.

WarmWinterSun · 05/09/2023 16:57

Do these observations all apply online or in person too?

OnAMidnightTrainToGeorgia · 05/09/2023 16:55

Where are you meeting all these men?

Fightyouforthatpie · 05/09/2023 16:54

YANBU - I think this has come to us from the USA via social media.

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