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Partner relieving themselves

158 replies

SackOfShitandRegrets · 04/09/2023 06:15

Been thinking of posting this for ages but unsure, finally biting the bullet.

AIBU to ask my DP not to relieve himself (masturbate) when I am on my monthly cycle and to come to me/ask me if he needs a "release" during this time?

OP posts:
jallopeno · 04/09/2023 06:28

Weird. Why do you get a say?

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 04/09/2023 06:27

Does he tell you when you’re allowed to masturbate?!?

Unbelievably unreasonable and controlling.

SD1978 · 04/09/2023 06:24

It seems a bit weird to be honest. So regardless of if you're in the mood, you'll masterbate him on demand?.......or if you say no he has 'permission' to do it himself? Envy

yogasaurus · 04/09/2023 06:22

Yabu

herewegoroundthebastardbush · 04/09/2023 06:21

Unless he's doing it right next to you then you are being SO unreasonable. If my partner tried to control how and when I masturbate I'd leave him.

foolishone · 04/09/2023 06:21

Completely unreasonable. Also unreasonable for euphemisms like 'release'.

BookHereNoFee · 04/09/2023 06:20

Massively unreasonable

LaPerduta · 04/09/2023 06:19

Yes.