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To think the gender and sex Ed wars are created by tories

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Unexpectedlysinglemum · 29/08/2023 21:15

The tories have totally messed up the country recently I think that people who did or didn't vote for them can see they are doing an awful job and they have no reasonable expectation of winning next general election..... EXCEPT now the Tory press has created this total obsession about

  1. Sex education and
  2. Gender and trans issues.

They are painting them selves as the only party that will save us from the wokes who want to identify as a dog or teach 12 year olds how to have anal sex... this is what the Tory tabloids are claiming is happening in schools.

What does everyone think?

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SammyScrounge · 28/04/2024 21:16

Lantyslee · 29/08/2023 21:31

Political parties are preying on people getting worked up and ignoring issues that directly affect themselves and their own children.

If you have a mentally ill child who's decided the only thing that will make them better is taking hormones and destrying their body then it does directly affect them and their children. I'll vote for whoever is aware of this and does something about it.

Front page in Scotland today: a girl in care after being sexually assaulted at the age of 5 claims that a social worker said she had been born in the wrong body and would only be happy if she changed it.
A social worker. In a care home.That is very important.
Google TheSunday Post and you can read for yourself.

one262 · 21/09/2023 12:42

Not unique to Britain, some bastards in Belgium torched a school over it.

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 20/09/2023 12:59

Wrong kind of young people, Arabella. They don't count and trans activists will deny their existence, never mind their distress and discomfort.

ArabeIIaScott · 20/09/2023 12:57

On the subject of everyone being old.

Here are hundreds of school children in the US staging a walk out to 'protect girls' rights'.

'Hundreds of students in Pennsylvania walked out of school in protest over a new rule allowing transgender students to use the bathroom of their choice.
High school students in Perkiomen Valley School District staged the protest after officials opted not to adopt a policy that would force students to use restrooms which correspond with their biological sex.
They accused education chiefs of 'compromising' their rights and putting female students at risk during the demonstration last week.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12535503/Pennsylvania-school-walkout-trans-bathroom.html

Moment Pennsylvania students walkout over trans bathroom policy

Students from Pennsylvania's Perkiomen Valley School District left class on Friday after officials decided not to force trans students to use a bathroom which aligns with their biological sex.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12535503/Pennsylvania-school-walkout-trans-bathroom.html

Helleofabore · 20/09/2023 12:28

Maybe Sheila is not a genuine second wave feminist??

Or maybe some feminists think she has changed her views? Oh... no... this is from a couple of days ago... don't think she has changed her views really....

The Industrial Vagina by Sheila Jeffreys, discussed by Sheila Jeffreys and Caroline Norma.

The Industrial Vagina by Sheila Jeffreys, discussed by Sheila Jeffreys and Caroline Norma. A live webinar on 17th September at 10am UK time.♀♀♀♀♀♀♀♀♀Enjoying...

https://youtu.be/64MeOJniIp0?feature=shared

StefanosHill · 20/09/2023 12:22

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 20/09/2023 12:19

Hey, I'm a millennial who is actually younger than Owen Jones. So I'm not "older". I was brought up by an ex-SWP member mother who bought the Morning Star, so I wasn't brought up to be "conservative" either.

I wonder that you have you not noticed that trans activists don't shy away from effecting legislative change? There is even an organisation, called Press For Change.

Every loss of rights women have experienced is because trans activists lobbied politicians and decision-makers to change laws and policies.

Every loss of rights women have experienced is because trans activists lobbied politicians and decision-makers to change laws and policies.

Exactly. Anyone who cares about women’s rights would be utterly daft to step aside and say fine you TRAs get the law we’ll have a little club over here

So strange I’m not sure it’s a real suggestion

Helleofabore · 20/09/2023 12:20

Honestly, it is ludicrous. It is almost like women just sat around and discussed it and magic happened and things changed .... just because women discussed in their groups and protested. Not done any campaigning, not met with committees and influenced policies, not set up their groups, their support networks, not any of that..... just chatted about theory and maybe did a 'radical' protest of some sort to make some people take notice so the people in power made changes.

And fuck me.... not continuing the work of Sheila?

Hey, Sheila ... tell us what you think about the state of women's rights at the moment.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gender-Hurts-Sheila-Jeffreys/dp/0415539404

Gender Hurts: A Feminist Analysis of the Politics of Transgenderism Paperback – 15 April 2014 (note the date!)
by Sheila Jeffreys

'It is only recently that transgenderism has been accepted as a disorder for which treatment is available. In the 1990s, a political movement of transgender activism coalesced to campaign for transgender rights. Considerable social, political and legal changes are occurring in response and there is increasing acceptance by governments and many other organisations and actors of the legitimacy of these rights.'

'This provocative and controversial book explores the consequences of these changes and offers a feminist perspective on the ideology and practice of transgenderism, which the author sees as harmful. It explores the effects of transgenderism on the lesbian and gay community, the partners of people who transgender, children who are identified as transgender and the people who transgender themselves, and argues that these are negative. In doing so the book contends that the phenomenon is based upon sex stereotyping, referred to as 'gender' – a conservative ideology that forms the foundation for women's subordination. Gender Hurts argues for the abolition of ‘gender’, which would remove the rationale for transgenderism.'

'This book will be of interest to scholars and students of political science, feminism and feminist theory and gender studies.

And here

https://sheila-jeffreys.com/tag/transgender/

In here Sheila writes about Dworkin.

Maybe it is you who have not kept up with Sheila at all there, begaydocrime42

Transgender Archives | Sheila Jeffreys - Feminist Writer, Historian and Activist

https://sheila-jeffreys.com/tag/transgender/

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 20/09/2023 12:19

Hey, I'm a millennial who is actually younger than Owen Jones. So I'm not "older". I was brought up by an ex-SWP member mother who bought the Morning Star, so I wasn't brought up to be "conservative" either.

I wonder that you have you not noticed that trans activists don't shy away from effecting legislative change? There is even an organisation, called Press For Change.

Every loss of rights women have experienced is because trans activists lobbied politicians and decision-makers to change laws and policies.

ArabeIIaScott · 20/09/2023 12:03

The poster is attempting to cast aspersions on any women effecting change. By suggesting that:

'working outside of the government and legal system (actually radical) politics' is the 'correct' and desirable thing to do.

It's rather a weak effort. Just another kind of ad hom, an attempt to put women off doing anything that might actually impact on issues.

It's instructive if only because it shows us what is working.

StefanosHill · 20/09/2023 12:00

"To be honest, back then the movement was all about working outside of the government and legal system (actually radical) politics.

How do you propose change without legislative change?

What you’re suggesting doesn’t stack up

Helleofabore · 20/09/2023 11:52

I must admit Arabella that I did snort. I don't quite believe I left my 'second wave', but hey, maybe because I have never sat around discussing feminist theory with people I guess I just never counted to some people ....

Helleofabore · 20/09/2023 11:50

"To be honest, back then the movement was all about working outside of the government and legal system (actually radical) politics. Now it’s just people bickering on forums and voting conservative."

Then you really haven't kept up with what is needed or what is happening.

Can you please tell us what you think genuine/second wave feminists achieved in the past without actually working with the government and legal systems at the time? And what you think would be achieved with out those very same feminists working within the government and legal systems now?

ArabeIIaScott · 20/09/2023 11:48

a certain demographic of older more conservative women

Oh my word, how awful. It sounds so unfashionable.

begaydocrime42 · 20/09/2023 11:44

nothingcomestonothing · 20/09/2023 11:38

when I was in the GC movement

Yeah, that's definitely a thing. Did they have to change the secret handshake when you left?

Shrug. Too tired and ill to be dealing with this playground type behaviour

nothingcomestonothing · 20/09/2023 11:38

when I was in the GC movement

Yeah, that's definitely a thing. Did they have to change the secret handshake when you left?

begaydocrime42 · 20/09/2023 11:32

To jump back in where I left off… when I was in the GC movement it was genuine, radical/second wave feminists well versed in theory and committed to helping women. There was a real atmosphere of camaraderie and feeling like we were continuing the work of sheila, andrea etc… fast forward to now and yes everywhere that I see GC debate is fully dominated by a certain demographic of older more conservative women. The only young blood is neotrad/neocon women, young actually left wing women won’t go anywhere near the movement. I’ve followed this for ten years and this is just my observation. To be honest, back then the movement was all about working outside of the government and legal system (actually radical) politics. Now it’s just people bickering on forums and voting conservative.

as to me coming out, I just got older and priorities changed, I realised I’d kept a lot of things repressed and coming out as queer/genderqueer felt like a homecoming. Yep I’ve had underlying trauma which probably in some way led to this, as will be the case with many trans individuals. Ultimately we all have our childhood experiences which all set us on a certain track.

ArabeIIaScott · 11/09/2023 09:55

Cazziebo · 10/09/2023 23:05

Definitely not. Tories are hardly a feature in Scotland yet this is where TWAW and inappropriate sex education has the strongest grip. The hard of thinking fall into line and repeat the chants.

The scales fall when people see the consequences - Male bodied people in women's safe spaces, sport, women's awards. It's not party political.

Tories in Scotland were the only party to try and resist the GRR madness. Labour were an embarrassment - repeatedly saying they'd address glaring safeguarding omissions and then watching helplessly as the mad SNP government swept it all through with no changes.

HRTQueen · 10/09/2023 23:26

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2023 19:08

A photo of Starmer (looking confused) shall be printed over and over again informing voters this man doesn’t even know what a woman is.

I think it's worse than that. I think most voters believe he knows exactly what a woman is but for political reasons is declining to say.

The message that sends is that Labour will not acknowledge reality if it clashes with an intellectual position they have decided to hold.

For a party trying to prove they have the maturity to govern after the Corbyn years that's a very bad image for voters to get.

I agree Flirts he absolutely knows and we know he knows but he isn’t going to admit this. he has dug a hole for himself which he could have got out of but he choose to appease a very small minority of people instead and once again Labour are led by ideology than practicality

maddening · 10/09/2023 23:08

Cazziebo · 10/09/2023 23:05

Definitely not. Tories are hardly a feature in Scotland yet this is where TWAW and inappropriate sex education has the strongest grip. The hard of thinking fall into line and repeat the chants.

The scales fall when people see the consequences - Male bodied people in women's safe spaces, sport, women's awards. It's not party political.

Agree- and look.at.Canada!

Cazziebo · 10/09/2023 23:05

Definitely not. Tories are hardly a feature in Scotland yet this is where TWAW and inappropriate sex education has the strongest grip. The hard of thinking fall into line and repeat the chants.

The scales fall when people see the consequences - Male bodied people in women's safe spaces, sport, women's awards. It's not party political.

GreyHeron · 10/09/2023 23:01

Totally agree ✊

Boomboom22 · 10/09/2023 22:53

The problem is the left is so consumed with wanting to be seen to do the right thing they are willing to ignore reality. That's why noone trusts them with the economy. We need a new centre right offering really!

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2023 19:08

A photo of Starmer (looking confused) shall be printed over and over again informing voters this man doesn’t even know what a woman is.

I think it's worse than that. I think most voters believe he knows exactly what a woman is but for political reasons is declining to say.

The message that sends is that Labour will not acknowledge reality if it clashes with an intellectual position they have decided to hold.

For a party trying to prove they have the maturity to govern after the Corbyn years that's a very bad image for voters to get.

HRTQueen · 10/09/2023 17:25

No the changes are a social change in the more progressive societies and other countries are seeing similar issues

what the Tories are doing is playing into the more extreme issues not the every day (which I personally still feel is necessary) and unfortunately Labour have not handled this well. The vast majority of voters are not interested in identity politics and view it as nonsense drivel but once again Labour shall ignore and not bother to address what doesn’t suit their party narrative. Why don’t Labour learn they are always the party that need to fight harder for voters

A photo of Starmer (looking confused) shall be printed over and over again informing voters this man doesn’t even know what a woman is. He should have backtracked he should of made a politics move you do not need to stay true to your principles all the time to win voters over

Winnading · 10/09/2023 17:08

AdamRyan · 10/09/2023 00:13

Just awaiting the "you are why people get entrenched views as you make them feel stupid" then I can call bingo.

Take some fucking ownership. You want to vote conservative, you want to be right wing. So have the courage of your convictions and say why. A load of "Labour won't say women have cervixes" doesn't wash. There are plenty of other options. You choose Conservative.

In the very nicest way I can manage, are you ok?