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washingmachineslivelongerwithcalgon · 21/08/2023 17:19

No specific topic, just great advise you'd give.

Keep it simple.
(Apologies, I didn't know which other category to put this under that would gain traction)

I'll go first:

  • don't sweat the petty stuff, & don't pet the sweaty stuff.
  • if you can't open a food jar, pierce the top to get the air out and it opens right up!
  • drizzle a tablespoon of marmite into the cooking fat before you roast your potatoes (and drizzle some over the spuds)
  • if you don't have egg cups, use shot glasses
  • hair spray gets most things out of carpets. (Learnt this when staying at a boyfriends house as a teen and dropped lipstick. Blind panic and hairspray saved me!) used it ever since, in emergency situations.
OP posts:
cardibach · 26/08/2023 22:19

SpamFrittersYouSay · 21/08/2023 18:07

When your fabric conditioner bottle gets half full, top it up with tap water then shake.

Use the same volume as always. When you run out, keep that bottle then decant half of the new bottle into the old bottle and top up and shake . Add tap water to the new bottle too.

Makes no difference to softness.

Or don’t use any at all. I haven’t for about 20 years. Clothes feel a bit stiffer for about 10 seconds.

IhateHPSDeaneCnt · 27/08/2023 11:50

Another one that agrees with no using fabric conditioner. I stopped with towels and then gave up completely.

saveforthat · 27/08/2023 21:57

cardibach · 26/08/2023 22:19

Or don’t use any at all. I haven’t for about 20 years. Clothes feel a bit stiffer for about 10 seconds.

Same

MoonWoman69 · 13/02/2024 14:06

Elbow Grease degreaser spray is excellent for removing any stains! Found out by accident when I got bolognese stains on my dishcloth and went to wipe the hob! I've tried it on clothes stains too and it works!

I had a Sharpie obsession, (so now I have a huge collection). I only buy brown paper for presents and I decorate it with the Sharpies, flowers, words, hearts, doodles... It gives a more personal touch too! Everyone I've presented with my wrapping paper loves it!

Don't over wet your mop when doing the laminate floors, the water seeps in and will distort the floor over time... Wring out the mop as dry as you can. Or, get a spray bottle that you can turn the end to a fine mist and use some laminate floor cleaner in that and use a dry mop.

I gave up fabric conditioner in favour of the washing beads. Fabulosa do some lovely scents! And they're cheaper than the major brands! Clothes/towels smell a lot nice for longer and don't have the build up. Especially good for towels, as fabric conditioner seems to stop absorbency.

That's my two pennorth for what it's worth!
Hope you're ok OP, please come back, ignore the idiots ❤

ApocalypseNowt · 13/02/2024 14:44

CoffeeCantata · 25/08/2023 14:58

Here's my failsafe method of tidying a room when you just feel overwhelmed and don't know where to start. I taught my kids this when they had to tidy their bedrooms:

First place an old sheet/throw on the bed to protect it form dust.

Next, take everything off the shelves, floor, surfaces, windowsill and just put it on the bed - don't waste time assessing it at this stage.

The room will become clear pretty quickly, so the next stage is to dust and vacuum. This gives a really rapid return for your effort and is motivating.

Then (with duster/damp cloth in hand) evaluate all the stuff on the bed and categorise 3 ways: 1) replace correctly 2) charity shop bag 3) landfill bag.

You will get a result quickly and feel you've sorted your life out too!

I love this! Definitely going to try it out.

colderandeatsmincepiesalot · 13/02/2024 16:45

meatbaseddessert · 22/08/2023 10:02

I don't think she's suggesting you put chicken carcasses, baked potatoes and partially eaten lamb shanks down there.

I have just full on laughed at this! Bloody classic!! 😂

colderandeatsmincepiesalot · 13/02/2024 17:01

if you notice clothes smell a bit musty when airing in the house during wet weather, just not fresh, then for a while just put a teaspoon of Napisan powder in the washing machine drawer with each wash. Not with cotton blacks or darks, but with everything else. I can honestly say our clothes, gym stuff and towels dry fresh without that slightly old socks smell!

KirstenBlest · 13/02/2024 19:08

@cardibach , I've never used it. I can't stand the smell or feel of it.

AuntMatilda · 22/09/2026 12:17

If you like bees/want to encourage pollinators and eat leeks.

Eat leek.
Plant bottom bit (The white bit that you don't eat).
Leek will eventually flower, a ball of multiple tiny clustered flowers that bees love.

Hobbin · 22/09/2026 12:51

CheerfulYank · 26/08/2023 20:17

I’m going to try that, mine is horrible!

Hob Brite can be hard to find but is dirt cheap and works brilliantly.

Thebibleofdave · 22/09/2026 15:30

Shaving foam on the neck of a white shirt will get make up foundation stains out.

twoshedsjackson · 22/09/2026 16:52

When cleaning windows, work left to right on one side of the pane, top to bottom on the other. Then when you notice the irritating smear that you missed earlier, you won't waste time scrubbing away at the side which doesn't need it.

Unpaidworkmakestheeconomytick · 22/09/2026 17:19

LemonDrizzleDessert · 21/08/2023 18:58

😹😹😹😹 My kind of advise

Tap it with a knife handle until the vacuum pops.

goingtotown · 22/09/2026 23:15

Anything with glitter spray with hairspray.

TheThirteenthFairy · 24/09/2026 11:25

Sugargliderwombat · 21/08/2023 20:16

Scrape any wet food down the loo to stop stinky bin juice.

Controversial but someone told me about it years ago and living in a tiny flat with the bin store miles away it was a life saver.

DO NOT DO THIS!

Do you really want the rats to know which toilet the food comes from?

GasPanic · 24/09/2026 11:32

Can anyone tell me how you actually "drizzle" Marmite ?

I thought the idea of drizzling was a teaspoon full of runny liquid that you would tilt backwards and forwards over the food while moving it around ?

How would that actually work with Marmite, which is so viscous it would just stay in the spoon ?

Also I find the best way to open tight jars (which FTR are not actually "tight" but have lids held strongly in place by a vaccuum) is to insert the end of a small spoon (not the eating end) between the metal lid and the glass and pop the vaccuum. That works pretty well for me. Rather than trying to punch holes in the lid.

Electricsausages · 24/09/2026 12:10

To easily peel a boiled egg, empty the pan of water, bounce the egg about then put cold water over it so you don’t singe your fingers , shell comes off much easier

TheThirteenthFairy · 24/09/2026 12:29

ladeluge · 26/08/2023 12:33

If you (like me) put your bra on by clipping the hooks in front of you and twisting around to normal, and if you find that after a shower/bath it is impossible to twist it around again because skin is a bit slippery - then put on your knickers, clasp bra over knickers at the front, twist bra around the knickers and voila, easy peasy and no struggle.

Sorry for the long sentence there.

Edited

Good grief. Thank you.

Katemax82 · 24/09/2026 12:55

Sugargliderwombat · 21/08/2023 20:16

Scrape any wet food down the loo to stop stinky bin juice.

Controversial but someone told me about it years ago and living in a tiny flat with the bin store miles away it was a life saver.

I used to do this when I didn't want the dinner my mum made....until she caught me coming out the bathroom with my dinner plate. I was too embarrassed to say I'd chucked my dinner down the loo so I said I was eating it on the toilet

AuntMatilda · 24/09/2026 14:44

If you need melted chocolate for a recipe, warm water up in a pan and throw the chocolate in still in its wrapper.
Only works with plastic packets!

indyocean · 24/09/2026 14:51

Here’s mine! Advice not advise

ladeluge · 24/09/2026 15:01

I have a Bosch ceramic hob. I tried everything to get the usual marks off such as when a pot boils over (guilty as charged) and burnt bits. Nothing really worked to get the hob back to its shiny self.

So I was very brave one day and used a tiny bit of Brillo pad at the back of one of the rings. I can tell you now that it works brilliantly and it doesn't leave any scratches either. I put a dab of fairy liquid onto the pad and GENTLY rub it over the marks. Wipe off with damp cloth and finish with paper towel. Like new again.

My sister's hob was a mess, despite her trying all the usual stuff, and she is amazed at the result with the Brillo pads.

Try a little corner first, and be brave!

Urgentbiscuitrequired · 24/09/2026 15:06

MatildaTheCat · 21/08/2023 17:49

Helpful hint for my Dh. Put things back where they belong and you will be able to find them. Magic! Also listen and you will know the answers to most of your questions. I am not your brain.

Ive learned to take this one step further. Instead of making helpful suggestions or getting up and looking for his lost item ( not very lost) I just say, ‘oh dear, I hope you find it/ sort it out soon.’

Can be applied in multiple situations. And only give advice when actually asked for it.

This reminded me of my OH the other day who asked me where a random tool I had never used in my life was. I asked him why he would think I knew where it was I had never seen one before in my life, this seemed to stop him expecting me to jump out of my seat looking for it. 😀

Urgentbiscuitrequired · 24/09/2026 15:48

One of the best buys in our house was a ceiling fan that fits into the light bulb socket (also has a light too).

I've put trainers in the freezer before to freshen up. It does work for a bit.

Carpet cleaning foam is crap and leaves a residue. The vanish oxy clothing spray is much better if you have light carpets.

Crisps are more crunchy when cold (still wrapped) from the fridge.

indyocean · 24/09/2026 21:46

IhateHPSDeaneCnt · 27/08/2023 11:50

Another one that agrees with no using fabric conditioner. I stopped with towels and then gave up completely.

Same! The smell is always overpowering. I prefer not
to use