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Hannah Ingram-Moore -Victim or Villain?

409 replies

MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 15/08/2023 21:17

I'm inclined to think we've been scammed. Am I being unreasonable?

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ConfusedGin · 16/08/2023 19:12

AlexReventa · 16/08/2023 16:12

The Charity commission should have stepped in long before now.

The Charity Commission stepped in over 2 years ago.

The Foundation was set up in June 2020, and the Commission was first involved in March 2021 - mostly stemming from the amount she was planning to take as her wage. Her starting point was £100,000 (initially only 60k for 3 days a week, then the FT option)

For context, yes, some charity CEOs do receive that, but in charities where income is £30-40m. The Captain Tom Moore Foundation reported an income of £1.1m. The Commission questioned the benchmarking done to reach that figure. She was permitted £85,000 for a max of 9 months, which is still an incredibly inflated amount for the income (remembering that the £38m is entirely separate)

Then, they looked again in 2022 about the consultancy fees and third-party payments to their own companies - marketing and brand services, I believe. This was found to be legitimate start-up costs.

PecanButter50 · 16/08/2023 19:04

bookish83 · 16/08/2023 18:12

The worst thing about this is it is true! Where do they go!?

Drugs maybe? Isn't it meth or heroin or something where they use spoons? I'm not surprised if the stress of the issue within healthcare (especially when you can't make a decent cuppa) has driven some poor NHS workers to it.

PecanButter50 · 16/08/2023 19:01

Motnight · 15/08/2023 22:23

Just googled. It could have been Cliff Richard.

Can't see Cliff Richard being the wild party boy type somehow 😀😁

PecanButter50 · 16/08/2023 18:59

User2346 · 15/08/2023 22:05

Agree I always smelt a rat, Piers Morgan shoved it down all our throats even losing his temper with a viewer who said they didn’t want to clap for Captain Tom and yes the school hall was the very expensive Bedford school where the offspring attended. Of course at the time of madness it was akin to treason to question the motives of this family.

I am of the (admittedly not professional) opinion that Piers Morgan is somewhat unhinged.

Fuckingfuming1 · 16/08/2023 18:56

Namechangedforthis25 · 16/08/2023 18:50

It’s not about entitlement to live to 80

Science and progression means that we are

just like science and medicine is cutting the rate of infant mortality - what do you say about that

what is your proposed solution to an ageing population then?

There is no solution to an ageing population that’s going to happen. It can’t be stopped
However, we have to reconsider how much support we can offer. We privatise the NHS because we cannot maintain its current form. It was introduced at a time very much like the old age pension when life expectancy was precisely 68, and now it’s not. It’s unsustainable, so we the people have to pay more in or they get less out. Not suggesting eugenics or a mass cull although Boris did basically do one by the back door.

Kissmycousinkate · 16/08/2023 18:55

Smartiepants79 · 15/08/2023 23:47

Staff morale and therefore staff retainment is vitally important. You can’t run any fancy equipment with no staff.
The NHS is in crisis- mainly a staffing crisis.

Yes agree there is a staffing but crisis.if they dealt with the abuse of sick and the handsomely paid managers managed this they wouldn't have a staffing crisis. The poor buggers that are doing three peoples jobs are desperately looking elsewhere. Some people abused working in the NHS during covid some worked there arses off, some didn't step over the doorway, worked from home the whole time but still wanted the glory and discounts people were offering.

Namechangedforthis25 · 16/08/2023 18:50

Fuckingfuming1 · 16/08/2023 18:40

Until 1971 our life expectancy was precisely 68 for a man. I totally appreciate that I will feel differently on my 79th birthday, but we are not entitled to live to 80.

It’s not about entitlement to live to 80

Science and progression means that we are

just like science and medicine is cutting the rate of infant mortality - what do you say about that

what is your proposed solution to an ageing population then?

Fuckingfuming1 · 16/08/2023 18:40

Namechangedforthis25 · 16/08/2023 18:36

“That’s what’s meant to happen”?! Jeez you are quite something

i don’t think our average life expectancy is to be less than 70

Until 1971 our life expectancy was precisely 68 for a man. I totally appreciate that I will feel differently on my 79th birthday, but we are not entitled to live to 80.

KeepScrapingBy · 16/08/2023 18:38

I'd rather the money went towards Mars bars for NHS staff than some chancer's swimming pool!
👏

Namechangedforthis25 · 16/08/2023 18:36

Fuckingfuming1 · 16/08/2023 16:21

They both died before they received a penny from the state, which actually is what’s meant to happen if we are being honest.

Anyway, back to the matter in hand.

personally, I think the charitable donation should’ve gone towards free vending machines or whatever the medics required to get through the day both during Covid and now because it’s just as much of a shit show. I very much resent neonatal units having to rely on charity. When my agreement with the government is I pay taxes and they spend the money on neonatal units.

“That’s what’s meant to happen”?! Jeez you are quite something

i don’t think our average life expectancy is to be less than 70

bookish83 · 16/08/2023 18:12

CoffeeWithCheese · 16/08/2023 17:18

If the NHS is getting showered with stuff from it all - can we have some fucking teaspoons in staff kitchen cutlery drawers please?

Signed,
Anyone who has ever tried to make a brew in any NHS building.

The worst thing about this is it is true! Where do they go!?

chuffoff · 16/08/2023 17:54

SamphiretheTervosaurReturneth · 16/08/2023 17:24

There were 2 separate charity pots.

His - all £38million of which went to various NHS trusts via NHS Charities Together

The foundation his daughter set up - which is under continued investigation

Yes our trust charity received the funds that went towards the new unit - including family accommodation and a kitchen for families of neonatal babies to use. I hope that satisfies the OP.

I’m in agreement that the foundation is dodgy as f, however

YeOldeBuxomWench · 16/08/2023 17:25

I think this story demonstrates totally what this pandemic was about - privileged people getting even richer off the back of the poor. She's just in the club.

SamphiretheTervosaurReturneth · 16/08/2023 17:24

chuffoff · 15/08/2023 22:30

Our local hospital charity received a share and it was put towards the completion of a much needed new neo natal unit.

There were 2 separate charity pots.

His - all £38million of which went to various NHS trusts via NHS Charities Together

The foundation his daughter set up - which is under continued investigation

CoffeeWithCheese · 16/08/2023 17:18

If the NHS is getting showered with stuff from it all - can we have some fucking teaspoons in staff kitchen cutlery drawers please?

Signed,
Anyone who has ever tried to make a brew in any NHS building.

Fuckingfuming1 · 16/08/2023 17:17

People are already living to 110

Blossomtoes · 16/08/2023 17:16

Fuckingfuming1 · 16/08/2023 17:11

And for you. I’ve got absolutely no issue with you taking it for a limited amount of time. But let’s not try and fall ourselves. There are plenty that have not paid in for 44 years and will take out for more than 44 years.

I really don’t think so - if life expectancy increases to 110 we’ll be a super race!

Fuckingfuming1 · 16/08/2023 17:11

Blossomtoes · 16/08/2023 17:01

When my agreement with the government is I pay taxes and they spend the money on neonatal units.

My agreement was that I paid NI for 44 years and I got a pension. 🤷‍♀️

And for you. I’ve got absolutely no issue with you taking it for a limited amount of time. But let’s not try and fall ourselves. There are plenty that have not paid in for 44 years and will take out for more than 44 years.

Blossomtoes · 16/08/2023 17:01

When my agreement with the government is I pay taxes and they spend the money on neonatal units.

My agreement was that I paid NI for 44 years and I got a pension. 🤷‍♀️

Fuckingfuming1 · 16/08/2023 16:21

MrsMarzetti · 16/08/2023 11:56

How must your Grandparents feel/or felt knowing you begrudged them every penny of their pension. Did they know how much you resented them ?

They both died before they received a penny from the state, which actually is what’s meant to happen if we are being honest.

Anyway, back to the matter in hand.

personally, I think the charitable donation should’ve gone towards free vending machines or whatever the medics required to get through the day both during Covid and now because it’s just as much of a shit show. I very much resent neonatal units having to rely on charity. When my agreement with the government is I pay taxes and they spend the money on neonatal units.

Mimilamore · 16/08/2023 16:16

Dodgy from the start... hated the whole thing, not surprised about any of this...

Hoppinggreen · 16/08/2023 16:13

Ok, she’s a bit dodgy but she’s hardly kicking orphans to death is she?
She deserves the full force of the law IF she has done anything illegal but I don’t think she deserves such hate and vitriol

AlexReventa · 16/08/2023 16:12

The Charity commission should have stepped in long before now.

x2boys · 16/08/2023 16:11

Northernsouloldies · 16/08/2023 13:34

For the most part none of us knew this man and being old doesn't make you a Saint. The daughter went for it and created a capt. Moore industry and there is no way of knowing if dad was in on it.

Well.I assume he wss as he wss quite happy to do Laps a round his rather substantial.garden and make a single with Michael Ball(?).

x2boys · 16/08/2023 16:07

Justleaveitblankthen · 16/08/2023 15:49

Me too.
I had 'remembered him having a sudden heart attack, but have just realised it was Les Dennis' former comedy partner, Dustin Gee.

I used to get that lot mixed up back in the 80's.
Barrymore was another.

Not my cup of tea ☕

Gosh that's a blast from the past I think Russ abbot worked with led Dennis too.or am.I misremebering?