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Do you shave your armpits?

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ShavenUnderarmHaven · 08/08/2023 23:37

Have just done mine for the first time since last summer. I don't care what it looks like, but the humidity where I live has been a killer lately and I will try anything if it makes me feel less sweaty/ makes my antiperspirant work more effectively.

I have not shaved regularly for quite a few years now. In my twenties I pretty much always did though.

What's normal for you?

Is there less pressure on women to shave their underarms now compared to 20 years ago?

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KajsaKavat · 09/08/2023 11:07

h1d1ng1npla1ns1ght · 09/08/2023 11:03

Me, too. It took me a long time to realise I wasn’t actually removing hair for myself.

YESSSS!

I’ve had this discussion with so many girls who say they do it for hygiene reasons, not realising they do it because society is expecting them to.

h1d1ng1npla1ns1ght · 09/08/2023 11:03

KajsaKavat · 09/08/2023 11:01

I’ve embraced my hairy pits for about a year now.
I still read so many comments from other women online shaming women with hair on legs, pits, vulva, it’s so sad.

Me, too. It took me a long time to realise I wasn’t actually removing hair for myself.

Uremindmeofthebabe · 09/08/2023 11:03

I'd probably say, every 2 - 3 days.

KajsaKavat · 09/08/2023 11:01

I’ve embraced my hairy pits for about a year now.
I still read so many comments from other women online shaming women with hair on legs, pits, vulva, it’s so sad.

BakewellGin1 · 09/08/2023 11:00

Yes daily. Never sore or painful as its literally a once over with the blade due to no build up of hair.

Personal preference as I hate having body hair and feel fresher and cleaner without

h1d1ng1npla1ns1ght · 09/08/2023 10:57

I shaved for years but gave up a while ago and find that I’m less sweaty with armpit hair than without it. I get less smelly, too. I don’t know why.

StarlightLady · 09/08/2023 10:45

I run the razor over them every morning in the shower, so nothing has a significant chance to grow. The only hair on my body is on my head, but if others choose differently that's fine too.

I certainly don't do it with anyone else in mind. I just think it looks better so I feel better. It's practical too, deoderent adheres far better without underarm hair. This just maybe why a number of men have a problem which our noses have to put up with.

Itsnotrightbutitsok · 09/08/2023 10:40

I couldn’t think of anything worse than not shaving my arm pits.

I do it at least once a week. I don’t do it for anyone else but me but I can’t stand the feeling of having hairy arm pits.

helpfulperson · 09/08/2023 10:39

Interesting that often the reason given for doing it is feeling fresher and cleaner and yet many people, myself included find they sweat and smell less when not shaving.

Herejusttocomment · 09/08/2023 09:56

I shave my armpits maybe once a week in the winter and every few other days in the summer. It doesn't get too hot here so I usually wear sleeves.
In my 20s before coming to UK it used to be every other day and I spent so much on razors and my pits looked sore most times.

Also I think society is slightly more accepting now of a little armpit stubble or maybe I stopped caring what others think 😂

whumpthereitis · 09/08/2023 09:52

No, but only because I had electrolysis and got rid of them that way.

SamanthaVimes · 09/08/2023 09:50

I do mine a couple of times a year if I’m getting really dressed up for something (eg a wedding) but otherwise don’t bother. For those occasions it’s absolutely social pressure that makes me do it as I actually think it looks quite sexy with hair.

I feel much cleaner and less sweaty with hair. Every time I shave it reminds me why I don’t do it all the time.

As a teenager I shaved anything from the neck down so I’ve done a complete 180 since then!

OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow · 09/08/2023 09:38

Mine were never very hairy (fine and blonde) so maybe once a month if I could be arsed. Gave up completely in the 80s. Then menopause has wiped out most of my body hair except for a few rogue ones. Top tip though, don’t use one of those crystal things on your pits, I did last week and took the top layer of skin off. You think you are being very careful just getting rid of the odd ones then you’re putting sudocrem on in place of Mitchum.

Drews · 09/08/2023 09:37

Not often. Only once or twice a year if I'm wearing something sleeveless. It feels horrible though I really should just stop altogether and not care what anyone thinks. I think I smell more when I shave.

wehaveeaches · 09/08/2023 09:35

I like them and my underarea to be clean shaven, just feels nicer. I also like to be attractive to men, so I that comes into it but I'm pretty sure I would shave either way given no one sees down there and I still shave.

Louise303 · 09/08/2023 09:32

Alopeciabop · 09/08/2023 08:51

Can you please talk more about this - what did you use? How long did it take? Which body parts worked best/didn’t? And how well did it work…? Perfect smoothness no har or just short hair or thinner hair? I want to get one of these but obviously don’t know if ts worth the investment. I also have dark hair on very pale skin (the joy) so nervous it’ll not work.

It is worth it I use a Phillips lumea prestige very pricey but worth it there are different parts for face,underarms,bikini and another I use for legs or arms. It is best on pale skin and dark hair they used to do a trial or money back guarantee.

dikwad · 09/08/2023 09:29

@Anotherchristianmama No, I simply saw what I looked like with hair and what I looked like without hair and think the former looks terrible!

KimberleyClark · 09/08/2023 09:25

XenoBitch · 09/08/2023 01:22

See, I don't understand the face shaving. Since when was peach fuzz unacceptable?
I saw ads on FB for fuzz razors, and a lot of the comments were women berating others for being "too lazy" to shave hair that was not a problem when I was a teen.

Peach fuzz shaving was a thing in the 50s/60s, Elizabeth Taylor and Marilyn Monroe used to do it apparently. I just shave the unwanted hairs on my chin.

I shave my pits when they are going to be seen. But like pp I feel sweatier and smellier when shaved.

RedPony1 · 09/08/2023 09:24

Every other day all year

LemonLight · 09/08/2023 09:21

I've epilated for years and now the hair is barely noticeable

Hop27 · 09/08/2023 09:07

@Alopeciabop
Dark hair on pale skin is the best combination. You'll never get rid of 100% - but it's sparse and down like hair.
I'm working my way through everything and wish I'd done it sooner, although having mine done at a clinic.
Shave in between treatments, but there isn't much there now!!! I just like the clean feeling

MonkeyPuddle · 09/08/2023 08:58

I used to shave them every other day. Just force of habit really. Then decided I couldn’t be arsed any more, I shower every other day and have a sink wash every day anyway so they get a wash and I’ve had no issues with BO.
Doesn’t really cross my mind to shave. I do pluck my chin hairs though, I do draw the line there!

TragicMuse · 09/08/2023 08:54

Haven't done for about...9? 10? years. I just can't be that bothered.

I do my legs occasionally, if I remember.

Alopeciabop · 09/08/2023 08:51

Lindy2 · 08/08/2023 23:55

Home laser hair removal got rid of my underarm hair. I wish I'd done it years ago.

I no longer have to endure stubble rash and it is much cleaner and fresher.

Can you please talk more about this - what did you use? How long did it take? Which body parts worked best/didn’t? And how well did it work…? Perfect smoothness no har or just short hair or thinner hair? I want to get one of these but obviously don’t know if ts worth the investment. I also have dark hair on very pale skin (the joy) so nervous it’ll not work.

BarbedButterfly · 09/08/2023 08:43

Every other day. I find my deo doesn't work otherwise and same with other brands.

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