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When to worry...a bum one

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cactusjane · 16/07/2023 12:13

Not a troll, MN can verify.

Had bright red blood from my bottom for years. With notable piles. Nice. Seen the GP many times and been given creams which do ease the discomfort but don't get rid of them. I could probably cope with them as they aren't majorly painful or uncomfortable but the bleeding seems to have gotten worse lately to the point where I saw a small clot earlier.

Obviously I'm aware of the other more sinister signs of rectal bleeding but because of my age and the clear piles the doctors don't seem to want to consider anything else. I did have a colonoscopy a few years ago which was clear but it's still a worry when you see that much blood after a BM.

Is this normal? Has anyone else with piles had significant bleeding and how did you deal with it? I know surgery is an option but it really frightens me.

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 16/07/2023 16:19

I don’t want to be alarmist, but my MiL who had rectal bleeding which was dismissed by her GP as piles, died a couple of years later of bowel cancer.

Please insist on a referral/further tests.

OdeToBarney · 16/07/2023 16:14

Do you have health insurance through work or anything like that? I'd definitely want a second opinion (and am about to do something very similar myself).

cactusjane · 16/07/2023 16:09

I have mentioned cancer. Because I'm in my 30's they say very unlikely. And because the piles are fairly severe they put the bleeding down to that. As I said I had a colonoscopy about 3-4 years ago after one of my many trips to the GP because on that occasion a stool test had come back with markers.

No blood tests for a while and never been amebic. No other signs of pelvic congestion either.

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CC4712 · 16/07/2023 16:03

In addition to getting it checked again- when did they last do a blood test to check you aren't anaemic?

Yahyahs22 · 16/07/2023 16:00

My dad had this for years and it was always 'piles'. Turned out to be cancer. Don't leave it a second longer

alexisccd · 16/07/2023 15:28

Go back to the doctor with photos and ask for a referral

KatsuYum · 16/07/2023 15:23

Do you have any symptoms of pelvic congestion syndrome, which can cause piles. You are likely to have other varicose veins in your groin/legs and possibly have a dragging feeling in your pelvis sometimes.

Usually middle aged women who have had at least 1 child.

Daleksatemyshed · 16/07/2023 15:19

I had what I thought were piles but turned out to be Anal cancer. If I were you I'd go back to your Dr just to be sure. Don't mean to worry you but better safe than sorry Op

cactusjane · 16/07/2023 14:40

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